I am a young man who mostly like to write here (not much of a writer in general but this is an exception). To me wam, isn't really about the sexual nature of it, if anything that turns me off sometimes (not always). It's about the destruction of a woman's feminine nature. To see people we expected to see get dressed up to look their best only to destroy that effort, and love doing it. I believe that formal WAM is the pinnacle of this Idea and so it is what I right most about. I personally do not find participating in WAM to be my thing. For this reason I tend to not include Male character's as it sometimes feel's like a self insert. I am hear mostly to chat and get a better idea on how to be engaging in my writing as well as just general becoming friendly with others.