Not just convincing them to do it for your sake (which is both sweet and hot in its own right) but actually making someone a true blue (green?) wammer.
I sessioned with a domme/switch in New York about 6 years ago, and slimed her pretty good. A couple weeks ago I stumbled upon a picture from that session on FetLife, with the girl saying it was a "life changing experience" and that she'd "LOVE to do it again".
That's pretty awesome. I've met a few women where it had came up in convo and they thought it could be fun or hot, but these were always people I'd meet in passing.
It's such a rarity to 1. Meet someone that would try it 2. Find that they actually like it.
Wambassador said: Not just convincing them to do it for your sake (which is both sweet and hot in its own right) but actually making someone a true blue (green?) wammer.
I sessioned with a domme/switch in New York about 6 years ago, and slimed her pretty good. A couple weeks ago I stumbled upon a picture from that session on FetLife, with the girl saying it was a "life changing experience" and that she'd "LOVE to do it again".
Which is pretty hot, imo.
That is pretty cool!
Is that picture something that's allowed to be shared, or no?
Yes. An ex-girlfriend. 5'9" slender blonde German American girl who wouldn't look out of place in the ZZ Top "Legs" video. She kept a fishnet bodysuit encrusted with dried cake batter under her bed for decades even after getting married to another man. We stayed in touch over the years and she always lamented that her husband was so vanilla she wouldn't even dare bring up WAM/Sploshing. So she kept the outfit as a tie to our experiences. We never took photos, so she had no such momentos.
When I was younger and hooked-up what I considered a lot I fairly often would pie girls I was hooking-up with during sex right before i came (obviously with their consent and whatnot). There were several that I routinely pied who would request I pie them during sex, more than a few girls who *loved* using dress-up/role play/being pied as foreplay, and some that being pied would actually trigger their orgasm. I've never been sure if any of them continued with any of it. That would be rad if they did, but maybe they were just being generous lovers and nice to me?
At the time it wasn't something I thought deeply about (I still don't, haha), I was just grateful they were down. If it was pretend or whatever, I sure as hell didn't want to spoil the illusion by questioning its authenticity. I do remember one girl in particular who was always very enthusiastic told me that she knew I was being turned on by pieing her and *that* made her turned on by getting pied. Not sure how many times Pavlovian conditioning would require, but probably there were a few that it was enough.
Some of them I still see sporadically through being in the same professional field and if those women are still dressing up as hot nurses, French maids, German beer girls, and whatnot, and having their husbands throw pies in their faces while they finger themselves...I would be so damn proud, LOL.
Mac Magstithe said: When I was younger and hooked-up what I considered a lot I fairly often would pie girls I was hooking-up with during sex right before i came (obviously with their consent and whatnot). There were several that I routinely pied who would request I pie them during sex, more than a few girls who *loved* using dress-up/role play/being pied as foreplay, and some that being pied would actually trigger their orgasm. I've never been sure if any of them continued with any of it. That would be rad if they did, but maybe they were just being generous lovers and nice to me?
At the time it wasn't something I thought deeply about (I still don't, haha), I was just grateful they were down. If it was pretend or whatever, I sure as hell didn't want to spoil the illusion by questioning its authenticity. I do remember one girl in particular who was always very enthusiastic told me that she knew I was being turned on by pieing her and *that* made her turned on by getting pied. Not sure how many times Pavlovian conditioning would require, but probably there were a few that it was enough.
Some of them I still see sporadically through being in the same professional field and if those women are still dressing up as hot nurses, French maids, German beer girls, and whatnot, and having their husbands throw pies in their faces while they finger themselves...I would be so damn proud, LOL.
Replying to the middle paragraph: I once had a girl pie herself for me multiple times. The first time, she didn't really get it. The second time, she sat in a pie and started to understand a bit. We hooked up and I pied her during the session and she (seemingly) was into it. Nothing really came of it afterbut, she later sent me a text conversation that she was having with a new beau of hers where she asked him to smash her with pies. I've literally never been prouder, even though I don't know if anything came of that.
I have a former partner who only agreed to let me get her messy as a favour... until the very first time I did it, that is. Neither of us expected that her response to getting slimed would be to orgasm!
Indeed! Nikko has turned wamshe has used it now in her own free time and sex life-she also is always texting with these insane ideas and I'm like "okay sis-so? How do we get the money for a pool full of pudding to wrestle in AND submerge in AND how do we get rid of it? " She loves coming up with ideas. And they are awesome but usually? It's not stuff I could do unless I won the lottery. Or someone paid like 2000 for a bunch of videos in pudding. Hah!
