Hello all you wonderful people

I have recently come to a decision that has been very difficult to make - and that is, from February 2019 I will no longer be getting messy in private sessions.

I WILL still be offering sessions!... but only the kind where I mess a person up and I stay clean

Only two years into regular sessions I began to have problems with my eyes - with makeup running into them regularly along with god knows how much syrup, custard etc I became allergic to eye makeup and always have a fight on my hands to stop the onset of allergic conjunctivitis. Sexy eh?

That I could just about handle... and have done all this time, but the clincher has been an unforseen and unexpected result of wamming 2 or 3 times a week (or more!) for over ten years.

Hair loss. The weight of all that goo over my head literally rips my hair out. When hair is repeatedly ripped out, the follicles eventually give up. As a result I have thin, sparse hair with balding patches that may never recover.

I love wam, need wam - I love thick heavy substances over my head. But I love my hair more and it's been very depressing to see it dwindle away. I really don't want to be bald AND unable to wear makeup I enjoy my femininity and need to preserve some of it!

I recently had no studio for over a year and in that time saw some recovery in my hair but sadly with just two months back in the saddle, it's back to square one!

I knew this day was coming (didn't expect it to soon though!) and so I created and I'm paying for https://sploshsessions.com where I have been adding all splosh session providers that I know of and that are recommended to me with free adverts (it is also free to view/use etc)

It is worldwide with some providers in USA and Australia as well as the UK so far. I want people to be easily able to find session providers near to them, and/or to come and have fun at my studio with. So there are plenty out there who you can still mess up

So if you would like to get a model or your gf/bf/partner/friend messy, your continued support would be appreciated by hiring my studio

or if you don't hire my studio, you can help out by recommending session providers to me to appear on the site as I know there are still many more out there

If you would just liked to be messed up, with or without domination I can arrange that no problemo in the usual Candy style of huge amounts, or in my new (almost infinite) gunge tank

... but as for me getting messy anymore... nope (well... only now and then in private with my lovely henners :loveeyes

anyone already booked in up to February can still get me messy if that's what has been arranged. I can accept maybe one or two more bookings for February so if you've wanted to one day come and mess me up, you better get booked in sharpish!

Any tips on models/dommes who provide messy sessions please email me on candycustardwam@gmail.com

ditto the above email for any bookings or questions

oh and as for videoing myself/downloads... maybe just once or twice a year, I will see how the hair recovery goes!

Thanks as always for the incredible support with my sessions, studio and downloads

Well I guess that the time was coming for this to happen so yeah sad to see it happen but I totally understand why you are doing it and well it would still be fun in a session with you so definitely don't quit this whole thing as you are too good at making amazing videos and having a great time with anyone

thanks - and definitely not! still happy to mess anyone up Candy style

and I will of course still be regularly filming both male and female models for candyguys and candygirls x

Well then there is just a small change that is all you will still be you but clean

I actually knew all this already Candy, which is why when I came to yours for the quiz I thought I would be a gent and deliberately lose to help you preserve your hair

In all seriousness, I know that's shit for you but your health and wellbeing is more important

Sorry to hear this, Candy. I'm sorry to hear of you in any pain or a sorrowful situation. I know how much you love WAM. In fact, you are probably one of the very few women in this business who genuinely does to the core.

I've always seen your long term career as being as more than just a performer and model but as a producer, impresario and even a raconteur. You're a legend who needs no introduction and I feel privileged to have been able to start to get to know you personally.

I think it's only just beginning. Long may you reign - Queen of Custard

If you are open to eastern medicine my friend and my gf have gotten chinese herbs from my accupuncurist and my gf hair was thinning out from stress and it's thickening in where the hair was falling out. My friends hair was all white and the herbs made the roots go back to black

Very sorry to hear of this Candy.

Glad to hear you will still be able to mess others up, and that you have got the wonderful Candygirls and Candyguys site in place..and your wonderful studio which I am honoured to use

It must have been a really really tough decision but it has to be the right one.

as Richard says...Long May You Reign

Sorry to hear about this but you must always put your health first. I wish I had gotten the chance to session with you sooner I have only just gotten a job and was saving up for one. I hope things go well for you.

you can still come and get messed up sometime though. I think you'll like the infinite gunge tank

not sure if you had the same phenomenon in the states or not but in the UK in the 1990s and early 2000's women seriously overplucked their eyebrows... and now many can't get them to grow back because the follicles have given up.

