Hi UMD gang, It's MJD not Jessie. Firstly apologies it's been a while. We still haven't got a date for Jessie's inpatient treatment BUT there is some positive news. Mainly due to not having a choice and with Jess being in such a precarious physical state we decided to try our own 'programme' of trying to get her better whilst waiting for the inpatient treatment using DBT that I had used and this was backed up by getting her some group therapy at the hospital. The positive news is she's really taken to it and it's really changed her acceptance of much of her issues and her problem solving,attitude to life etc is miles better. The Eating Disorder still exists of course but this is DEFFO the best she has been in the 10 months we've been battling away. The other good news is the website at www.messy-jessie.com is deffo going to carry on and there will be new bundles and offers over the coming months to keep her head above water whilst she's receiving treatment. For those wishing to get a decent deal and support her the messy jessie website is the best place to go as that's the ONLY site she own's and now earns 100% from. There are about 500 films on there and some have never been promoted or even sold. Quite a bit of admin is needed to make them obvious but if you go to the site click on the channels 'Messy' and 'Pie Fight' then scroll down because there are pages and pages of films...it's not just that first page. The good news for fans of Jessie is that as her mood improved in the last month she did say she fancied a 'play' around dressing up with nice clothes,nylons and shoes plus as you know she likes being tied up (a lot!).....best of all though she wanted to try being pied again...and when she's in the right mood she LOVES that! She did also tell me a little fantasy she had,which was supposed to be private but she's blown that now because we actually did it! Her secret desire re. WAM was to be actually totally surprised,in normal life and grabbed (by someone she trusts not a real baddie!) and be tied up or put in stocks or secured in some way and then be pied with multi coloured foam pies and get covered in her favourite substance which is porridge (for the way it feels....and dyed green for the way it looks). Well I took a chance and did it,after we had been to a nice hotel (so she had a nice dress on) and I'd dropped her off for a massage so she was really relaxed. It was ace actually and she loved it...apart from the bit where I didn't know she heated up water a bit before throwing it and she got a shock from a freezing cold bucket of water ....heh heh! So there will be some photo's cobbled together,plus a little bit of film of the pieings and a film of her surprise attack (it really was an attack....held down and tied up before she knew what was going on.....hilarious!) Then last week we tried a film with her sister Erica in which the girls try on shoes and nylons and pick their favourites for a night out,but then they get a shock as the house is broken into and they are left tied up,gagged and blindfolded. After they are rescued Jessie tells Erica about me pieing her and pouring porridge over her head and how relaxing it was and suggests she gives it a go. Erica isn't convinced at all but gives it a go with Jessie asking for pies and porridge soon after. So enjoy these preview pics and watch this space as they'll be available soon in a photo set and a film!
This is the best news I've read in ages. Well done to all of you for your shear strength and determination in seeing this through. Great to see you again jessie xxx
Jessie is a lovely person I met her some time ago and I sincerely hope she beats this because the world needs more people like her (no I don't mean messy girls lol) I wish her all the good vibes and possitivety I can send her way
Wouldnt mind love but will take anything I can get
Nice to hear that there might be more films on the way, but much, much better to learn there's some progress in Jessie's health, which is absolutely the most important thing in this.
So glad to hear about Jessie's progress and also excited about these new photos (and coming video) where she's looking as lovely as ever and getting messy again.
Ive never meet her even tho we live in the same town lol but from what ppl r saying about her she seems such a lovely girl and i only hope she gets better.
I am more than happy to hear things are looking more positive for her, I know we all miss and love her. I am also glad to hear that she is getting messy again and how relaxing it is for her. Maybe yall discovered a new type of therapy haha
More power to her and my prayers will continue to go towards her!
Thanks for the Wammer of The Day accolade for Jess. Jessie actually saw it first because somehow her mobile Twitter thing alerted her to it...she texted me and I thought it said I was Wanker Of the Day at first glance and wondered what I'd done wrong. Anyway she's very grateful for the kind thoughts (as am I) and hopefully in the not too distant future she'll be back commenting and what have you.
I'm so glad to hear that there has been some positive direction with Jessie's health!
She looks really happy in these pics! I'm glad that she was able to have a little fun with getting tied up and messy!
Thanks so much for the update on her health & the fabulous pics!
I'm still very concerned about her, and I am continuing to pray for her! But it looks like at long last things are improving a little (with no help from the NHS! :gettingmad