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"Girl with Wam fetish?"
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i'm really curious . I'm really new to this site.
i know there's a lot of guys with wam fetish but what about girls?
i never hear about girls with WAM fetish
i know there's a lot of guys with wam fetish but what about girls?
i never hear about girls with WAM fetish
nintendoeater93 said: i'm really curious . I'm really new to this site.
i know there's a lot of guys with wam fetish but what about girls?
i never hear about girls with WAM fetish
i know there's a lot of guys with wam fetish but what about girls?
i never hear about girls with WAM fetish
Its far from her only fetish, but I just started seeing someone who apparently loves getting messy. Yes, it is something we have already done together. They might be rare, but they do exist.
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Yes there are a few of us gals who are into WAM stuff, but it does seem sadly ro be more of a guy thing. Have been into wallowing/sinking in mud, physically, since my early 20's a long time ago.
Yes, there are a fair few of us ladies who really enjoy getting messy for the fun and enjoyment of it , its not my only fetish, but it is certainly my favourite 
I can also understand why there's not many of us mess loving ladies being so open about it on here, because sadly there are a few, certainly not the majority, of guys on here who have no boundaries at all, and can be downright rude when you tell them that you're actually not here to provide sessions for them, or perform on webcam or skype for their pleasure we're actually here to enjoy the forums, and have a chat with like minded people 
I can also understand why there's not many of us mess loving ladies being so open about it on here, because sadly there are a few, certainly not the majority, of guys on here who have no boundaries at all, and can be downright rude when you tell them that you're actually not here to provide sessions for them, or perform on webcam or skype for their pleasure
we're actually here to enjoy the forums, and have a chat with like minded people Keep Smiling :-)
Raises hand. I love getting messy!
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I know of only about 4 or 5 women who have the actual fetish originating in childhood like so many of the guys with the fetish - but there are LOADS who really enjoy being messy after being introduced to it by say a boyfriend or something. I also only shoot with models who understand the fun and silliness and who enjoy the sensations of being messy, there's a lot of them too 
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CandyCustard said:...there are LOADS [of women] who really enjoy being messy after being introduced to it by say a boyfriend or something. I also only shoot with models who understand the fun and silliness and who enjoy the sensations of being messy, there's a lot of them too
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CandyCustard said: I know of only about 4 or 5 women who have the actual fetish originating in childhood like so many of the guys with the fetish -:
I wonder why this is? I think many fetishes originate in childhood, for both genders, so why should wam be predominantly male?
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Nick said:
I wonder why this is? I think many fetishes originate in childhood, for both genders, so why should wam be predominantly male?
CandyCustard said: I know of only about 4 or 5 women who have the actual fetish originating in childhood like so many of the guys with the fetish -:
I wonder why this is? I think many fetishes originate in childhood, for both genders, so why should wam be predominantly male?
I wouldn't assume it's a predominately male fetish, at least not as much as people think. It tends to be easier for women to find partners who are open to experimenting (at least that has been the case for me and women I know) plus as other people pointed out a lot of women are put off by online communities like umd. Even if 95% of the men on here are nice and respectful of women the 5% that send people creepy messages and harass women for photos can be enough to drive women away. And to be fair it's probably not even has high as 5% of guys on here who send inappropriate messages. All it takes is one guy to send a message like "Hey I live close to you, lets meet up so I can do (insert graphic sexual acts here) to you" to make a woman feel unsafe.
I am een longtime lurker on this site,but I want to respond in this matter
I am a Wammer with double fetish, wamming and satin clothes ect.
I can understand that wammers male seeking female wammers.
you don't tell every date, I'm a Wammer, we will go to my house.
In that case, you usually go home alone.
I can therefore understand that men try to get in touch with email.
I can also understand that women are afraid to be hassled with pictures of a penis in a jar of peanut butter with the text that the person doing the same with your butt.
personally I would, if I know there is a woman from Netherlands here to ask her if she is intrested to wam with me,if the answer is no then you must respect her and her answer.
There is nothing wrong with trying to make contact, but do it with respect
Anyway, it remains difficult to get in touch with fellow wammers.
There is no dating sites for this type of activity, and if they do exist, it is questionable whether the person you are contacting is serious or else ...
my opinion, respect everyone for his or her fetish. Be open to someone else his or her fetish, and be careful who you make contact.
not everyone is intended to be bad, but some are.
My first relationship was with a Brazilian woman that I introduced in the wam activity, she loved it so much the combination wam sex and she did want to do it almost each day.
but unfortunately bad luck, she was iligaal in the Netherlands and had to return to Brazil.
by influence of another Brazilian with a bad relationship / marriage she did not dare to to come back legally.afraid she get the same problems in her Relationship with me.
