Where do you tend to pick up garments from? This is from CD point of view; I like to get pairs of womens jeans and sometimes some pretty tops to totally ruin but I find it can be challenging getting them home. I keep my solo wet look and occasional wam activities secret, though quite often my wife's clothes do get involved with or without her in them

I used to use eBay and use a service like doddle to have parcels sent to but that service closed a long time ago. I really like depop as quite often the clothes are shown in their previous owner but that really only caters for deliveries to home. Also seeing the clothes being worn by their original owner makes the final ruination of them so much exciting, wondering how shocked the seller would be to see their cute ex-favourite jeans soaked, with a guy inside them before they get attacked with scissors or just plain simply pulled to pieces with brute force

Any advice?

Xx

Despite living in Japan, I buy many used items from Poshmark. It's a US based service, but I'm pretty big (Size Large US or Size LL Japan) so I tend to buy lots of clothes from American. They don't ship internationally so check out a package transfer service. It's pretty expensive but worth it in my opinion. Thredup is also a favorite of mine for second hand clothes. You can fill out a survey and they'll send you clothes based on your wants. I requested a leather skirt and they sent me a few to try and one is so much fun. All the items you don't like you can send back. Similarly to that is Stitch Fix which has the same business model as Thredup, but all the clothes are new. The clothes are pretty expensive, like a dress for 100$, but I really like the quality and fit of the clothes.

However, since you're looking for clothes to ruin, I'd recommend looking for cheaper items that wouldn't last long.

Also, I'd someone sent a fetish video of them doing something to a clothing item I sold them I wouldn't care that much but it would be really creepy. I'd recommend not doing that.

I stick mainly to charity shop clothes ,it,s amazing how i,ve got used to buying ladies tops or dresses to mess up in those shops.
I often wonder about the lady(presumably) who previously wore them and what they would think of their messy fate, although i do find that they always wash up ok as my slosh is mostly soap based.

I haven't trashed my clothes yet but we have a lot of secondhand shops like the goodwill here in the states and other services that ship from person to person like offerup and mercari.



on the last topic nope i'd say stay as far away from that as possible. it may be your fetish but involving people unsolicited would be slightly creepy to me if someone out of the blue contacted me about a purchase. whats more it can get you in legal trouble.

On the contrary I donate clothes I've gotten muddy before so people can buy them and wear them!

Just to make clear, I don't plan to ever share this with the seller of the clothes, it's just one of those thoughts I have that makes the trashing even more exciting.

I'm also interested to know of very discreet ways of getting stuff delivered. I used to use fiddle Which would deliver to a shop, a bit like click and collect, so I didn't have a stream of womens clothes turning up at home

Most items are in generic postbags, so it's likely not obvious to the postal workers or anyone else near home what they are. If anyone asked I'd just say my partner was sharing my ebay or something.