She had a meltdown during the Mostwam drama. To her credit, she was basically right about how Leon should be handled. But then she went and reported the UMD to some UK office as like a sex violence website or something like that (I don't remember the details) and squandered whatever good will she had acquired.
That's my two pennies, anyway.
I'll give it 20 minutes till this thread is locked...
Prettyprettypied said: Hi - does anyone know if Penny is still active? I tried to reach her through her website and have yet to hear back.
You didn't say how long you've waited (e.g. whether it's been a couple of hours or a couple of weeks) so you might just need to be patient.
Penny posted on Twitter recently:
I'm not officially retiring but I am lucky enough to have so many other things on my plate now that content & bookings aren't really a priority for me for the moment, so I'll be amending my website soon to reflect this
Wambassador said: She had a meltdown during the Mostwam drama. To her credit, she was basically right about how Leon should be handled. But then she went and reported the UMD to some UK office as like a sex violence website or something like that (I don't remember the details) and squandered whatever good will she had acquired.
That isn't what happened. There isn't any way to 'report a website' to that service.
My understanding isn't totally clear but it was something along the lines of that she just discussed and shared the resource with another model and it all got misunderstood. What she was accused of simply isn't even possible or a thing that can be done.
At very, very most she could have reported Leon to the site as a potentially active photographer with a sex conviction.
But there is no function or way to report an entire website, and that concept would be pointless anyway with a small UK charity who just gives models and a sex workers a heads up if some is reported as violent or convicted... and a USA website that was handling the situation.
It's for reporting people, not websites. It's also uk only. They don't convict or chase anyone or anything, just send alerts to registered models in whatever area of the uk they signed up for, like 'hey look out for this, if this person matching this description in this area tries to book you'
MM did recognise this and edit his post about it when he understood what the site was, but Penny suffered a lot of harassment by umd-ers who thought she was trying to get the umd shut down, which as just explained, is absolutely not what that organisation does.
Wambassador said: She had a meltdown during the Mostwam drama. To her credit, she was basically right about how Leon should be handled. But then she went and reported the UMD to some UK office as like a sex violence website or something like that (I don't remember the details) and squandered whatever good will she had acquired.
That's my two pennies, anyway.
The site she reported UMD to was one for sex-workers to share info on clients to be wary of, not anything official, police, or governmental. TBH personally I thought the event was handled reasonably well, esp given nothing like it had ever happened before and obviously MM wasn't familiar with the UK legal system or court reporting standards. But basically the news broke on a Friday and by the Monday a decision had been made and enacted. But it was a weekend of very intense debate.
Wambassador said: I'll give it 20 minutes till this thread is locked...
No need to lock it unless it degenerates into a flame-war. MM's rules state that locking should usually be a last resort only used if a thread is spiralling out of control.
It was also my first exposure to the UK legal system. It really wasn't covered in any law classes I ever took and there was a lot to it that didn't make a lot of sense to me, except that actual proceedings seemed to go quickly? IDK the more that I try to think about it before having coffee the more confused I get again
Wambassador said: She had a meltdown during the Mostwam drama. To her credit, she was basically right about how Leon should be handled. But then she went and reported the UMD to some UK office as like a sex violence website or something like that (I don't remember the details) and squandered whatever good will she had acquired.
That's my two pennies, anyway.
But it was a weekend of very intense debate.
Wambassador said: I'll give it 20 minutes till this thread is locked...
Intense debate and possibly some of the most disgusting and disturbing dialogue imaginable from certain individuals in the face of the events that sparked them which was one of the catalysts of why she left. I love ya, dude, but let's be honest here.
mhop said: Shortly thereafter she pulled all her content off the site and then started her campaign against Mess Master attacking him on various threads. It's clear that she wants nothing to do with the site anymore.
Yeah, that is definitely not how it went down and while you are right, she wants absolutely nothing to do with this site, there were several instances that took place before that happened including the 2 days of shit posters who were permitted to run amuck on the Leon threads. One could certainly argue that she didn't handle things appropriately and I would be in agreement but let's not pretend that there wasn't underlying factors that led to it lest I can certainly assure you this won't be the last time something like this happens here. There was definitely things we could have done better, too and not acknowledging that is folly
It is interesting how much people's perception of events change from reality.
