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"My absolute favorite part of Vegas"
Love you, too
Yeah it may seem like I'm brown nosing---but I'm not.
My friend that helped me come to Vegas was very shy-so was I! I had no idea how shy I was gonna be!
I also had some issues going on while I was there that had me in a lot of pain so? I didn't get to get out much.
But meeting messmaster for the first time literally---was the highlight of my trip.
After years of back and forth, me having to fight getting flagged, the whole Ariel thing, and lots of shitI remember saying to Derek "if I could just talk to you face to face I think you would really GET me"
Well? I got to. Derek is one of a kind! He's real, he's fun, I have zero clue how he kept it up! He runs this place with style and grace and still is humble, hilarious and super fun to be around. He also CARES. He cares about all of us!
I was truly almost in tears with how genuine and sweet he actually is. You can hear it and see it.
I'm SO glad that even with me staying in and getting messy with my friend---I got to meet him.
I got to meet a lot of others that I came back and was just in shock at how great this community really is!
I promise to always do my best to make you all happy. I had a certain someone GIFT ME instant mud!!! I couldn't believe it!
Anyhoo- this is about our "messmaster" Derek. The man of the year.
I cannot wait to go back and this time? I'll be staying in the same place as y'all
Thank you, Derek, for all you do. Thank you for truly caring about all of us.
Much love
My friend that helped me come to Vegas was very shy-so was I! I had no idea how shy I was gonna be!
I also had some issues going on while I was there that had me in a lot of pain so? I didn't get to get out much.
But meeting messmaster for the first time literally---was the highlight of my trip.
After years of back and forth, me having to fight getting flagged, the whole Ariel thing, and lots of shitI remember saying to Derek "if I could just talk to you face to face I think you would really GET me"
Well? I got to. Derek is one of a kind! He's real, he's fun, I have zero clue how he kept it up! He runs this place with style and grace and still is humble, hilarious and super fun to be around. He also CARES. He cares about all of us!
I was truly almost in tears with how genuine and sweet he actually is. You can hear it and see it.
I'm SO glad that even with me staying in and getting messy with my friend---I got to meet him.
I got to meet a lot of others that I came back and was just in shock at how great this community really is!
I promise to always do my best to make you all happy. I had a certain someone GIFT ME instant mud!!! I couldn't believe it!
Anyhoo- this is about our "messmaster" Derek. The man of the year.
I cannot wait to go back and this time? I'll be staying in the same place as y'all
Thank you, Derek, for all you do. Thank you for truly caring about all of us.
Much love
Get Messy, Get Wet, C'mon Get Happy!
Jayce said: Yeah it may seem like I'm brown nosing---but I'm not.
My friend that helped me come to Vegas was very shy-so was I! I had no idea how shy I was gonna be!
I also had some issues going on while I was there that had me in a lot of pain so? I didn't get to get out much.
But meeting messmaster for the first time literally---was the highlight of my trip.
After years of back and forth, me having to fight getting flagged, the whole Ariel thing, and lots of shitI remember saying to Derek "if I could just talk to you face to face I think you would really GET me"
My friend that helped me come to Vegas was very shy-so was I! I had no idea how shy I was gonna be!
I also had some issues going on while I was there that had me in a lot of pain so? I didn't get to get out much.
But meeting messmaster for the first time literally---was the highlight of my trip.
After years of back and forth, me having to fight getting flagged, the whole Ariel thing, and lots of shitI remember saying to Derek "if I could just talk to you face to face I think you would really GET me"
Everybody she is not lying about that.
In real life she's just like she is here, only... really chill actually. I absorb the energy of people around me, and what I felt from you was a certain sweetness and humility that I "get" now. You've always had a bubbly online presence, but IRL it's so clear that it comes from a place of realness and humbleness. Damn Jayce we did it! We finally met. I do wish we could have hung out more, and I even told a few people all week that I didn't think I was going to get to meet you.
But when we finally got a moment to break away and just sit and really meet, it was crazy surreal... and a defining end to the whole trip for me. We've been through so much since those first days of WamBabes, and we've argued plenty, but not ONCE did it ever get nasty or disrespectful. Even after all the haters and conflicts over years, I don't think you've ever been accused of being mean or immoral or anything like that, and after only a few minutes of meeting the human behind the profile, I understand why. You've always been good people Jayce and I'm honored to have finally met you.