My current wife is due to medical problems totally not interested in sex and not at all in wam.
it is therefore from one extreme to the other.
personally I miss the time with that Brazilian woman very much, and I wish I could go back in time to redo everything again.
I have at least good remembrances of that time, and am glad that I experience that time with her
I am a Wammer with double fetish, wamming and satin clothes ect.
I can understand that wammers male seeking female wammers.
you don't tell every date, I'm a Wammer, we will go to my house.
In that case, you usually go home alone.
I can therefore understand that men try to get in touch with email.
I can also understand that women are afraid to be hassled with pictures of a penis in a jar of peanut butter with the text that the person doing the same with your butt.
personally I would, if I know there is a woman from Netherlands here to ask her if she is intrested to wam with me,if the answer is no then you must respect her and her answer.
There is nothing wrong with trying to make contact, but do it with respect
Anyway, it remains difficult to get in touch with fellow wammers.
There is no dating sites for this type of activity, and if they do exist, it is questionable whether the person you are contacting is serious or else ...
my opinion, respect everyone for his or her fetish. Be open to someone else his or her fetish, and be careful who you make contact.
not everyone is intended to be bad, but some are.
My first relationship was with a Brazilian woman that I introduced in the wam activity, she loved it so much the combination wam sex and she did want to do it almost each day.
but unfortunately bad luck, she was iligaal in the Netherlands and had to return to Brazil.
by influence of another Brazilian with a bad relationship / marriage she did not dare to to come back legally.afraid she get the same problems in her Relationship with me.
My current wife is due to medical problems totally not interested in sex and not at all in wam.
it is therefore from one extreme to the other.
personally I miss the time with that Brazilian woman very much, and I wish I could go back in time to redo everything again.
I have at least good remembrances of that time, and am glad that I experience that time with her
Johnny said: I wonder if the female wam fanatics on here are "lurking" or viewing as "guests" more than posting. I feel that us guys scare too many away.
That's probably what I would do, too, unless I was looking to hook up.
That's probably what I would do, too, unless I was looking to hook up.
well...So yes I would like to have contact with a woman for a wam session , and no I do not want a relationship.
and I do not want to bother female wammers with this.
indeed guys scare females away , and that is a shame
Wow , never thought that posting this would get so many responses . XD
but thx everyone read every single post and i agree that some people on this site even scared me when i first came back in 2012 and i'm a guy..
I was like .. wtf kind of fetish i'm i into...
I don't know how some of you do it .I could never talk about it to my exes i was trying as much as possible to hide it from them .. none of them even have a doubt that i have a fetish .
Because Its more of a side fetish . so i can live without it .
By the way .. Some people thought i was a girl Posting XD
so i received quite a few messages from gentleman suitors trying to seduce me ..
Lets just say . I Know how some of the girls feel right now l
but thx everyone read every single post and i agree that some people on this site even scared me when i first came back in 2012 and i'm a guy..
I was like .. wtf kind of fetish i'm i into...
I don't know how some of you do it .I could never talk about it to my exes i was trying as much as possible to hide it from them .. none of them even have a doubt that i have a fetish .
Because Its more of a side fetish . so i can live without it .
By the way .. Some people thought i was a girl Posting XD
so i received quite a few messages from gentleman suitors trying to seduce me ..
Lets just say . I Know how some of the girls feel right now l
I pretty much like it because of the coverage aspect that wam has. When I see a girl completely covered in something, the way it hides her features makes it easier for me to imagine myself in the same spot. Unlike with regular porn where the girls look completely different. Additionally, I also see it as a degrading thing, since I'm kinda into BDSM as well.
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WhiteRunner said: I pretty much like it because of the coverage aspect that wam has. When I see a girl completely covered in something, the way it hides her features makes it easier for me to imagine myself in the same spot. Unlike with regular porn where the girls look completely different. Additionally, I also see it as a degrading thing, since I'm kinda into BDSM as well.
Nice Dragon Age picture by the way , I'm playing my second playthrough as we speak
Nice Dragon Age picture by the way , I'm playing my second playthrough as we speak
Thanks! Leliana's been my favorite character in the series so far. Nice to see someone get the reference. You siding with Templars or Mages?
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I think one thing that's worth noting is the conflict at the heart of UMD between it being a community but also a fetish porn sales hub. Like chatting about something as personal as a fetish may not always be the best thing to do in a space where a good proportion of the audience is there simply to get their rocks off.
