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Talking to you Partner about your kinks

2/1/172/1/17

12/30/2212/30/22

Actual: 6/22/17

by MasterGoatis

Replies: 9
Views: 5202

Encouraging them to try WAM?

2/14/172/14/17

1/31/181/31/18 by gorgeousGeorge

Replies: 8
Views: 6516

When to talk about wam.

4/25/174/25/17

1/17/181/17/18 by GacSplatter

Replies: 8
Views: 8607

5/24/175/24/17

2/23/192/23/19 by Potatoman-J

Replies: 25
Views: 14931

Your First Time with Her

6/3/176/3/17

3/30/233/30/23 by dormant

Replies: 16
Views: 12118

Would You Cheat?

7/2/177/2/17

4/18/184/18/18 by Potatoman-J

Replies: 26
Views: 22965

Talking Abiut Your Fetish

3/8/183/8/18

4/17/184/17/18 by SheTakestheCake

Replies: 9
Views: 12444

Dealing with rejection

6/2/186/2/18

4/21/254/21/25 by HH3

Replies: 19
Views: 4445

How do you explain WAM

6/4/186/4/18

6/12/196/12/19 by Edu Mud Lover

Replies: 10
Views: 7174

8/3/188/3/18

by bex

8/13/198/13/19 by jurning

Replies: 6
Views: 6357

Any ideas what we can do? page 1 2 3

3/19/193/19/19

10/26/2110/26/21 by Curiouspaints

Replies: 67
Views: 22059

Spouse/Significant Other Participation page 1 2 3 4

5/18/195/18/19

1/21/251/21/25 by Muddddy

Replies: 97
Views: 31321

6/28/196/28/19

8/17/198/17/19 by Silver_sea

Replies: 5
Views: 4964

New Group Purpose

7/23/197/23/19

9/11/199/11/19 by ScotsPie

Replies: 21
Views: 22836

Respect vs. Dignity

8/13/198/13/19

10/12/2010/12/20 by Curiouspaints

Replies: 4
Views: 9225

9/1/199/1/19

by messyclothes

9/1/199/1/19 by Potatoman-J

Replies: 2
Views: 12033

Looking for Pen Pals

9/1/199/1/19

9/1/199/1/19 by Potatoman-J

Replies: 1
Views: 1885

9/10/199/10/19

by jfs

1/1/201/1/20 by Wamlanta

Replies: 14
Views: 15076

Just had a media request from a TV production company

10/7/1910/7/19

by iain-ecgunge

10/10/1910/10/19 by iain-ecgunge

Replies: 10
Views: 5154

World Mental Health Day

10/7/1910/7/19

10/12/1910/12/19 by Potatoman-J

Replies: 15
Views: 2577

Thought I'd share this here too

10/21/1910/21/19

by iain-ecgunge

10/23/1910/23/19 by Lizzie_Claymore

Replies: 11
Views: 3766

Mirror, mirror, on the wall, who's the most fucked up of us all?

10/21/1910/21/19

by Jay

12/6/1912/6/19 by Sploshman

Replies: 9
Views: 2956

Negotiations / consent

10/31/1910/31/19

1/10/201/10/20 by Messmaster

Replies: 1
Views: 3738

What would you say...?

11/7/1911/7/19

2/27/202/27/20 by writingismylife

Replies: 19
Views: 4990

The parenthood roller coaster and WAM

12/5/1912/5/19

12/31/1912/31/19 by floridamama

Replies: 8
Views: 7523

Just checking in. page 1 2

12/18/1912/18/19

1/13/201/13/20 by piecub

Replies: 32
Views: 6579

Introducing wam to a partner

1/1/201/1/20

1/1/201/1/20 by Potatoman-J

Replies: 4
Views: 7928

1/2/201/2/20

1/5/201/5/20 by iain-ecgunge

Replies: 3
Views: 4701

Negative thought cycle

1/5/201/5/20

by Gunge Lad S J

1/30/211/30/21 by Curiouspaints

Replies: 29
Views: 19595

1/16/201/16/20

by iain-ecgunge

1/16/201/16/20 by iain-ecgunge

Replies: 0
Views: 15638

Bad start to a new year?

1/16/201/16/20

2/10/202/10/20 by Piefun

Replies: 7
Views: 10950

Telling your friends.

