Jayce said: girl i just posted about it. my eyes are fucked. i used to be able to take so much more and now, i have just abused myself to the point of "okay i gotta take care of things!!" this is sad to hear but i know that you will keep providing for the community AWESOMELY.

ALSO: FUCKING BOSLEY SHAMPOO AND CONDITIONER!!! IT FUCKING WORKS!!!

order it, make sure its from the manufacturer! it actually DOES WORK. also, massage the scalp regularly and wear your hair in a braid at night to pull lightly on the folicles. massaging the scalp helps with the follicle growth and all that. conditioning treatments are super important. keeping the scalp and hair moisturized is a big one. with me having such heavy hair....i have had to go over this with my stylist non stop....she knows about my job and i can barely get color put in it bc it breaks off as soon as i get messy...:/ my hair is my natural color except the blonde and red i have spread underneath it. and that blonde breaks RIGHT OFF. damnit it sucks. ANYWAY, im so sorry to hear of this and i understand the eyes thing too!! if i get fake lashes put on now, my eyes will tear up HORRIBLY and they have NEVER done that before!! NEVER!! my contacts are fucked....i need new ones and have no insurance...so i have to wait and save up and wear these horribly shitty ones. it has knocked my vision down considerably, in a faster amount of time than is normal....ive had the optometrist tell me this SO, girl, you keep doing what you are doing. you will do great and get yourself together. order that bosley or SOMEONE ON HERE ORDER IT FOR HER!! THE SHAMPOO AND CONDITIONER, FROM MANUFACTURER!!!

KEEP ON KEEPING ON!! if im ever in the uk im inviting myself over....

CandyCustard said: Hello all you wonderful people

I have recently come to a decision that has been very difficult to make - and that is, from February 2019 I will no longer be getting messy in private sessions.

I WILL still be offering sessions!... but only the kind where I mess a person up and I stay clean

Only two years into regular sessions I began to have problems with my eyes - with makeup running into them regularly along with god knows how much syrup, custard etc I became allergic to eye makeup and always have a fight on my hands to stop the onset of allergic conjunctivitis. Sexy eh?

That I could just about handle... and have done all this time, but the clincher has been an unforseen and unexpected result of wamming 2 or 3 times a week (or more!) for over ten years.

Hair loss. The weight of all that goo over my head literally rips my hair out. When hair is repeatedly ripped out, the follicles eventually give up. As a result I have thin, sparse hair with balding patches that may never recover.

I love wam, need wam - I love thick heavy substances over my head. But I love my hair more and it's been very depressing to see it dwindle away. I really don't want to be bald AND unable to wear makeup I enjoy my femininity and need to preserve some of it!

I recently had no studio for over a year and in that time saw some recovery in my hair but sadly with just two months back in the saddle, it's back to square one!

I knew this day was coming (didn't expect it to soon though!) and so I created and I'm paying for https://sploshsessions.com where I have been adding all splosh session providers that I know of and that are recommended to me with free adverts (it is also free to view/use etc)

It is worldwide with some providers in USA and Australia as well as the UK so far. I want people to be easily able to find session providers near to them, and/or to come and have fun at my studio with. So there are plenty out there who you can still mess up

So if you would like to get a model or your gf/bf/partner/friend messy, your continued support would be appreciated by hiring my studio

or if you don't hire my studio, you can help out by recommending session providers to me to appear on the site as I know there are still many more out there

If you would just liked to be messed up, with or without domination I can arrange that no problemo in the usual Candy style of huge amounts, or in my new (almost infinite) gunge tank

... but as for me getting messy anymore... nope (well... only now and then in private with my lovely henners :loveeyes

anyone already booked in up to February can still get me messy if that's what has been arranged. I can accept maybe one or two more bookings for February so if you've wanted to one day come and mess me up, you better get booked in sharpish!

Any tips on models/dommes who provide messy sessions please email me on candycustardwam@gmail.com

ditto the above email for any bookings or questions

oh and as for videoing myself/downloads... maybe just once or twice a year, I will see how the hair recovery goes!

Thanks as always for the incredible support with my sessions, studio and downloads

CandyCustard said:
I'm determined to get you over here sometime - totally open invite! We will sort it out properly in future for definite

Potatoman-J said:
I definitely hope that happens sometime! I think you have a better chance of making it happen than anyone else.