Secretlife314 said: I'm going to guess there are a lot more women than we think. I'm also going to guess that a lot of them don't make it known on here because there's a bunch of creepy fucks who don't have any boundaries on this site.
This. Yes.
There are definitely women wammers. Like IKeepMineHidden said the combination of a community and sales site can confuse things. When I showed my face on here I had absolutely no intention of opening a store. I've always enjoyed getting muddy and when I found Umd it was through Brocastown who I had asked advice about where to find out more about pies because my ex told me he wanted to throw a pie in my face. Umd became a kinky way for me to share blogs about my ex and I's pie life and it felt like we were having sex in public a bit! Haha! Hot! As soon as I posted some stories and photos my inbox was jammed with offers asking if I made custom videos, and to post more photos. I politely said no and continued sharing my stories and chatting to the people that actually treated me like a human being and not an item for sale that was here for their pleasure and not my own. Most people on here are awesome, but that 5% as Leila said can really creep hard and piss women off.
Anyway, some big crazy overwhelming shit happened in life and I decided to say "fuck it" and take off to full time wam and have a go at living off of pies and laughter. I figured there were enough emails of people asking for me to make videos and customs that Id stand a chance at surviving this way. Now the other side of the coin is harassment that I'm only here for money. Lol! Sometimes I want to yell at people "actually I do loads of free cams and super cheap sessions when I can afford to... Im just not offering it to you because I think you're a creep, you treat me like shit, and quite frankly none of that makes me hot!" (Side note if I think someone's being creepy I won't meet full stop lol)
Anyway, moral of the story is.... Men are treated like they are here for their own enjoyment, and women are treated like they are here for men's enjoyment. I think that's something the guys on here should all take a moment to think about. Women wammers exist. I met one on here after a rant I made and she sent me a private "thank you" message after making the change from lurker to having an account, and the other I met in Manchester randomly in real life. Then there are the ladies of Umd we all know are legit and love it like those who have posted above and more. Y'all know how strongly I feel about this as I've responded to many posts about it. Lol. Sorry to harp on. I always feel the need to join threads about environments that are toxic for women. Perhaps us ladies here speaking up will make at least one person think twice before sending unsolicited dick pics in custard, or writing for the first time ever with no name attached or even a hello, proclaiming how they want to bend you over and slam a pie on your ass and spank you while they head dunk you in oatmeal while reaming your ass...etc. Funny thing is that's a hot fantasy... But how about "hello. My name is (insert name here). Im from (insert location). I enjoy (insert hobbies &interests)." Build some sort of base before shoving your dick virtually into my asshole!! Whew. Anyway. Im done. Y'all get the point. You probably got it half way through reading and stopped lmao!!!
MyPieRogative said:
This. Yes.
There are definitely women wammers. Like IKeepMineHidden said the combination of a community and sales site can confuse things. When I showed my face on here I had absolutely no intention of opening a store. I've always enjoyed getting muddy and when I found Umd it was through Brocastown who I had asked advice about where to find out more about pies because my ex told me he wanted to throw a pie in my face. Umd became a kinky way for me to share blogs about my ex and I's pie life and it felt like we were having sex in public a bit! Haha! Hot! As soon as I posted some stories and photos my inbox was jammed with offers asking if I made custom videos, and to post more photos. I politely said no and continued sharing my stories and chatting to the people that actually treated me like a human being and not an item for sale that was here for their pleasure and not my own. Most people on here are awesome, but that 5% as Leila said can really creep hard and piss women off.
Anyway, some big crazy overwhelming shit happened in life and I decided to say "fuck it" and take off to full time wam and have a go at living off of pies and laughter. I figured there were enough emails of people asking for me to make videos and customs that Id stand a chance at surviving this way. Now the other side of the coin is harassment that I'm only here for money. Lol! Sometimes I want to yell at people "actually I do loads of free cams and super cheap sessions when I can afford to... Im just not offering it to you because I think you're a creep, you treat me like shit, and quite frankly none of that makes me hot!" (Side note if I think someone's being creepy I won't meet full stop lol)
Anyway, moral of the story is.... Men are treated like they are here for their own enjoyment, and women are treated like they are here for men's enjoyment. I think that's something the guys on here should all take a moment to think about. Women wammers exist. I met one on here after a rant I made and she sent me a private "thank you" message after making the change from lurker to having an account, and the other I met in Manchester randomly in real life. Then there are the ladies of Umd we all know are legit and love it like those who have posted above and more. Y'all know how strongly I feel about this as I've responded to many posts about it. Lol. Sorry to harp on. I always feel the need to join threads about environments that are toxic for women. Perhaps us ladies here speaking up will make at least one person think twice before sending unsolicited dick pics in custard, or writing for the first time ever with no name attached or even a hello, proclaiming how they want to bend you over and slam a pie on your ass and spank you while they head dunk you in oatmeal while reaming your ass...etc. Funny thing is that's a hot fantasy... But how about "hello. My name is (insert name here). Im from (insert location). I enjoy (insert hobbies &interests)." Build some sort of base before shoving your dick virtually into my asshole!! Whew. Anyway. Im done. Y'all get the point. You probably got it half way through reading and stopped lmao!!!