This quote comes to mind
"Get it all on record now - get the films - get the witnesses -because somewhere down the road of history some bastard will get up and say that this never happened." -Dwight D. Eisenhower
Point is, things were bungled. It is what it is. As a result, all parties involved lost composure as well as their cool, things were permitted to be said from multiple 3rd parties that didn't help matters and actions were eventually taken and by that time, the damage was already done and Penny left.
Last I seen from her Twitter she has bigger plans in the works. What those plans entail or consist of are a mystery. Whether or not she is still doing customs or anything WAM related is also anyones guess. I would say message her and give her some time to reply as she could be busy. She will either reply, or not.
mhop said: The time frame is over the span of about 6 months (I know because I was following her on here as I liked her content) from when the retweet group died to her pulling her content, it was before the leon threads, she had stopped posting even before then. I suspect her misdealing on Twitter was starting to bleed over here. The main red flags were there, from random Twitter Dm's from accounts trying to get ahold of her to messages with other users telling me of her threatening and discouraging other female producers. There was clearly something else going on.
So circling back to this, Penny resurfaced and for those who care, she is doing well. She has a full time job and this could explain her lapse in responding to any requests. What she is doing exactly is unknown but she is in great spirits so whatever it is, that's a good thing!
On a secondary note, in regards to this above statement, I am assuming that you are Wammer 5280 on Twitter, correct? Penny decided to address your statements in a recent Twitter post. The way it looks, you decided to PM her out of the blue complaining that she was "difficult to approach" because she pokes fun on a Twitter circle she created. In this, I am actually in agreement with Penny. If you had such a hangup over her jokes, maybe just leave or unfollow the group?
It is too bad you are not as smart as you think you are. This is my only account and it is many years old. Try again. If you have receipts I am happy to look at them.
mhop said: speaking of "receipts" your account is only 8 months old.... Hmm I wonder what was your original account and why is it gone. It was not a random Dm and she was easy enough to get a hold of. Coincidently it was lots of random guys on Twitter trying to get a hold of her I was not one. Are dm's are gone cause she has me blocked, the retweet group is also gone I can't see any of that but I'm sure those of you who were not there and did not partake in the situation which took place via Twitter dm's and a private wam retweet group know all about it. Continue you speak as if you were there cause you know you were not. According to UMD your account did not even exist on this site 8 months ago, not that it would of helped you at all as I said this all took place on Twitter via dm and the private wam retweet group. Those are my final thoughts on it.
If you are referring to me, If you had been paying attention, I have mentioned previously that I had an account on here and it's years old (poolofdeath, if you are wondering) and I have been quite transparent about it. As a mod, you should probably know this.
As for my position from where I come from, I am simply bringing up information that is presented to me. If we are going to cast stones at someone who is not a part of this community, thus no longer able to defend themselves against said allegations, we can at least be factual about it and so far the only evidence presented was Penny's (which never would have came to light had you not inserted your opinion in the matter, mind you) and we were ALL here for the crap surrounding Leon and the blowback from that. As for MM is concerned on the matter, his last words on the subject was Penny is still welcome to come back IF she desires to, so how your story didn't come up then is a mystery but feel free to enlighten me. Maybe I missed it?
But I digress, If you have something of substance, feel free to bring it up. I'm open to being wrong and if you have something that proves otherwise, I will be the first person to extend an apology and retraction of the above. Scouts honor!
mhop said: speaking of "receipts" your account is only 8 months old.... Hmm I wonder what was your original account and why is it gone. It was not a random Dm and she was easy enough to get a hold of. Coincidently it was lots of random guys on Twitter trying to get a hold of her I was not one. Are dm's are gone cause she has me blocked, the retweet group is also gone I can't see any of that but I'm sure those of you who were not there and did not partake in the situation which took place via Twitter dm's and a private wam retweet group know all about it. Continue you speak as if you were there cause you know you were not. According to UMD your account did not even exist on this site 8 months ago, not that it would of helped you at all as I said this all took place on Twitter via dm and the private wam retweet group. Those are my final thoughts on it.