As for giving up WAM, you're looking at this all wrong. You can still make a mess and have fun, you just need to not drop it all on your head. Instead, you can enjoy nice custard baths. OR that amazing heated mud pool you had! You can relax, have a glass of wine, and have Henners wait on you hand and foot!

You're living the dream I wish I could have. You get to make a mess, have a partner that does so with you, and you invite hot women and guys over to have fun at times, and make a bit off it!

You take care of you boo!

ItsJay said: NOOOOOOOOOOOO!

Gutted. Candy, as you know I have always wanted to get messy with you. Due to money and confidence, it has always got in the way to stop it from happening. Now I have both, you quit on me!

I have always said you have one of the best jobs in the world. You must have sat in so many things, had so many things dumped over you and felt so many textures.

Health ALWAYS comes first, no matter what. I do hope to get messy with you before the end date, but I do hope you stick around on the UMD. We love you.

wamajama said: If one is wamming/sploshing for one's own pleasure, then I suppose wearing a wig cuts down on the sensation of glop spilling/flowing/oozing down one's head, etc (but not completely)...but if you are mostly doing sploshing for commercial reasons (customs, etc) you might want to invest in a variety of wigs (which will need replacing after several sloppings)...these will provide a variety or looks and styles and protect the hair (and one can wear a hair cap /shower cap under the wig for extra protection. ALSO: there is a Rogaine product for women (and it works) for repairing those annoying bald patches.

Jayce said: i will tell you this. i have ASKED people if i could PLEASE wear a wig (bc you can find insanely realistic looking wigs online for CHEAP.) and they were verrrrrrrrrrry rude about the whole idea of me even doing that. honest to god, i thought about just doing it and not telling them but i didnt want to lie. what you see is what you get, you know?? but maaaaannnnn....people were RUUUUUUUDE af. about using a wig. even if i was taking money out of my own pocket to buy one that was REALLY similar to my own hair!! it was pretty crazy how uptight they got. and it was more than one person.

Regis said:
Counterpoint: Can't spank it to a chick in a wig tho.

DungeonMasterOne said: @Candy: Really sorry to hear this, and absolutely put your health and wellbeing first. It's all too easy to think you owe people stuff, when really you don't. **hugs** Glad you'll still be doing studio provision, as mentioned at Weston I'm definitely interested in bringing a few of our girls down for a weekend's shoots at some point.

Just a thought, does wam always have to involve head/hair coverage? For me personally, it's all about clothes-filling, sitting on / in things, getting everything below the neck covered, but if doing wam just for myself I'm happy to keep my head completely clean unless the woman I'm wamming with wants to do head pours. Things that totally work for me visually is where one girl, completely clean, is pouring custard into another girl's trousers, all the while knowing that she's going to have exactly the same thing done back to her before much longer.

@Jayce: That's awful, there is no excuse at all for rudeness. Completely out of order. **hugs**

protostar8 said: From a scientific standpoint, I would like to know if there are certain things that cause more irritation than others. I would think things like tomato sauce, with it's acidity, would be greater long term eye health destroyers than things like whipped cream???

Can either Jayce or Candy speak about which things tend to bother you the most anymore? If we can start getting it figured out, maybe future Wammers can avoid eye health issues?

EVIL said: So sorry to hear this Candy, I had no idea you were having such troubles. I do hope your hair recovers and avoid being in anymore pain.

Candy's new studio is awesome, I was up there yesterday for an amazing session with Penny Lee. The facilities are brilliant and as an extra treat i even got to see the filming of Penny testing out the new infinite gunge tank

I've already booked up my next session at the studio for next month with Messy Louise Would highly recommend it.

scroggle said:
what movie is that screenshot from?

Regis said:
Counterpoint: Can't spank it to a chick in a wig tho.

noise said: If you could live with shorter hair... maybe get a selection of wigs and vary up your look for fun and frolics. Doesn't fix the eye thing though. That sucks. Maybe find some sexy swimming goggles? Try and make that a thing?

bex said: Maybe even a shower cap could work

Potatoman-J said:
I dunno, I can jerk it just fine to a cosplayer.