Hey, I'm Cat.
33 year old bisexual BBW.
After some bad experiences with people/cheating bastards here, I'm back sticking my head around the door. Be gentle with me and hopefully I won't be scared off again.
Not a huge chatter so please bear with. My inbox fills up quicker than I can deal with, I have a day job that takes precedent so please don't take it personally if it takes a while to answer. I am here for fun and with very limited free time!
Anything disrespectful or overly sexual without consent will be ignored or blocked.
If we were chatting before my hiatus and I went quiet, I am truly sorry. Please know it was not personal.

Lgbtq+ safe space

Little bit about Cat and WAM:
After a childhood of hiding from clowns at birthday parties and running out of the room whenever mess was on TV (imagine how difficult that was growing up on the 90's) I found I was completely fascinated by mess but just knew that I couldn't admit that to anyone or let them see my reactions to watching it. Spent a lot of time daydreaming what it would be like to be messy. Fast forward to late teenage Cat then realising it was a kink and a lot fell into place.
Spent a lot of time living with family or partners where I wasn't free to explore my desires. Maybe I'm making up for lost time now
Why am I here? Wish I could answer that. After being unable to share for so long, it's quite nice to be around like-minded people. Even if it's just lurking but knowing I'm not the only person with a dirty little secret. Learning to embrace my WAM side and hopefully have a lot of fun.
I'm a sucker for gunge, certainly my substance of choice for now. No savoury and definitely no bodily fluids.

Cat in general;
I am shy and introverted. Until I get comfortable enough and I'll yap your ear off and over share way too much. I love musical theatre, improv comedy and horror movies. Halloween and Eurovision are my two favourite times of year. I go by bisexual (the flag is my three favourite colours, how could I not?) but also happy to be considered as pan and demi. Basically I don't mind anyones sex/gender identity etc, as long as you have a good heart. And preferably a penchant for gunge.