[lump in throat] I'm still processing all that went on and everybody that Messmistress and I got to meet... we're even still getting choked up at times and can't sleep, reliving all the conversations LOL. I want to make a thank-you post, but you know me, I need a little time. Love you everybody
Stay messy, my friends
Messmaster said:
Everybody she is not lying about that. In real life she's just like she is here, only... really chill actually. I absorb the energy of people around me, and what I felt from you was a certain sweetness and humility that I "get" now. You've always had a bubbly online presence, but IRL it's so clear that it comes from a place of realness and humbleness.
Damn Jayce we did it! We finally met. I do wish we could have hung out more, and I even told a few people all week that I didn't think I was going to get to meet you. But when we finally got a moment to break away and just sit and really meet, it was crazy surreal... and a defining end to the whole trip for me.
We've been through so much since those first days of WamBabes, and we've argued plenty, but not ONCE did it ever get nasty or disrespectful. Even after all the haters and conflicts over years, I don't think you've ever been accused of being mean or immoral or anything like that, and after only a few minutes of meeting the human behind the profile, I understand why. You've always been good people Jayce and I'm honored to have finally met you. [lump in throat]
I'm still processing all that went on and everybody that Messmistress and I got to meet... we're even still getting choked up at times and can't sleep, reliving all the conversations LOL. I want to make a thank-you post, but you know me, I need a little time. Love you everybody
Jayce said: Yeah it may seem like I'm brown nosing---but I'm not.
My friend that helped me come to Vegas was very shy-so was I! I had no idea how shy I was gonna be!
I also had some issues going on while I was there that had me in a lot of pain so? I didn't get to get out much.
But meeting messmaster for the first time literally---was the highlight of my trip.
After years of back and forth, me having to fight getting flagged, the whole Ariel thing, and lots of shitI remember saying to Derek "if I could just talk to you face to face I think you would really GET me"
My friend that helped me come to Vegas was very shy-so was I! I had no idea how shy I was gonna be!
I also had some issues going on while I was there that had me in a lot of pain so? I didn't get to get out much.
But meeting messmaster for the first time literally---was the highlight of my trip.
After years of back and forth, me having to fight getting flagged, the whole Ariel thing, and lots of shitI remember saying to Derek "if I could just talk to you face to face I think you would really GET me"
Everybody she is not lying about that.
In real life she's just like she is here, only... really chill actually. I absorb the energy of people around me, and what I felt from you was a certain sweetness and humility that I "get" now. You've always had a bubbly online presence, but IRL it's so clear that it comes from a place of realness and humbleness. Damn Jayce we did it! We finally met. I do wish we could have hung out more, and I even told a few people all week that I didn't think I was going to get to meet you.
But when we finally got a moment to break away and just sit and really meet, it was crazy surreal... and a defining end to the whole trip for me. We've been through so much since those first days of WamBabes, and we've argued plenty, but not ONCE did it ever get nasty or disrespectful. Even after all the haters and conflicts over years, I don't think you've ever been accused of being mean or immoral or anything like that, and after only a few minutes of meeting the human behind the profile, I understand why. You've always been good people Jayce and I'm honored to have finally met you.
[lump in throat] I'm still processing all that went on and everybody that Messmistress and I got to meet... we're even still getting choked up at times and can't sleep, reliving all the conversations LOL. I want to make a thank-you post, but you know me, I need a little time. Love you everybody
I am completely NOT WORTHY! I'm so glad that you also? Opened up my friend that came too. He was even more shy than me and meeting you? Made him open up and he talked about it a LOT!
I wanted to get back out but after all those shots? Lol! My roomie was PASSED TF out! I woke him up around 10 like "hey you wanna get food?" And then? Ooooo boiiii. My food was amazing but it TORE ME UP! Hahahhaa! I was in agony!---but it was sooooo good!
There is only one thing left to do.make an east coast meet up!
Or? I'll see you next year! I already officially have a way to get there again next year! Guess my roomie enjoyed my company!
Thank you, Derek. You and messmistress are one of a kind. Truly. I don't know how you do what you doI can't imaginebut you DO. I'm grateful, blessed, and all the things i can't put into words! You are a beautiful human. We are so lucky to have someone like that running our crazy stuff!