I had a brief fling with someone and I told them all about wam, showed them vids of myself and some of y'all messy. She got really into it but we never did it together cause of ya know life.
She eventually tells me about how she loves pieing her sub and how he hates it but it's so humiliating for him it's hot.
A couple of former partners including my former spouse did some wam with me, but most of them were pretty uncomfortable with it, and did it reluctantly, which took away a lot of the fun for me.
One that I dated post-divorce did get more into it, and came up with things to get messy with, and did some outdoor things as well might still wam on their own... so they might fit that bill. Or they're just better at pretending to like it?
Chatting to someone on fetlife now. She stumbled across my photos, enquired and now is trying to convince her partner to do it AND to be my play partner.
I think she converted herself as she is more excited than I am!
Some of them I still see sporadically through being in the same professional field and if those women are still dressing up as hot nurses, French maids, German beer girls, and whatnot, and having their husbands throw pies in their faces while they finger themselves...I would be so damn proud, LOL.
Goodness, it sounds like you've had a LOT of fun over the years!
Haha, well, she's not into it as much as I am and prefers fully clothed wetlook in a nice outfit, but she has always accommodated my messy desires too, including filling her high heels with all sorts of goo and being pied in the face, so I'd say that's a win! She actually bought some pie tin liners the other day in the supermarket, as she said they'd be good for throwing pies at each other....cue an awkward (for me) walk around the rest of the supermarket as I tried to stifle the goings on down below
I didn't make them wamers but my first and second Xs liked to have cake and whipped cream fights I just informed them there was this thing called wam. My wife doesn't love it but she does enjoy it and finds new ways to make it more interesting and does get happy when she pies me (which is rare, usually gets ALL the mess) but she asks for sprinkles each time I slop her
Sadly no. I tend to be single for years at a time so there isn't much opportunity for that sort of thing to happen and nobody has ever been receptive. Nor have I ever dated anyone who was into this so it's pretty much just been me over here.
My wife is somewhat there it's almost always my idea, but I think for the most part she has fun with it, has come up with great ideas for us, had a profile on here and toyed with the idea of selling feet content.
I'm lucky as we both love WAM. My partner though did encourage me to come out of the shadows and post on here. I'm glad he did and hopefully you guys are
I got my fiance into wam several years ago! I think I'm still more into it than he is, but we thoroughly enjoy a good messy session every so often. He even suggests ideas from time to time
I have had exs try it but unfortunately none have really enjoyed it. Best I've gotten is women teasing me with wet clothes. None have liked getting messy which is a bummer.
The best advice I can give any male looking to introduce a female partner is to take things slow. To have both into WAM like we've got is very rare. Don't introduce yourself by asking to gunge them, or sending a dick pic. Start with some low level messy games. It may grow into something bigger, it may not. I never knew I'd like savoury, until I tried it, but if we started with it, would probably have put me off slapstick.
In my personal life, I was dating a girl and it evolved into a more friends with benefits thing, but we absolutely loved getting messy. She particularly liked getting cake batter slimed and just getting sloppy fucked after buckets of it were poured over here, and she loved a good barrage of pies too. Even liked being tied up and the helpless victim while getting destroyed. We probably did 10 messy sessions over the course of things.
Well fast forward a few years, and I run back into her. She says she loved the 'cake sex' so much that she had actually introduced it to some of her other partners later on, and she now brings this up as one of her kinks. Another day I was also sitting at a table with her and three of her girlfriends, and unknown to me, they mention if I'm going to "pour cake batter all over her tonight?" I must have turned red as a tomato, and her friends started playfully laughing. Turns out, she had told all of them about our 'thing' and they thought it was hilarious. Two even said they wished they could get slimed, but alas, nothing came of that.
So one real life, non-model, real girl conversion!
I introduced Messtique to it when we were first dating, and she loved it. It really does turn her on, and she'll be the first to admit I 100% converted her!
ArchNemesis said: Another day I was also sitting at a table with her and three of her girlfriends, and unknown to me, they mention if I'm going to "pour cake batter all over her tonight?" I must have turned red as a tomato, and her friends started playfully laughing. Turns out, she had told all of them about our 'thing' and they thought it was hilarious.
You always come across as so confident Arch I can't imagine you getting embarrassed about anything - surprised you didn't have the whole table signed up for Wam with Benefits on the spot!
There was an escort I contacted once who always asked after our first session if we could do the "pie thing" again. I took this to mean she didn't mind and possibly enjoyed it.