Hi all. Please excuse me if this isn't the right place for this and remove if need be.

So I have enjoyed WAM content for years, but I think it has gotten to the point that I can only "enjoy myself" to WAM content. I can see images/photos of a beautiful naked woman and nothing really happens, but when WAM gets involved I am aroused immediately.

Now I am not in a relationship, so it doesn't impact that. But I am afraid if I am ever in one, I am worried I won't be able have much of a sex drive and/or be able to perform if WAM isn't involved.

Does anybody else feel this way? Or am I just a weirdo freak?

I draw a big distinction between sex drive in relation to 'enjoying content' and sex drive when it comes to being with people. With people it's a dynamic social situation in which both are finding each other out and seeing what ticks. For me, the jeopardy in how there is much promise vs. the possibility of nothing, dependent on the interaction, makes it such a different game with heightened sexual energies of its own, and any added wet and messiness is a very lucky bonus rather than the 'minimum requirement'.

Also, one could accidentally-on-purpose be a little bit careless with the lube...

Firstly, fetishes are normal, common, and don't in anyway make you a weird person or a freak. Second, if and when you get involved in a relationship, you should communicate your desires to your partner. If you're at a stage where your slapping around each other's jibbly bits, you can share with each other what gets you off, you know?

Welcome to being a weirdo freak-its fun here! lol But honestly, I think if you are in a relationship and really care for the person, being intimate with them in person, skin to skin, you won't have any issues Sex is about connecting with that person, and while yes, bringing other things in to mix it up (I am full of wam jokes), I think you will really enjoy the company of your person in all aspects

To add to this, coming out to your partner is a great litmus test for the relationship. Is it scary, hell yeah, but if it's meant to be they will work with you. Be patient and let them set the pace within their comfort level. It's okay to say what you want but maybe do it outside the actual play time. Have an honest discussion. Also I feel the same way about worrying about arousal without wam involved. First you can use your imagination or have your partner use words if they are comfortable doing so during sex. Secondly I find when push comes to shove no matter how much I wam my vanilla sex drive always shows up, it might just be a little slower to kick into high gear.

It is possible that you have developed a form of addiction to WAM. I have experienced this myself. Speaking only for myself, therapy does help. I would definitely recommend consulting a therapist to help you determine how you want to move forward. There is absolutely nothing wrong with the WAM fetish, but it can become a problem if it interferes with you relating to another person in a relationship.

You might very well have a true fetish. An inability to get off sexually without whatever the object of your fetish is. There are definitely people here who have it, I've even known some producers that did. It could also be addiction.

If it's something you're concerned about for your sexual health, you should look into maybe consulting a therapist.

If you are dating, see how things go with someone. If you really love and connect with them, you may find you feel differently.