Get Messy, Get Wet, C'mon Get Happy!
Yes, you both had me stumbling back down the stairs with all those shots LOL Shouts to him as well, not sure if he'd like to be identified, but buddy you got me drunk(er)!
Yeah, an East coast USA meetup would be great for us! Honestly I think future meets would better be planned by a committee, and I think there is a lot of interest in turning this into an actual convention. We'll see what happens!
Thanks again for the props and love Jayce
Yeah, an East coast USA meetup would be great for us! Honestly I think future meets would better be planned by a committee, and I think there is a lot of interest in turning this into an actual convention. We'll see what happens!
Thanks again for the props and love Jayce
Stay messy, my friends
Messmaster said:
We've been through so much since those first days of WamBabes, and we've argued plenty, but not ONCE did it ever get nasty or disrespectful. Even after all the haters and conflicts over years, I don't think you've ever been accused of being mean or immoral or anything like that, and after only a few minutes of meeting the human behind the profile, I understand why. You've always been good people Jayce and I'm honored to have finally met you. [lump in throat]
We've been through so much since those first days of WamBabes, and we've argued plenty, but not ONCE did it ever get nasty or disrespectful. Even after all the haters and conflicts over years, I don't think you've ever been accused of being mean or immoral or anything like that, and after only a few minutes of meeting the human behind the profile, I understand why. You've always been good people Jayce and I'm honored to have finally met you.
[lump in throat] Told you she was a queen
He's more potato now than man. Twisted and evil.
I won't lie, I'd love to meet Jayce too one day. I'd feel very shy at first I'll admit it. But I think it'd be an excellent time overall!
Just want to say, meeting so many wonderful and amazing people, including MM, was a huge part of what made UMD20 such a wonderful experience back in 2018. Really hope to get to another meet up at some point, though the stars were wrong for this year.
But I second everything Jayce says above. MM's stellar attituide to community building is the reason this community is still going when so many others fell by the wayside. It's an absolute privilege to be part of it.
***hugs to all***
But I second everything Jayce says above. MM's stellar attituide to community building is the reason this community is still going when so many others fell by the wayside. It's an absolute privilege to be part of it.
***hugs to all***
Saturation Hall - Forth! The Gungemaidens!
So so happy we got to meet you!!
It's not good unless it's messy ;-)
Messmistress said: So so happy we got to meet you!!
You are one of a kind, sister! I don't know how you keep up with ya man! He is balls to the walls! And yet? Still takes time to ask "are YOU okay?" That choked ME up. Hollerin and being silly and still took the time to ask. Behind every great man stands a messmistress
Get Messy, Get Wet, C'mon Get Happy!
Ya know Jayce I have a printed clause at the bottom of all my model releases that states that if any model says the words "Oh My God" they get their face pounded in the mud 3 times... LOL
Pity I could not be there, I wanted to meet you both.
Phil
Pity I could not be there, I wanted to meet you both.
Phil
Jayce said:
You are one of a kind, sister! I don't know how you keep up with ya man! He is balls to the walls! And yet? Still takes time to ask "are YOU okay?" That choked ME up. Hollerin and being silly and still took the time to ask. Behind every great man stands a messmistress
Messmistress said: So so happy we got to meet you!!
You are one of a kind, sister! I don't know how you keep up with ya man! He is balls to the walls! And yet? Still takes time to ask "are YOU okay?" That choked ME up. Hollerin and being silly and still took the time to ask. Behind every great man stands a messmistress
You're too sweet! Honestly I ask myself the same thing often and he'll confirm it!
We keep each other grounded, but don't let me fool you; sometimes I can be just as crazy!It's not good unless it's messy ;-)
Out of everybody I met between Thursday and Sundays meeting Derek was the biggest highlight and no doubt one of a kind, after all he started what is the first and the only site to this very day of it's own kind (as far as I know)
We all owe Derek our gratitude for bringing us all together here, discussions with him on here in the past helped me decided to say fuck it it's time to advance onto the in person stage and I'm sure as hell glad I did.