1/26/201/26/20

3/9/213/9/21 by Curiouspaints

Replies: 11
Views: 8141

3/10/203/10/20

by iain-ecgunge

12/3/2012/3/20 by Curiouspaints

Replies: 7
Views: 41609

how not to go crazy page 1 2 3 4 5

3/19/203/19/20

by iain-ecgunge

8/27/228/27/22 by iain-ecgunge

Replies: 128
Views: 31863

Toothache struggles

4/28/204/28/20

4/30/204/30/20 by Potatoman-J

Replies: 16
Views: 11283

Mental health please help. page 1 2

5/24/205/24/20

8/27/208/27/20 by Maddog2008

Replies: 39
Views: 17222

5/25/205/25/20

5/9/225/9/22 by Curiouspaints

Replies: 19
Views: 35081

Something I just have to say

5/30/205/30/20

5/30/205/30/20 by Potatoman-J

Replies: 2
Views: 8624

8/29/208/29/20

9/2/209/2/20 by ncgreg231Lc2

Replies: 7
Views: 6991

Here We Go Again...? Maybe...? page 1 2

9/23/209/23/20

8/1/218/1/21 by Kershenbaum Gabri

Replies: 30
Views: 7088

Interesting article

9/25/209/25/20

9/25/209/25/20 by Mike Nomic

Replies: 0
Views: 13259

What to do on my birthday?

11/27/2011/27/20

11/29/2011/29/20 by Curiouspaints

Replies: 11
Views: 10764

The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse.

12/21/2012/21/20

12/22/2012/22/20 by iain-ecgunge

Replies: 1
Views: 12005

How Many of Us Are There?

1/7/211/7/21

7/7/217/7/21 by Jay

Replies: 6
Views: 5893

Anxiety, low confidence stuff.

2/7/212/7/21

8/29/218/29/21 by newpieguy09

Replies: 12
Views: 14116

3/14/213/14/21

3/24/223/24/22

Actual: 12/15/21

by masqueradeandmessy

Replies: 14
Views: 7996

Depression and forgiving myself

5/19/215/19/21

by Wet_Sneakers

7/15/217/15/21 by Potatoman-J

Replies: 5
Views: 4545

WAM Grupo Telegram

5/27/215/27/21

5/16/235/16/23 by Elmen123

Replies: 4
Views: 14544

Help in taking steps.

5/31/215/31/21

6/1/216/1/21 by MuddyMcMudd

Replies: 10
Views: 5206

Likes, loves, upvotes etc--approval and validation

7/10/217/10/21

7/31/217/31/21 by Muddylynx

Replies: 11
Views: 2281

Struggly times.

8/4/218/4/21

8/29/218/29/21 by newpieguy09

Replies: 4
Views: 21073

Masturbation and Depression and Isolation. page 1 2

8/29/218/29/21

5/10/225/10/22 by maxcd

Replies: 34
Views: 9791

Just reaching out.

9/18/219/18/21

9/23/219/23/21 by ncgreg231Lc2

Replies: 3
Views: 7527

Message replies and seeking attention

10/11/2110/11/21

10/14/2110/14/21 by Muddylynx

Replies: 7
Views: 6820

Being less of a man? (Low sperm/testosterone)

11/19/2111/19/21

11/21/2111/21/21 by Silver_sea

Replies: 6
Views: 11225

New here, but thank you

11/30/2111/30/21

12/14/2112/14/21 by fslong1

Replies: 8
Views: 2550

How to be a WAM model

filthynaughtygirl

12/4/2112/4/21

by filthynaughtygirl

12/21/2112/21/21 by Messy.Charlotte

Replies: 3
Views: 6988

Vanilla Spouse--how do you cope? page 1 2

12/9/2112/9/21

8/8/248/8/24 by Tar_n_Feathers

Replies: 36
Views: 17485

Night time depression

12/14/2112/14/21

1/2/221/2/22 by WetNikki

Replies: 8
Views: 13869

Mud/clay supplies

12/19/2112/19/21

6/19/246/19/24 by FarmCouple

Replies: 6
Views: 4259

1/25/221/25/22

by Tar_n_Feathers

1/25/221/25/22 by Potatoman-J

Replies: 1
Views: 1165

Would you do it?

2/5/222/5/22

11/16/2211/16/22 by mudman121

Replies: 17
Views: 7650

iso Ray of Sunshine

3/9/223/9/22

3/13/223/13/22 by Potatoman-J

Replies: 2
Views: 2061

A place for mental help 24/7

3/11/223/11/22

by Curiouspaints

3/11/223/11/22 by Potatoman-J

Replies: 1
Views: 10002

F... me! Sorry just need to vent!

3/13/223/13/22

by Tar_n_Feathers

3/25/223/25/22 by Jay

Replies: 7
Views: 1945

Finding initiative--hitting a ceiling

4/17/224/17/22

4/17/224/17/22 by Curiouspaints

Replies: 1
Views: 3477

4/19/224/19/22

3/22/243/22/24 by maxcd

Replies: 15
Views: 7763

with a mind full of hell

5/23/225/23/22

6/2/226/2/22 by longarm69

Replies: 5
Views: 8598

How Much is to Much?

