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"What drives your WAM interest?"
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I know that for a lot of people here, they are into the humiliation aspect... which, to me, isn't even a factor.
I feel no humiliation for WAM activities, and I'm not into being humiliated at all.
For me, it's all about the sensation and the enjoyment of that sensation.
But I'm curious...
What's the primary driving factor that got you into and/or keeps you going with WAM?
(and I put both Sensation and Enjoyment in the poll so... ugh! how am I going to answer this! who comes up with these polls! ugh!)
I feel no humiliation for WAM activities, and I'm not into being humiliated at all.
For me, it's all about the sensation and the enjoyment of that sensation.
But I'm curious...
What's the primary driving factor that got you into and/or keeps you going with WAM?
(and I put both Sensation and Enjoyment in the poll so... ugh! how am I going to answer this! who comes up with these polls! ugh!)
- sloppy wet kisses!
For the sensuality of it all. Wam takes me to a place where thoughts don't exist and I experience pure sensation and enjoyment. Nothing else like it in the whole world.
Kreamed
It's sensation and enjoyment for me. Thanks for posting this. Always interesting to see what drives all of us in Wam.
It is 2 types of sensation for me. Firstly the physical sensation, and secondly if using a gunge tank or partner who is getting me messy, the release of built up tension.
The second part leans in a little on control too as the build up is wonderful.
The second part leans in a little on control too as the build up is wonderful.
tsarmina said: I love seeing the replies!
And seeing what makes others tick (or tock, depending on which way you swing!
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And seeing what makes others tick (or tock, depending on which way you swing!
) Swinging towards tick and tock
Kreamed
I love the sensation - especially the way it blocks off senses. I love the claustrophobia of having my head completely covered and the silence.
Having it happen to me is definitely a sensation thing, wanting to do it to my wife is definitely a visually appealing thing of seeing it run down her. I'm not into the humiliation at all.
Having it happen to me is definitely a sensation thing, wanting to do it to my wife is definitely a visually appealing thing of seeing it run down her. I'm not into the humiliation at all.
Sensation and Enjoyment for sure but also Humiliation as well. Getting all dolled up and pretty then getting an unexpected pie to the face really does it for me. Also love seeing exaggerated reactions! 
With love, Victoria *blows kiss* XOXO
Sensation, Enjoyment, Humiliation.
Hatred of cleaning up.
Hatred of cleaning up.
I've been thinking too, the context makes a difference.
Doing it alone - physical sensation
Doing it to someone else- the look of it on their body
A partner doing it to me - the turn on is being completely vulnerable to what they want to do. The trust element is huge for me
Doing it alone - physical sensation
Doing it to someone else- the look of it on their body
A partner doing it to me - the turn on is being completely vulnerable to what they want to do. The trust element is huge for me
It kinda changed over time as I got older. When I was younger it was about excitement and texture.
It's still very much texture for me, but I don't really get enjoyment out of WAM by myself, or even watching content as much (although I still like it). As I've gotten older, I desire the enjoyment of sharing it with a partner, even if that's just a session.
It's still very much texture for me, but I don't really get enjoyment out of WAM by myself, or even watching content as much (although I still like it). As I've gotten older, I desire the enjoyment of sharing it with a partner, even if that's just a session.
Damn fool of a tuber
For experiencing wam, the sensation drives me.
For viewing wam, it is all about enjoyment, pleasure, and satisfaction.
I tried viewing humiliation wam, and I don't really like viewing it. I'm not sure about experiencing it though because I never tried.
There is also a social aspect that drives my interest because there is a community of people that share it. If it weren't for umd, I probably would have developed more common fetishes or would like normal vanilla stuff better.
For viewing wam, it is all about enjoyment, pleasure, and satisfaction.
I tried viewing humiliation wam, and I don't really like viewing it. I'm not sure about experiencing it though because I never tried.
There is also a social aspect that drives my interest because there is a community of people that share it. If it weren't for umd, I probably would have developed more common fetishes or would like normal vanilla stuff better.
PotatomanK said: It kinda changed over time as I got older. When I was younger it was about excitement and texture.
It's still very much texture for me, but I don't really get enjoyment out of WAM by myself, or even watching content as much (although I still like it). As I've gotten older, I desire the enjoyment of sharing it with a partner, even if that's just a session.
