I thought of a new topic to get some opinions on. How bold are you about doing wam things? For example, if someone told you to jump in the pool fully clothed, would you do it? Would you take a pie in the face in public? Would you be willing to take a pieing like Cream Me Again has done, with tons of people watching?
Here is what made me think of this question. My family and I have a vacation planned this summer and we will have access to a pool. I am hoping to get pushed in the pool fully clothed. The pool is available to the community and there would be a "walk of shame" back to the rental house. I am also hoping to get pies by some friends this summer. In my normal life I don't like being the center of attention and I'm afraid I will chicken out.
As for everything else you mentioned probably helping a charity while in public. I wouldn't consider the pool thing a wall of shame as well since I could make it look like an accident.
Agree with curiouspaints, a lot can be made to look plausible, negating the embarrassment. Or under the cover of doing something for charity, you might be able to get away with more messy activities in public
With access to the pool, why wait to be pushed in? It is summer so I am sure it will be hot. I would say just jump in. Swim around and have fun and act like it is normal. If anyone says anything just shrug it off like hey clothes dry big deal. You have to wear a bathing suit of some sort to swim in a pool, why does it have to be a conventional one?
Thanks for the responses! I'm not the most outgoing person so having that kind of attention isn't something I would normally like, but I do like the humiliation idea of being pushed in and walking back wet. I also like the idea of other people pieing me. It's always been something done in secret, not in public.
As people have pointed out in previous threads similar to this: If you're gaining sexual gratification from such acts and you're hoping to have people indulge you without them being aware, you're essentially coercing people into a non-consensual sexual activity.
It's one thing if these things happen naturally, but if you're trying to construct scenarios in which your friends of strangers are unknowingly indulging your sexual fantasies that's kinda wrong.
M.M.M said: As people have pointed out in previous threads similar to this: If you're gaining sexual gratification from such acts and you're hoping to have people indulge you without them being aware, you're essentially coercing people into a non-consensual sexual activity.
It's one thing if these things happen naturally, but if you're trying to construct scenarios in which your friends of strangers are unknowingly indulging your sexual fantasies that's kinda wrong.
I'm not saying you're wrong, but what about the fun, slapstick element of wam? An element that doesn't have to have a sexual aspect to it?
But also I hate humiliation, or laughing in stocks or public spectacle etc. No, it's always going to be behind closed doors if I'm the one getting messy.
If I was with someone who wanted to get messy publicly, then I would tell them of my kink first but would be ok to mess them up if they were fine.
I don't know exactly if I were into a "walk of shame", I'm fully open to be thrown to the pool fully clothed, I would actually be the one who pushes the other people to the pool, or I would jump myself into the pool inviting the others to follow me, i am not into being punished or dominated, I guess that in the end it all depends on the person
Edu Mud Lover said: I don't know exactly if I were into a "walk of shame", I'm fully open to be thrown to the pool fully clothed, I would actually be the one who pushes the other people to the pool, or I would jump myself into the pool inviting the others to follow me, i am not into being punished or dominated, I guess that in the end it all depends on the person
I'm not talking about a domination "walk of shame". I'm talking about walking back to the house fully clothed and wet.
Gunk said: I've done a lot of these things either in a public setting or viewable by others. For me WAM can be separated into casual and sexual.
I was born with a lack of shame which means I'm always up for doing whatever stupid thing comes into my head, meaning I have volunteered to be gunged, egged and pied for a laugh. It was only when my other half wanted to get involved that it ever became sexual which... that's an intimate thing for me.
A very long winded way of saying yes but if it was a sexual thing then I would always want to do that either privately or between a select few individuals. Love the question though!
I'm actually a very shy person who doesn't like being in the spotlight. I agree that I think there can be a separation between something being sexual and something being casual and fun.
Been there done that pool lakes rivers whatever, including with normal friends and a good number of those time were during high school days, and I only roll with it if the circumstances are right that being I'm not wearing pants, long sleeves, jacket or larger things like that because that I just don't do nor want to. Of course during hot days and nights and in shorts and T which is common with me anyways, then yes during those times I go right in. Good memories and stories there too.
There is definitely a difference between sexual and just random casual fun to a degree, but if a chick in the right outfit is among the group hormones can be triggered.
I would get gunged in public as it would be impossible for me to get aroused with people watching! I like the fun side of wam.
The only thing is though I wouldn't want anyone to record it and post it on social media which would be very hard to avoid since so many are inconsiderate when it comes to their phones.
I'm pretty shy, so I think not by myself, but I think I would have no problem of being pied, egged, gunged or dunked in pubblic by someone in a proper context like a gameshow , challange, dare or as punishment for losing a bet
It's a very personal opinion and everyone has their modesty in public... I was shy as a kid but after adolescence I liked being the clown. It gives me pleasure the people who don't like wam to see me messy... their astonished faces make me morbid. their laughs. their teasing. I like to be submissive and have been forced to do a lot of pretty dirty things in public.
I too am a very shy person so I don't feel comfortable being the center of attention. Since my thing is mud it is a little more difficult to indulge in than just getting pushed into a pool. But I am trying to participate more and more. Mud volleyball games and ATV parks seem to have a good supply of mud and muddy people. I try to do whatever I can to get pushed in or just jump in. For some reason, even though I'm shy, I do get a bit of a rush by having people see me muddy. I don't consider the aftermath a walk of shame, but more a walk of triumph!