OK so I am really just stuck and don't know what I'm doing as my head is telling me heart to leave my fiance of 2 years which my heart doesn't want to do, I have been having breakdown etc and am not coping health wise, I know this is nothing to do with wam and we have been having arguments about anything and everything.
1. Do you love this person? Are they someone you seek the best interest of? 2. Are you at a point where you can communicate honestly with each other? 3. Couples counseling immediately!
There are so many questions to ask here, but these are just to start. I would imagine that if you've been engaged for 2 years, you should have some good communication and honesty with each other.
Well, I mean there you go. You guys are engaged, don't communicate and one or more parties aren't willing to seek help. I highly doubt you're going to go forward towards marriage at this point. It might be a good idea to just go your separate ways if you don't start talking.
Getting married isn't going to make the underlying problems go away (been there, sadly). They can fester and grow. If you feel stuck now, you'll be a lot worse when you actually are. I'm sorry you're going though this
Ow mann, just read these posts. Hope you are doing fine. Are you still with you're fiance??? I do have to agree with Richard and Jason, communication is the most important thing in a relationship, the rest comes later. And gettinng married, well sauseboss made a good comment about that, the underlaying problems will be get stuck and ,well, they will explode like a vulcano, and that will be with a big bang. Everybody would get hurt, more then you are right now.