It's still very much texture for me, but I don't really get enjoyment out of WAM by myself, or even watching content as much (although I still like it). As I've gotten older, I desire the enjoyment of sharing it with a partner, even if that's just a session.
I totally get this.
Thought of doing it with a partner is the main one. I'm glad that my wife supports it even if she doesn't want to be involved.
I put "boundaries", but not sure if I mean what you mean by that! For me it's very much the idea of crossing "boundaries" that we're not "supposed" to cross. So, getting paint on a set of overalls is not particularly exciting, getting paint on a party dress is. Getting wet in a swimsuit, not exciting, getting wet in a work outfit very exciting. Playing with food is fortunately not "permitted" in most contexts, so this is pretty reliably exciting for me, but still, the more "inappropriate" the better.
It's the sensation for me. I love the feel as gunge or messy starts to cover areas and there's nothing better than wallowing in the gooey texture. I love the change in the sensation when I get my clothes wet.
Humiliation is okay and if my other half got a kick out of humiliating me then I'd give her free reign, o long as it's between us. However I also like that it can feel naughty.
I also love the colour aspect and the way it looks.
Humiliation is okay and if my other half got a kick out of humiliating me then I'd give her free reign, o long as it's between us. However I also like that it can feel naughty.
I also love the colour aspect and the way it looks.
I wish I could say what drives my wam interest, but ever since I was a child, I remember any time I saw someone get wet or messy while dressed it spurred the strongest reaction in me. I always wanted it to be me, and I somehow always understood that wasn't typical. It's a secret I've kept from all but a couple of the closest people to me for my entire life.
I was born with it. I wonder about that all the time, and I've been around a while. Why it feels so good and is so exciting to me remains a mystery after half a century.
I was born with it. I wonder about that all the time, and I've been around a while. Why it feels so good and is so exciting to me remains a mystery after half a century.
i love the sensation of it all, the feeling of it, all the different textures and feeling of it all over me
i also love the forbiddances of it all, as adults, we're told that being this messy is not really allowed, and that we have to be neat and tidy. if that makes sense
i also love the forbiddances of it all, as adults, we're told that being this messy is not really allowed, and that we have to be neat and tidy. if that makes sense
The poll ended with sensation (my vote) over enjoyment (my second choice) by one point.
I was expecting an easy victory for humiliation, as it seems to be mentioned by everyone around the site.
Early on, enjoyment had a very strong lead, which is probably because humiliation, sensation, or whatever - it's the enjoyment of those things that makes them work for us.
Thanks for voting and commenting!
I was expecting an easy victory for humiliation, as it seems to be mentioned by everyone around the site.
Early on, enjoyment had a very strong lead, which is probably because humiliation, sensation, or whatever - it's the enjoyment of those things that makes them work for us.
Thanks for voting and commenting!
- sloppy wet kisses!
i missed the poll... whoops.
for me i love the feeling of it, i always get really excited when i am preparing for a session. Even when i am prepping for the clean up after. i always like the mystery as well. love to think what the shop keeper is thinking when i am buying a thing of paper plates, custard, beans, shaving foam and more.
for me i love the feeling of it, i always get really excited when i am preparing for a session. Even when i am prepping for the clean up after. i always like the mystery as well. love to think what the shop keeper is thinking when i am buying a thing of paper plates, custard, beans, shaving foam and more.
For me it's the feel but that doesn't mean I don't enjoy other aspects too.
I think the original post has swayed how people responded to the pole. It's a bit like the religion question on the census. If you ask the same people do you believe in God and what religion are you? You will find way more people state they have a religion than say they believe in God because some people feel culturally part of a religion. There's been similar polls where the poster has had a different preference which they've spoken about. I think if you write an engaging post about the sensation of WAM then the folks you've engaged with will answer your poll. There have been similar posts and polls written by those who like humiliation and humiliation won hands down even when those of us into sensation posted equally well written reply's in the thread.
I think the original post has swayed how people responded to the pole. It's a bit like the religion question on the census. If you ask the same people do you believe in God and what religion are you? You will find way more people state they have a religion than say they believe in God because some people feel culturally part of a religion. There's been similar polls where the poster has had a different preference which they've spoken about. I think if you write an engaging post about the sensation of WAM then the folks you've engaged with will answer your poll. There have been similar posts and polls written by those who like humiliation and humiliation won hands down even when those of us into sensation posted equally well written reply's in the thread.