6/19/226/19/22

6/19/226/19/22 by muddyfeet

Replies: 2
Views: 3402

7/9/227/9/22

8/3/228/3/22 by wamadeus

Replies: 11
Views: 4720

First WAM memory? page 1 2

8/22/228/22/22

saturdaysat by Shukov90

Replies: 49
Views: 6366

First Time Getting Messy

completelymessy

8/23/228/23/22

by completelymessy

9/7/229/7/22 by Curiouspaints

Replies: 3
Views: 1783

8/29/228/29/22

3/3/233/3/23 by Emulsioner

Replies: 14
Views: 3106

I'm just broken

10/4/2210/4/22

7/15/237/15/23 by Potatoman-J

Replies: 15
Views: 3937

Worldmentalhealthday

10/10/2210/10/22

10/14/2210/14/22 by Curiouspaints

Replies: 4
Views: 2316

Odette Delacroix

11/6/2211/6/22

11/6/2211/6/22 by LifeIsGoo

Replies: 0
Views: 1588

Help to understand and research

11/12/2211/12/22

by CandyCustard

3/28/233/28/23 by CandyCustard

Replies: 8
Views: 1233

mental physical experience's

11/18/2211/18/22

by Curiouspaints

11/22/2211/22/22 by Curiouspaints

Replies: 5
Views: 1533

Woman overcomes custard phobia and takes a custard bath

DungeonMasterOne

11/20/2211/20/22

by DungeonMasterOne

11/20/2211/20/22 by DungeonMasterOne

Replies: 0
Views: 1459

BarryMcCockiner2

12/15/2212/15/22

by BarryMcCockiner2

12/24/2212/24/22 by WetAndMuddyFun

Replies: 4
Views: 1156

What are considered some of the starter messy items?

BarryMcCockiner2

1/14/231/14/23

by BarryMcCockiner2

7/4/247/4/24 by messylad96

Replies: 4
Views: 1202

1/27/231/27/23

3/30/233/30/23 by longarm69

Replies: 5
Views: 1300

coping with loss

2/8/232/8/23

3/30/233/30/23 by longarm69

Replies: 2
Views: 799

4/4/234/4/23

4/7/234/7/23 by Kershenbaum

Replies: 3
Views: 810

4/12/234/12/23

by DryHairLover

4/15/234/15/23 by Platypus539

Replies: 1
Views: 988

How do you end a WAM story?

BarryMcCockiner2

5/11/235/11/23

by BarryMcCockiner2

5/19/235/19/23 by DungeonMasterOne

Replies: 3
Views: 1438

So, how's it going?

6/8/236/8/23

7/13/237/13/23 by Sploshman

Replies: 21
Views: 1163

6/20/236/20/23

6/20/236/20/23 by Curiouspaints

Replies: 1
Views: 916

Describing your depression or anxiety

7/15/237/15/23

7/20/237/20/23 by FatPieFan

Replies: 11
Views: 1177

Need to get away again

7/19/237/19/23

7/20/237/20/23 by Curiouspaints

Replies: 5
Views: 784

Any good tips on dealing with grief

7/28/237/28/23

10/14/2310/14/23 by MrWetShirt

Replies: 11
Views: 1606

Divorce and wam

8/9/238/9/23

by Curiouspaints

9/2/239/2/23 by Wamlanta

Replies: 3
Views: 1523

WAM potential hotels

9/1/239/1/23

3/8/243/8/24 by MidsWAMGuy

Replies: 4
Views: 1134

Looking for interactive messy attractions, world-wide

11/12/2311/12/23

9/19/259/19/25 by Messylita

Replies: 14
Views: 2187

Nerves about ordering first custom

12/11/2312/11/23

by Pie me gently

12/11/2312/11/23 by Pie me gently

Replies: 0
Views: 674

12/13/2312/13/23

1/27/241/27/24 by Speccybeard

Replies: 26
Views: 2186

12/30/2312/30/23

1/28/241/28/24 by SloppyPig

Replies: 2
Views: 940

WAM Health and Safety

1/28/241/28/24

2/3/242/3/24 by thedude18

Replies: 5
Views: 961

2/7/242/7/24

2/26/242/26/24 by Speccybeard

Replies: 3
Views: 1198

Happy Mardi Gras.

2/13/242/13/24

by Alex Sanchez

2/13/242/13/24 by Alex Giron Sanchez

Replies: 0
Views: 532

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