Secretlife314 said: I'm going to guess there are a lot more women than we think. I'm also going to guess that a lot of them don't make it known on here because there's a bunch of creepy fucks who don't have any boundaries on this site.
This. Yes.
There are definitely women wammers. Like IKeepMineHidden said the combination of a community and sales site can confuse things. When I showed my face on here I had absolutely no intention of opening a store. I've always enjoyed getting muddy and when I found Umd it was through Brocastown who I had asked advice about where to find out more about pies because my ex told me he wanted to throw a pie in my face. Umd became a kinky way for me to share blogs about my ex and I's pie life and it felt like we were having sex in public a bit! Haha! Hot! As soon as I posted some stories and photos my inbox was jammed with offers asking if I made custom videos, and to post more photos. I politely said no and continued sharing my stories and chatting to the people that actually treated me like a human being and not an item for sale that was here for their pleasure and not my own. Most people on here are awesome, but that 5% as Leila said can really creep hard and piss women off.
Anyway, some big crazy overwhelming shit happened in life and I decided to say "fuck it" and take off to full time wam and have a go at living off of pies and laughter. I figured there were enough emails of people asking for me to make videos and customs that Id stand a chance at surviving this way. Now the other side of the coin is harassment that I'm only here for money. Lol! Sometimes I want to yell at people "actually I do loads of free cams and super cheap sessions when I can afford to... Im just not offering it to you because I think you're a creep, you treat me like shit, and quite frankly none of that makes me hot!" (Side note if I think someone's being creepy I won't meet full stop lol)
Anyway, moral of the story is.... Men are treated like they are here for their own enjoyment, and women are treated like they are here for men's enjoyment. I think that's something the guys on here should all take a moment to think about. Women wammers exist. I met one on here after a rant I made and she sent me a private "thank you" message after making the change from lurker to having an account, and the other I met in Manchester randomly in real life. Then there are the ladies of Umd we all know are legit and love it like those who have posted above and more. Y'all know how strongly I feel about this as I've responded to many posts about it. Lol. Sorry to harp on. I always feel the need to join threads about environments that are toxic for women. Perhaps us ladies here speaking up will make at least one person think twice before sending unsolicited dick pics in custard, or writing for the first time ever with no name attached or even a hello, proclaiming how they want to bend you over and slam a pie on your ass and spank you while they head dunk you in oatmeal while reaming your ass...etc. Funny thing is that's a hot fantasy... But how about "hello. My name is (insert name here). Im from (insert location). I enjoy (insert hobbies &interests)." Build some sort of base before shoving your dick virtually into my asshole!! Whew. Anyway. Im done. Y'all get the point. You probably got it half way through reading and stopped lmao!!!
Great post. Probably a lot of people need to hear this, for several reasons.
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LeilaHazlett said:
I wouldn't assume it's a predominately male fetish, at least not as much as people think. It tends to be easier for women to find partners who are open to experimenting (at least that has been the case for me and women I know) plus as other people pointed out a lot of women are put off by online communities like umd. Even if 95% of the men on here are nice and respectful of women the 5% that send people creepy messages and harass women for photos can be enough to drive women away. And to be fair it's probably not even has high as 5% of guys on here who send inappropriate messages. All it takes is one guy to send a message like "Hey I live close to you, lets meet up so I can do (insert graphic sexual acts here) to you" to make a woman feel unsafe.
Nick said:
I wonder why this is? I think many fetishes originate in childhood, for both genders, so why should wam be predominantly male?
CandyCustard said: I know of only about 4 or 5 women who have the actual fetish originating in childhood like so many of the guys with the fetish -:
I wonder why this is? I think many fetishes originate in childhood, for both genders, so why should wam be predominantly male?
I wouldn't assume it's a predominately male fetish, at least not as much as people think. It tends to be easier for women to find partners who are open to experimenting (at least that has been the case for me and women I know) plus as other people pointed out a lot of women are put off by online communities like umd. Even if 95% of the men on here are nice and respectful of women the 5% that send people creepy messages and harass women for photos can be enough to drive women away. And to be fair it's probably not even has high as 5% of guys on here who send inappropriate messages. All it takes is one guy to send a message like "Hey I live close to you, lets meet up so I can do (insert graphic sexual acts here) to you" to make a woman feel unsafe.