I like watching girls/women get wet and/or messy more then i like doing it myself. So for me it's more about watching the excitement and curiousity of doing something you're not supposed to, and then watching the joy and pleasure of them giving in to that curiousity. My favorit thing when it comes to wam is when a girl/woman discovers her wam fetish and starts to explore every aspect of it and slowly starts to realize how much it turns them on. When they are genuinley excited, aroused, turned on etc.
For Babs, it's a combo of being humilation and the sensation of receiving many foam pies. Even if I'm self pieing on Skype for a WAM friend, Babs loves when she is asked to get " dolled up" and then receive many foam pies ( hate whip cream, it smells )
For me it's the intensity and heightening of the senses on the body coupled with a focussing of sensation - sort of like clearing the mind of everything else or hyper-reality or something. There is also excitement connected with the fact that when the mess is proper and good, I am totally submitted to the situation - especially with messy - there is no quick exit or multi-tasking, it's all about the reverie of body, sensation and slime, there and then. I love it when the level of elation hits what I call "bliss-out". It may not happen every time but certainly enough to know its not a fictional fantasy.
I have also found that all of the above takes sexual contact with another person to another level. My most ecstatic sex has always involved being very wet and/or messy. The feeling, the rush, the intimacy, the noises, the shared fetish, the whole deal! It takes the emphasis away from the sexual 'mechanics' and makes the heightened intimacy last for hours.
And on the subject of enjoying shared fetish, there is also the clothing aspect, be it the feeling and sight of getting it wet, gungy and the occasional destruction. I love to start a session fully clothed and work teasingly towards skin-to-skin. To start unclothed would miss half the fun but I certainly enjoy ending up there! Actually, I have been known to put messed clothing back on - that's also lovely!
That's quite a lot that drives my interest - or more like compulsion
I have also found that all of the above takes sexual contact with another person to another level. My most ecstatic sex has always involved being very wet and/or messy. The feeling, the rush, the intimacy, the noises, the shared fetish, the whole deal! It takes the emphasis away from the sexual 'mechanics' and makes the heightened intimacy last for hours.
And on the subject of enjoying shared fetish, there is also the clothing aspect, be it the feeling and sight of getting it wet, gungy and the occasional destruction. I love to start a session fully clothed and work teasingly towards skin-to-skin. To start unclothed would miss half the fun but I certainly enjoy ending up there! Actually, I have been known to put messed clothing back on - that's also lovely!
That's quite a lot that drives my interest - or more like compulsion
Nikki
WetNikki said: For me it's the intensity and heightening of the senses on the body coupled with a focussing of sensation - sort of like clearing the mind of everything else or hyper-reality or something. There is also excitement connected with the fact that when the mess is proper and good, I am totally submitted to the situation - especially with messy - there is no quick exit or multi-tasking, it's all about the reverie of body, sensation and slime, there and then. I love it when the level of elation hits what I call "bliss-out". It may not happen every time but certainly enough to know its not a fictional fantasy.
I have also found that all of the above takes sexual contact with another person to another level. My most ecstatic sex has always involved being very wet and/or messy. The feeling, the rush, the intimacy, the noises, the shared fetish, the whole deal! It takes the emphasis away from the sexual 'mechanics' and makes the heightened intimacy last for hours.
And on the subject of enjoying shared fetish, there is also the clothing aspect, be it the feeling and sight of getting it wet, gungy and the occasional destruction. I love to start a session fully clothed and work teasingly towards skin-to-skin. To start unclothed would miss half the fun but I certainly enjoy ending up there! Actually, I have been known to put messed clothing back on - that's also lovely!
That's quite a lot that drives my interest - or more like compulsion
I have also found that all of the above takes sexual contact with another person to another level. My most ecstatic sex has always involved being very wet and/or messy. The feeling, the rush, the intimacy, the noises, the shared fetish, the whole deal! It takes the emphasis away from the sexual 'mechanics' and makes the heightened intimacy last for hours.
And on the subject of enjoying shared fetish, there is also the clothing aspect, be it the feeling and sight of getting it wet, gungy and the occasional destruction. I love to start a session fully clothed and work teasingly towards skin-to-skin. To start unclothed would miss half the fun but I certainly enjoy ending up there! Actually, I have been known to put messed clothing back on - that's also lovely!
That's quite a lot that drives my interest - or more like compulsion
Yes, exactly this. All of this!
Kreamed
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