My love of mud is personal and a big part of who I am. My partner tried it a long time ago but it didn't float their boat, unluckily I felt, but luckily they didn't stop me continuing to enjoy it by myself - don't get me wrong, they're not pleased as punch, but haven't forbade it. So, I am a solo wammer by circumstance.

This got me thinking, is WAM more commonly a solo experience or a shared one? So, another poll the answer will find (end Yoda voice).

Note: This poll is about how you generally partake in your WAM activities and not what you would prefer.

I've always been wamming solo, besides the vanilla wetlook/chocolate sauce thing with my ex. She wasn't into exploring further, which was ok of course. Don't want to force people into things they don't like just for my pleasure. Would totally not enjoy it then. Now i'm single again, and still wamming solo. Trying more/new things and at a slightly bigger scale.

Having a female partner (or fwb) to wam together (and have messy sex if she's into that) would be really terrific. But being/willing to get into wam is not a requirement for the future partner. I consider other things more important for a good relationship. As long as i'm allowed to continue wam solo, if i would still have the need, of course

Well. that's not really a 'fair' poll, as we could only pick one...... I woulda' liked to choose all '4', but will hafta' go with just '3'....

I've been blessed with my spouse who had no idea of my messy fetish, but when she did, she allows me to indulge whenever I feel the need. Then she tried it, and it sparked her interest into getting messy as well. So, I get to indulge in both solo and with my wife, I prefer it with her. wink wink

I am a fiery ball of magma hot raging jealousy!!!!!

But seriously, you've got the dream right there, nice to know it does exist.

Absolutely solo wammer. I have a very Vanilla spouse which won't change.

I've been incredibly lucky and, quite without trying - because I didn't even mention it for the first couple of years of our marriage - I have a pretty open minded wife, whose stated attitude has always been "It doesn't excite me directly, but I love how excited it makes you so, yes, let's do it". I actually think it's been a real positive in our relationship - after 25 years of marriage I'm not sure sex would be as eagerly anticipated, planned for, obliquely referenced and so on if it was just going to be missionary, in bed, with the lights out again! Maybe, since I have a fetish, I find it hard to imagine what sex would be like without it, but I do think the excitement of planning new substances, scenarios, outfits etc keeps sex fresh and exciting - for both of us.

Only been a solo wammer, but with every photo i upload and chat i have with people on here, my confidence to meet up with someone and get wet or messy grows.

Most often it's solo, but I've also done a couple of group gunge events and a couple of times with friends. I find solo gunge play a little underwhelming and don't really feel motivated to do more of it, but for some reason the mud experience is different and I still find it rewarding if I'm by myself.
I'd love to have local WAM pals, but it's hard to find someone consistent and with a compatible vibe and play style in my area.

mostly my sessions are solo, but definately prefer sessions with someone else

The trouble with multiple choice buttons. A slight majority solo over time but closely followed by wet with multiple people with the same interest and a select one or two others into messy. I rarely do messy alone so I have done that more with others.

Yeah there's definitely a graph of fewer solo sessions over more time, but still the occasional one, usually under the direction of someone else.

Solo. Especially as I am a bit of a control freak, really hard for me to imagine being able to let someone else control the flow of the pies into my face...

Could be a step out of your comfort zone though

When you have some one doing it who you feel totally at ease with and trust.

Interesting results: as many people seem to have a shared WAM experience as do those whom fly solo, 30:29. I find this heartening and saddening in equal measures that lots of lucky folk are living the dream, whilst for others it's just a dream.

It is what you make of it......., or what you want it to be.......