Meanwhile Jayce, thank you for helping me out with the bag and ordering the Uber ride I needed (being I couldn't recover my old account w/ them plus overloaded with all my crap along with the gimp left wrist)
We all owe Derek our gratitude for bringing us all together here, discussions with him on here in the past helped me decided to say fuck it it's time to advance onto the in person stage and I'm sure as hell glad I did.
Meanwhile Jayce, thank you for helping me out with the bag and ordering the Uber ride I needed (being I couldn't recover my old account w/ them plus overloaded with all my crap along with the gimp left wrist)
I just love reading all the positive vibes going on in this thread. Hopefully The Wife and myself will be in a better place next year to have the finances and logistics for the next time this happens. We were both bummed about not being able to go, because WOW I feel like we missed out!!!
Sie note: It's great to finally put a user name (Messmaster) to a face when I bother him about a forum bug/issue.
Much love and mess to all.
Sie note: It's great to finally put a user name (Messmaster) to a face when I bother him about a forum bug/issue.
Much love and mess to all.
Slime...more slime!!!!!
I've been a UMD'er for, like, 25 years, and I've never met anyone. It would be an honor to meet either one of you!
Oh Janet! You look so funny!!!
HappyCamper said: I've been a UMD'er for, like, 25 years, and I've never met anyone. It would be an honor to meet either one of you!
And I thought my 21 years was a lot
I had the pleasure of meeting them at the Philadelphia meet-up a few years back. Everything you say is the truth. wonderful people. I wanted to go to vegas so bad. truth is, I just couldn't bring myself to buy the ticket. the only person I've told this so far has been Jayce, but the reason I've been fairly absent from this site for the last year or so is that I got married in August of 2021 to my high school crush that i was lucky enough to reconnect with later in life. sadly, she fell ill in April of 2022. she spent a few weeks in the hospital, came home, got worse....and exactly one year ago today she went back to the hospital to never return home. she fought a good fight, but left this world back in january of this year. shortly after, i lost my best friend of 30 years to cancer. at this point i'm using this interest that we all share as an outlet. shooting new videos, being more engaged. it helps keep my mind off of things. i very much plan on attending any furture meet-ups if it's at all possible. I'm glad you got to go, Jayce. I'm sorry I didn't make it. i hope to catch you next time.
pie_burglar said: I had the pleasure of meeting them at the Philadelphia meet-up a few years back. Everything you say is the truth. wonderful people. I wanted to go to vegas so bad. truth is, I just couldn't bring myself to buy the ticket. the only person I've told this so far has been Jayce, but the reason I've been fairly absent from this site for the last year or so is that I got married in August of 2021 to my high school crush that i was lucky enough to reconnect with later in life. sadly, she fell ill in April of 2022. she spent a few weeks in the hospital, came home, got worse....and exactly one year ago today she went back to the hospital to never return home. she fought a good fight, but left this world back in january of this year. shortly after, i lost my best friend of 30 years to cancer. at this point i'm using this interest that we all share as an outlet. shooting new videos, being more engaged. it helps keep my mind off of things. i very much plan on attending any furture meet-ups if it's at all possible. I'm glad you got to go, Jayce. I'm sorry I didn't make it. i hope to catch you next time.
Real sorry to hear that
Messmaster said: Yeah, an East coast USA meetup would be great for us!
I would absolutely be down for this! Wish Vegas could have been a thing on my end, even if I was able to find someone to watch my mini-mes I've been dealing with an FAA audit (on a telecon about it right now, even!) last week and this week.
Anyway it would be cool being able to actually see some of the people behind this site that I stumbled upon in '98 someday!
It was a honor to meet messmaster my Absolute favorite part was to meet all of the great people that i have seen on umd. I have been doing customs for about 4 years with 3 producers Alana Jayce and Darla and they all have been so kind and helpful in living my fantasies out on video I consider them all my messy friends and let's do this again if not every year maybe every 2 years (so we can save up some cash) east coast is great, Philly or florida?
Professor Bob
Professor Bob
SploshDiver said: Out of everybody I met between Thursday and Sundays meeting Derek was the biggest highlight and no doubt one of a kind, after all he started what is the first and the only site to this very day of it's own kind (as far as I know)
We all owe Derek our gratitude for bringing us all together here, discussions with him on here in the past helped me decided to say fuck it it's time to advance onto the in person stage and I'm sure as hell glad I did.