I have the same thing going on, but on my head - so I'm not sure any kind of medicine can help with that. But thank you anyway I will look into options

haha thanks

Tough decision to make but you will nail this change of direction I'm full of admiration how you've combined business with pleasure over the years! Can't begin to imagine exactly HOW much gunge you will have taken over your head in that time

Thanks. I'm really looking forward to what I have booked in though so no way am I missing out on a few last hurrahs . I can control the eye probs and I've been careful not to take on anything too punishing to the old barnet so lasting til Feb will be fine x

haha, I could probably work it out with some fair accuracy if i went back over all my records but for now lets just say you'd probably need to measure it by the shipping container

You're so sweet and kind Richard, thank you

So sorry to hear this, Candy! That is such a bummer...I can't even imagine. I've always wondered how much the hair (and eyes!) can take for people who wam full time. Just a couple of sessions a month seems to strip mine of all the natural oils. I've wrecked my hair a few times to the point where I had to get it cut. I now only use marshmallow fluff a couple times a year, as it basically pulls me bald headed, and I certainly won't dump buckets of it over my head ever again, which is very sad. I love sticky stuff!

Anyway, my hair was falling out last year and after cutting it short (which was admittedly very hard to do!) and taking Biotin supplements every day, it did recover. Now when I look at my hair, I can't tell that it was falling out, and it grew very fast on the supplements. Not sure about the follicle damage. One of my friends had damaged follicles and reported success with the biotin so maybe worth researching? Just thought I'd suggest it as a possibility!

Oh, and yeah - we had that trend in the states where ladies overplucked their eyebrows to the point that they won't grow back. Now they have to draw them on with eye pencil or have them microbladed.

Health first, as others have said! You will always be the Queen of Custard!

Bee

So that's why I'm bald....

Those of us who are wanking along at home probably don't give enough though to the toxic effects of wam substances on our models. Take care of yourselves, ladies.

At home? They finally banned you from the computers at the library?

Can't jack it at the library any more. Stupid content filters!

(Edit: I mean obviously I still jack it at the library, just have to do it looking at the cute librarians instead of porn.)

If I'm not mistaken Tracy Z had to stop wamming years ago due to hair loss as well. Its definitely an issue and I understand your decision. Mud/clay, and shaving cream in particular are terrible for your hair.

Sorry to hear about your eyes. Thats a bummer for sure. I wish you all the best!

A Very tempting offer indeed. I think you know me too well Will have to chat some time.

Losing hair sucks. I am sorry you got a case of wam pattern baldness. If you try things like Rogain, keep in mind you will have to use it for life. If you stop all the improvements will be reversed. Keep that in mind as you investigate possible remedies. What about using a shower cap and a wig? It would allow you to still enjoy wamming and save your hair.

Thank you beautiful! When I was without studio I did cut my hair and use biotin shampoo as well as supplements and that is when I saw some recovery so I will be doing that again for sure

if I appear in any of my own future downloads it will likely be with a wig in an attempt at some protection

I'm sorry to hear this and see you go, it is tottaly understandable but I have to say that if you did lose your hair you would still be beautiful, sexy and feminine.

Hells bloody bells, I had no idea WAM could do the to your hair. I trust yours recovers soon and your new circumstances do not stop you enjoying yourself too much.

I don't want to alarm anyone - I'm pretty sure I'm a rare case and it takes at least 7 or 8 years really heavy abuse several times a week on waist length hair for this to happen - the longer the hair the more weighty the substances are when covered

I'm sure the average, especially male or short haired wammer, or occasional wammer need not worry

Thank you anyway I am certainly going to continue occasional wam with my bf and I really love making my downloads with models

I'm LOVING the Queen Of Custard title!!!

Having witnessed first hand how much you enjoy wam, I can only imagine how hard this decision was for you to make.

There's only a few of us full time, long time ladies here, who know there are unfortunately a few unpleasant side effects to our art

I'm so happy to know that'll you continue privately though...

Big Love xxx