I am in a poly relationship with two longer-term partners my wife and my long-term girlfriend. My wife HATES the idea of getting messy but I introduced my gf to the WAM world and she loves it. She also has many femdom fantasies which means she really gets into it.

I recently came out to my boyfriend about my WAM fetish, and it's gone so much better than I ever imagined it would. He was really surprised and a little overwhelmed when I first told him, but he's been really supportive about it and made me feel a lot less ashamed of it. Yesterday we had our first messy session with two bowls of pudding and a bunch of pies and it was amazing! He enjoyed it more than he expected, I think it might be something we start to do fairly often. Can't wait to see how our love life changes as we transition towards doing WAM more often

I feel truly lucky that my wife allows me to indulge in all of my kinks . When we met, we both had kinks we were nervous to share and played a guessing game until we both guessed each others. It was really wholesome lol. I've had the chance to get her messy many times. I'm excited for her to take the reigns and get me messy, which I have recently discovered during a messy session with me where she finally got some revenge, that I'm incredibly into her gunge domming me, hopefully will get to do that as early as this weekend.

Fairly regular sessions - albeit with me in the receiving end.

My now wife was always intrigued by sploshing, we met on fetlife so always been open about our likes. She did have to google what sploshing was but enjoyed the sound of it. First time we both got messy together we went on a night out and was staying in a hotel, after several drinks and later in the evening she whispered to me "I've bought some custard for the hotel room". Needless to say i couldn't wait to get back to the room quick enough. Once we got in the room she got the cartons of custard which had been warming on the radiator, she opened it sat me down on the bed, poured some on the bed and started sucking my cock, while sucking she poured custard onto me then she said "now mess me up". I laid her on the bed and poured another carton onto her body and started rubbing it all over. She loved the feeling and how slippery it was. I poured some over her pussy and gave her some oral before she begged me to cover her and fuck her. This blew my mind and i was amazed that she enjoyed it so much.

Since then we have had a fair few sessions but having full sex in a paddling pool full of gunge is still my favourite and we do wish we could do it more but having a child does kind of limit how often our sessions though we still have amazing sex even without the involvement of sploshing.

I know i'm particularly lucky but i enjoy trying things my wife enjoys

Our mutual interest in getting messy has developed over the years and it gets better each year. We started out with experimentation in sensual message and added different mediums, communicating our thoughts, fantasies and ideas for our next adventure. One thing led to another and now our adventures will leave our kids in shock.

What a great thread with some truly inspirational thoughts.

After many years of happy marriage, and less shock and more interest from my wife these days, when WAM comes up in conversation, it's time I grasped the nettle and fully opened up to my wife.

My wife tolerates it at best: she knows I solo wam, but she isn't excited by it or wants to join in. She had a go early on, but won't engage at all now.