It's a shame your 'final thoughts' remain completely inaccurate. I was a member of the private retweet group you're referring to, from the very beginning - and incidentally still am (therefor I've been able to check) - so I will speak where others apparently aren't qualified to...
What you're describing simply did not happen! I'd urge you to provide screenshots of which specific comments and conversations lead you to this misunderstanding. Otherwise we can only conclude that you either dreamt this whole episode, or have deliberately concocted some malicious slander for personal reasons.
If mhop decides not to respond further to clarify their position, or retract, I do expect to see a response from MM or other senior mod at the umd, since site moderators making unfounded criminal allegations is no trifling matter.
slipperyskin said: If mhop decides not to respond further to clarify their position, or retract, I do expect to see a response from MM or other senior mod at the umd, since site moderators making unfounded criminal allegations is no trifling matter.
Lord, I didn't even realise mhop was a moderator! That's a hell of an official stance for the UMD to take considering most of it has either been refuted or just did not happen. I see the problems still have not gone away, unfortunately.
slipperyskin said: If mhop decides not to respond further to clarify their position, or retract, I do expect to see a response from MM or other senior mod at the umd, since site moderators making unfounded criminal allegations is no trifling matter.
Lord, I didn't even realise mhop was a moderator! That's a hell of an official stance for the UMD to take considering most of it has either been refuted or just did not happen. I see the problems still have not gone away, unfortunately.
Sadly, no. Still very prevalent.
Sad thing is, what irks me is not what he said but that according to his own testimony, he had months to bring this up before Penny left. Instead,/ he waited until after she left and was no longer here to defend herself to the accusations.
mhop said: She is no longer welcome here. That's it. I had severed ties with her a few years ago. Long story short while being a part of her Wam retweet group on Twitter I noticed she and another UK person were openly admitting and laughing about scamming people over Twitter. Taking people's money and then blocking them. When I explained to her that's why I was leaving her retweet group among other things such as bullying other female producers including a personal friend and minor threats to others, she said " why shouldn't I it's fun" and "it's what they deserve". Shortly thereafter she pulled all her content off the site and then started her campaign against Mess Master attacking him on various threads. It's clear that she wants nothing to do with the site anymore. And for the record I used to DREAM of doing a session with her that was until I found out how she really was off of UMD. I wish her all the best in what ever she is doing.
What a load of BS that is... and you're a mod? Jeez.
I've flagged this thread for MM's attention. Actually sent him a PM about it a few days back as I thought the "she's not welcome" comment was out of line with MMs officially stated position. But I know he's been insanely busy with the rebuild plus not sure if all message notifications have been getting through, so have now flagged it via the Report function as well. Worst possible timing, unfortunately.
DungeonMasterOne said: I've flagged this thread for MM's attention. Actually sent him a PM about it a few days back as I thought the "she's not welcome" comment was out of line with MMs officially stated position. But I know he's been insanely busy with the rebuild plus not sure if all message notifications have been getting through, so have now flagged it via the Report function as well. Worst possible timing, unfortunately.
Kinda figured as much as I ended up getting flooded with notifications all at once from all the ones that I guess got lost in the shuffle. Thanks for the update!
mhop said: She is no longer welcome here. That's it. I had severed ties with her a few years ago.
I just wanted to note that this is a personal opinion and not the official position of me or UMD. She's never been banned nor invited back.
Nostalgic Erotica Prod said: there were several instances that took place before that happened including the 2 days of shit posters who were permitted to run amuck on the Leon threads.
These people were not "permitted" to do anything, and I'd hope that people wouldn't assume endorsement of a post just because moderation isn't moving as quickly as they think it should. It was a crazy time, and the people were removed shortly. Penny was a moderator at the time and could easily see everything we were doing to handle the situation, and it was not nothing. Also let's not forget that some people left UMD and took up refuge at Twitter, where Leon and most of the top offenders apparently have live accounts to this day, and where people routinely do MUCH worse than what happened here, every single day, all day. Just needed to keep some facts straight.
I'll lock this thread to prevent spiraling, but if anyone really needs to offer another opinion, you can contact me or start another thread if you need to.