My love of mud is personal and a big part of who I am. My partner tried it a long time ago but it didn't float their boat, unluckily I felt, but luckily they didn't stop me continuing to enjoy it by myself - don't get me wrong, they're not pleased as punch, but haven't forbade it. So, I am a solo wammer by circumstance.

This got me thinking, is WAM more commonly a solo experience or a shared one? So, another poll the answer will find (end Yoda voice).

Note: This poll is about how you generally partake in your WAM activities and not what you would prefer.

I've always been wamming solo, besides the vanilla wetlook/chocolate sauce thing with my ex. She wasn't into exploring further, which was ok of course. Don't want to force people into things they don't like just for my pleasure. Would totally not enjoy it then. Now i'm single again, and still wamming solo. Trying more/new things and at a slightly bigger scale.

Having a female partner (or fwb) to wam together (and have messy sex if she's into that) would be really terrific. But being/willing to get into wam is not a requirement for the future partner. I consider other things more important for a good relationship. As long as i'm allowed to continue wam solo, if i would still have the need, of course

Well. that's not really a 'fair' poll, as we could only pick one...... I woulda' liked to choose all '4', but will hafta' go with just '3'....

I've been blessed with my spouse who had no idea of my messy fetish, but when she did, she allows me to indulge whenever I feel the need. Then she tried it, and it sparked her interest into getting messy as well. So, I get to indulge in both solo and with my wife, I prefer it with her. wink wink

I am a fiery ball of magma hot raging jealousy!!!!!

But seriously, you've got the dream right there, nice to know it does exist.

Absolutely solo wammer. I have a very Vanilla spouse which won't change.

I've been incredibly lucky and, quite without trying - because I didn't even mention it for the first couple of years of our marriage - I have a pretty open minded wife, whose stated attitude has always been "It doesn't excite me directly, but I love how excited it makes you so, yes, let's do it". I actually think it's been a real positive in our relationship - after 25 years of marriage I'm not sure sex would be as eagerly anticipated, planned for, obliquely referenced and so on if it was just going to be missionary, in bed, with the lights out again! Maybe, since I have a fetish, I find it hard to imagine what sex would be like without it, but I do think the excitement of planning new substances, scenarios, outfits etc keeps sex fresh and exciting - for both of us.

Only been a solo wammer, but with every photo i upload and chat i have with people on here, my confidence to meet up with someone and get wet or messy grows.

Most often it's solo, but I've also done a couple of group gunge events and a couple of times with friends. I find solo gunge play a little underwhelming and don't really feel motivated to do more of it, but for some reason the mud experience is different and I still find it rewarding if I'm by myself.
I'd love to have local WAM pals, but it's hard to find someone consistent and with a compatible vibe and play style in my area.

mostly my sessions are solo, but definately prefer sessions with someone else

The trouble with multiple choice buttons. A slight majority solo over time but closely followed by wet with multiple people with the same interest and a select one or two others into messy. I rarely do messy alone so I have done that more with others.

Yeah there's definitely a graph of fewer solo sessions over more time, but still the occasional one, usually under the direction of someone else.

Solo. Especially as I am a bit of a control freak, really hard for me to imagine being able to let someone else control the flow of the pies into my face...

Could be a step out of your comfort zone though

When you have some one doing it who you feel totally at ease with and trust.

Interesting results: as many people seem to have a shared WAM experience as do those whom fly solo, 30:29. I find this heartening and saddening in equal measures that lots of lucky folk are living the dream, whilst for others it's just a dream.

It is what you make of it......., or what you want it to be.......

Non-existent now. It was mostly solo, and early on exhilarating! But as time went on, it became more and more depressing. I need a partner to enjoy it anything sexual at this point. Masturbation is mainly for post nut clarity and to try and clear my hormones at this point.

Solo when it happens, but very rare at this point. For mess, there are two factors: money is tight right now, and the amount of stuff to make enough mess to really enjoy is north of $50; and the time and effort to clean up after post-nut clarity is a huge chore. In summer, I'll usually get out a few times a month for late night clothed swims at a nearby river, but it's been a very rainy late spring/early summer, and where I can go with safe and discreet late night parking the river has been too dangerously high and fast to play in.

Before we were married, my now wife tried swimming clothed with me a few times, but it wasn't just something that didn't turn her on, she really, really hated how the wet clothing felt on her skin. I have a hall pass if I ever had an opportunity to play with someone into it, but that's not realistic.

My wamming is now all solo. My wife indulged me a few times when we first met which was wonderful but now wants nothing to do with it because it makes her uncomfortable. She's not at all fussed about me doing it solo as long as she has nothing to do with it.

I'd also love to know, the 7 people who said they wam with friends, how did that come about?
Are they same sex (assuming you're heterosexual)
Did you want someone to get you meds so you asked? How did it come about? It's something I've loosely toyed with and wondered about asking some friends to indulge me.

I have had a few meets. I've a regular female not on UMD who I meet as mutual friends for WAM fun.

I've met a few on here as mutual same and opposite sex meets. For messy sessions too

Since childhood, alone. My wife knew about me for almost 30 years, but I never forced her to do it, it wouldn't be the same, she would have to want it herself. She supported me in it, she didn't mind, and she wanted it to be just our secret, for that I respected her very much. Until last year, when she found another man, and told him that I was a pervert and what I was doing. Since then, I only want to be alone. Just like I did once I started.

We're all sexual creatures driven by hormones and desire. Pervert is an unfair term, she'd get upset if called her boring or vanilla - it's just people liking what they like and no one should be ashamed of what that is (provided that it is not harmful to anyone else).