This.
I'd like to thank the small handful of UMD ladies who put up with my horrible jokes and coffee selfies in PM. 
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Of course there are plenty of female lurkers' here (not as many as the guys, but still a good number)...I have personally known at least two who do (or did) regularly (one who had a disguised identity account, and one who has never had one)...I'm guessing that there must be plenty more of similar status.
As a general rule/note: I've found that women need to feel safe to express their sexuality...usually when/while in a relationship...men do not...this should be obvious)....also:men tend to be physically dominant and sexually aggressive (and as far as the interwebs go, socially 'retarded')....and being the target of sexually aggressive behavior (even when don't think it is) is not a comfortable thing for most women (especially given the high incidence of assault and rape in the world)
...and, with hetero men engaging in all manner of behaviors to find women to have sex with (some positive, some neutral, some negative)...few women will seek out a relationship on a fetish forum (maybe on a dating site, but that's another matter)...the ones that ARE on here (publicly) tend to already be in relationships.
As a general rule/note: I've found that women need to feel safe to express their sexuality...usually when/while in a relationship...men do not...this should be obvious)....also:men tend to be physically dominant and sexually aggressive (and as far as the interwebs go, socially 'retarded')....and being the target of sexually aggressive behavior (even when don't think it is) is not a comfortable thing for most women (especially given the high incidence of assault and rape in the world)
...and, with hetero men engaging in all manner of behaviors to find women to have sex with (some positive, some neutral, some negative)...few women will seek out a relationship on a fetish forum (maybe on a dating site, but that's another matter)...the ones that ARE on here (publicly) tend to already be in relationships.
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swehed125 said: Nice short post mypie..lol
But very interesting posts on such a one sided subject.
Loads of guys not many girls.
But a least umd is here
But very interesting posts on such a one sided subject.
Loads of guys not many girls.
But a least umd is here
And you obviously didn't read it!!!! Come here! I have a lemon curd jar!
MyPieRogative said: Anyway, moral of the story is.... Men are treated like they are here for their own enjoyment, and women are treated like they are here for men's enjoyment.
This, sadly, sounds all too likely to be true. I am sorry women can't easily get by on here without being harassed, propositioned and generally made to feel welcome for all the wrong reasons and I suspect this would be a much better place if women were left to quietly (or noisily) enjoy themselves on here without such unwanted attention.
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I am a girl and I have a genuine WAM fetish that originated in my youth. I lurked for years before posting and would not be surprised if there are lots of other women who are doing the same now.
I honestly don't think there are more male than female WAM fetishists in the world, particularly given that my own experiences discovering my fetish mirror many others, male and female, gay and straight, who I have met here. I think it's much more that the community has long been hetero male dominated and continues to be today. Accordingly, it is not really that conducive to female participation or honestly gay male participation either. You see fewer women regularly speaking up around here because there is virtually zero content oriented toward female audiences, few conversations that invite diverse viewpoints, and a lot of dudes who have no chill when dealing with women.
This is not anyone's fault, really I don't believe at all that the community was designed to exclude or that it intentionally does so today, I think it just happened that way. And I don't have an immediate solution other than to make women more visible participants in the community. But we do exist and we want to chat, share ideas, and have videos made for us!!!!
P.S. Maria, I just LOVE you.
I honestly don't think there are more male than female WAM fetishists in the world, particularly given that my own experiences discovering my fetish mirror many others, male and female, gay and straight, who I have met here. I think it's much more that the community has long been hetero male dominated and continues to be today. Accordingly, it is not really that conducive to female participation or honestly gay male participation either. You see fewer women regularly speaking up around here because there is virtually zero content oriented toward female audiences, few conversations that invite diverse viewpoints, and a lot of dudes who have no chill when dealing with women.
This is not anyone's fault, really I don't believe at all that the community was designed to exclude or that it intentionally does so today, I think it just happened that way. And I don't have an immediate solution other than to make women more visible participants in the community. But we do exist and we want to chat, share ideas, and have videos made for us!!!!
P.S. Maria, I just LOVE you.
As someone who shared photos here and chatted a lot, woman can handle it until one person goes way too far. Flirting and playing are part of it but don't take it past that IMO. Fun to get ideas from others here but one guy went way too far so I'm not sure if I should still share or not now. Keep it friendly and we'll all be fine.
