I sometimes get comments against my videos (the ones in the video section of my profile, which are all free ) saying things like: "I wish that would happen to me". The truth is: I spent a lot of time hoping it would happen before realising that it only will if I make it happen.

So, the poll below is about how many people have gotten to try/act out/experience their WAM fantasies?

My answer is 'some of them'.

Muddddy x

Same for me, some of them.

I would like to have a messy session with some one, but for that to happen i have to run into the right person first.

But still enough to discover solo As you said, don't wait for it to happen but just do it!

Think i will try eggs for the first time this weekend

I have been lucky enough to talk with a number of women who, while not turned on by (or had even heard of) sploshing, did enjoy the idea and really enjoyed the act!

Not all of my fantasies have been accomplished though, I am still waiting to have the gunge tank christened, either with the woman getting messy or just gunging me. *sigh*.

Yes, this is probably the state of affairs for most of us. We are all flying solo most of the time. Me and my wife do the odd bit of pieing each other with shaving cream, but I suspect if I wanted to give her a real, thick, heavy duty gunging that would not be on. This is why most of us have to resort to self abuse most of the time!

T x

Some of them, more than I thought I would get to try to be honest!

I still have some things on my wam bucket list I would like to try before I.. well, die I suppose. They are as follows: wamming together with another person, swimming in a pool with clothes on, and getting muddy in smooth quarry clay somewhere.

Some too - and also situations I hadn't fantasised about but happened on account of the person I was with.

Still a few on my (slop) bucket list.

Well I fantasies and dreams . Lucky I able to do like a to z with darla and other ideas I had

Feel wam have more ideas dreams . Yes others stuff like to do dreams to do. But see where road take me on journey been on pass 3 years

When I think back... Installing a bathtub in the basement, mounting a foldable mirror above the bathtub on the ceiling under the pretext of being able to wash myself after gardening without having to go through the house, those were my beginnings, lying in the water of the bathtub and having the nerve to wear tight Levi's. II was not yet living out my homosexuality at that time and was married to my wife. That went on for many years and the Levi's became more, until I was completely in the water, including my shoes. Just looking at it in the mirror always gave me a proper orgasm in my jeans. Up until that time, those were just dreams that always ended wet. I suddenly lived these wet dreams. When I finally lived gay, the dreams that took place beyond the bathtub also became reality. I now live this dream too and not only get wet, but also slimy and dirty and now occasionally with my boyfriend. Making dreams come true and trying everything is the motto and I always have explosive endings... But dreams remain, and as long as they remain there are new things to discover and realize...

Well, if you need anyone to come and pull the lever on the gunge tank for you I am just down the road from you! That would be a great job, wouldn't it, professional gunge tank tester. I'd be on call 24/7!

T x

I've been able to play a little with pies and chocolate but never as much as I actually want to. My current and past living situations haven't really give me the privacy I need to do so but the minute I find my own place I'm definitely gonna indulge in my WAMtasies

Surely one of the real problems is that even when you do tick an item off the list, you then dream up a new fantasy to go one bigger, so 'some' or 'most' should really be something to be proud of actually

I think I've done everything WAM-related I want to do at least once. But that doesn't mean I don't want to do them again.

Always available for Wam fun Falkor

This, this and THIS!

Spent a LONG time hoping to get a partner into it and it never happened. So instead I made friends here, built some solid connections and got to have some fantastic experiences along the way.

It's a long way from happily ever after, but I got to have some wonderful experiences I never would have otherwise, because I just saved up the money and took the time.

I know not everyone has circumstances that allow for that, but it's very much true that YOU have to
"take the plunge" the plunge isn't coming to you.

It is my ardent hope and prayer that all of you get to live out at least one of your fantasies, as WAM is such a wonderful experience.

Exactly this. My wife and I have had a great deal of fun together over the years indulging what are admittedly really just my WAM fantasies. But there's a real problem with what I've come to think of as "WAM inflation". I think, for me at least, a big part of the excitement of WAM turns out to be the "breaking taboos" aspect of it. So once we've done something, that particular thing no longer seems as exciting, and what we do next has to be bigger and better. Although we're still WAMming together after twenty years, I am worried that this is not sustainable indefinitely!

So the answer to the original question is, for me, very fortunately, "most" - but as a result I'm still desperately trying to think of more!!

Conclusion: I find it encouraging that so many people are living the dream and getting to act out what rocks their world.

For those that haven't yet, don't worry your time will come, but you have to lend it a hand to make it happen. Practice your fantasy so you know what to expect, as there's nothing worse than waiting forever and then not enjoying it, for example: if you wasn't expecting the smell, taste, or the way it sticks your hair to your face. There's been a few things that's thrown me initially only to get my head around them and enjoy them just as much as the rest of the experience.

I also recognise the fact that the fantasies can escalate and shift as more of them are realised, so is an ever-moving target for some, including myself.

Thank you for voting.

I've said elsewhere that I'd like a proper session with a model this year as it's been 5 years since my last one. Aside from the complexities of organising one these days, there's not many scenes where i think "I'd like to do that as a session" mainly because many scenes are obsessed with clothing removal...

Last August, taking on the role of tank wrangler at Splat was enjoyable, enabling several people to achieve a wambition.

I think my own wambitions are more focussed on having someone to play with, not that there's any likelihood of progress on that front...

One thing I do find immensely frustrating is hearing about all these meet ups and events several months after they are over. I would dearly love to attend one, but I always seem to be elusive. Perhaps I am looking in the wrong places or the paranoia is correctly and people are purposely hiding them from me!

T x

Solo ones - usually. Sometimes I got there and found the water level was too high, or the mud too dry, or some unsporting person had repaired the footpath, but I think more often than not I managed to get as filthy as I'd imagined. There are a few from my past which wouldn't be possible ever to enact without time travel, of course.

I haven't ever WAMmed non-solo, far less been able to make it the fulfilment of a fantasy. I suppose some might be possible for a suitable fee, but others (eg: scenarios I'm not expecting, fictional characters, wacky powers) would be flat-out impossible.

Way back in 2018 my younger, thirty-something self typed out a fictional coed scene as a fanfiction tribute to Kiwimayotte's ongoing series. Last summer I reached out to someone and on one of our recent meetups, it actually happened.

Said fantasy was rather tame on the scale, but still!