Meanwhile Jayce, thank you for helping me out with the bag and ordering the Uber ride I needed (being I couldn't recover my old account w/ them plus overloaded with all my crap along with the gimp left wrist)
We all owe Derek our gratitude for bringing us all together here, discussions with him on here in the past helped me decided to say fuck it it's time to advance onto the in person stage and I'm sure as hell glad I did.
Meanwhile Jayce, thank you for helping me out with the bag and ordering the Uber ride I needed (being I couldn't recover my old account w/ them plus overloaded with all my crap along with the gimp left wrist)
It was fascinating talking to you and hearing about all the experiences you've gone through (really tough but fascinating ones). What especially stuck was what you told me about how difficult it was to do something like this, which is breaking a lot of barriers and coming out of your comfort zone. I'm that much more honored that you trusted us enough to come see us and I hope you weren't disappointed! And I think you seem to have a sort of psychic ability? Not messing with you! It was an honor having you there brother.
Stay messy, my friends
bpaige6129 said: It was a honor to meet messmaster my Absolute favorite part was to meet all of the great people that i have seen on umd. I have been doing customs for about 4 years with 3 producers Alana Jayce and Darla and they all have been so kind and helpful in living my fantasies out on video I consider them all my messy friends and let's do this again if not every year maybe every 2 years (so we can save up some cash) east coast is great, Philly or florida?
Professor Bob
Professor Bob
There's a city conveniently located halfway between the two. Not that I'm biased from living in Charleston but just saying...
pie_burglar said: I had the pleasure of meeting them at the Philadelphia meet-up a few years back. Everything you say is the truth. wonderful people. I wanted to go to vegas so bad. truth is, I just couldn't bring myself to buy the ticket. the only person I've told this so far has been Jayce, but the reason I've been fairly absent from this site for the last year or so is that I got married in August of 2021 to my high school crush that i was lucky enough to reconnect with later in life. sadly, she fell ill in April of 2022. she spent a few weeks in the hospital, came home, got worse....and exactly one year ago today she went back to the hospital to never return home. she fought a good fight, but left this world back in january of this year. shortly after, i lost my best friend of 30 years to cancer. at this point i'm using this interest that we all share as an outlet. shooting new videos, being more engaged. it helps keep my mind off of things. i very much plan on attending any furture meet-ups if it's at all possible. I'm glad you got to go, Jayce. I'm sorry I didn't make it. i hope to catch you next time.
I remember our time in Philly fondly! So happy you made it to our first meet up and would love to see you again. Also incredibly sorry for your loss and will be thinking of you. Hit me in the inbox if you ever need to chat!
It's not good unless it's messy ;-)
We have to have more events, even if they're are smaller more local ones. I encourage people to get out in your local areas and meet one another.
Happy, we need to get you to Vegas, you are one of the old guard! So many others too. I wish that you can all find our way out to meet everyone.
Happy, we need to get you to Vegas, you are one of the old guard! So many others too. I wish that you can all find our way out to meet everyone.
He's more potato now than man. Twisted and evil.
Potatoman-J said: We have to have more events, even if they're are smaller more local ones. I encourage people to get out in your local areas and meet one another.
Happy, we need to get you to Vegas, you are one of the old guard! So many others too. I wish that you can all find our way out to meet everyone.
Happy, we need to get you to Vegas, you are one of the old guard! So many others too. I wish that you can all find our way out to meet everyone.
I second this motion, Wambassador also pitched the idea of an eclipse meet for next year near Dallas TX and that one is a once in a lifetime opportunity. I have already have plans set with entirely different group but I can break off some depending on distance.
Potatoman-J said: We have to have more events, even if they're are smaller more local ones. I encourage people to get out in your local areas and meet one another.
Happy, we need to get you to Vegas, you are one of the old guard! So many others too. I wish that you can all find our way out to meet everyone.
Happy, we need to get you to Vegas, you are one of the old guard! So many others too. I wish that you can all find our way out to meet everyone.
I've tried, and met exactly one person. Two others ghosted the actual day of while a third is honest about being too shy. Being in an area that seems pretty far from all of who I would call the big names and mid-tier players in terms of producers and forum activity doesn't help. I'd be a lot more comfortable meeting IRL some of them because they have an established history and reputation but wouldn't limit people I would see to only them of course.
