Just curious.

No, but that doesn't mean others haven't.

Try, if it doesn't happens then you have lost nothing.

nope

Not for the want of trying

Yes, I'm 1 for 3 with people here.

First person is local, we met up and are friends.
Second person ghosted the day of, vanished when I wanted to meet somewhere neutral in public.
Third person also ghosted the day of.

It's their loss, I continue to be active without them.
EDIT: I'm also tentative with a couple sometime in late spring or early summer? Timeframe is unclear but hopeful that it happens because we've been talking for a while now and they're cool.

The issue on here is about 90% of this fetish are males, the other 10% are often harassed and hounded because there are so few females compared to males. I've known some females leave almost as soon as they have signed up because of this. Some come back with their gender hidden or changed to stop this.

I met my now wife on fetlife as there are alot more females to males and they have lists of fetishes they like or interested to try. Me and my wife were always open about different things we each like and i was fortunate to introduce her to sploshing which now she enjoys

I sometimes think people post wind-up threads on here, without actually having any intention of meeting anyone. I might be wrong, but that's how it looks sometimes.

100% or are only here to look

Yes, had three good sessions with decent guys who were reliable and responsive.

A key element was making contact and getting things arranged in good time. I see far too many posts in this forum which expect people to meet up on a whim with very short notice, are vague about details etc.

I'd kind of like to make an official post and try to arrange something, but I'm kind of hesitant because I'd prefer meeting up with a girl, and it would most likely be a guy. I would like somebody else to pour mess on my hair for sure, but it does get awkward because let's be honest, most of us on here are turned on by WAM. It's not like we'd be engaging sexually, but it's still awkward, because that element is still there. I dunno, I guess if you can get past that and just accept it and roll with it and have a fun time without making a big deal about it it's all good I guess.

Well, I've chatted with dozens of friends here over the years and daydream of meeting someone. Taking that step requires a leap of faith and I guess that it's easier just to look. Thanks, Peter

Well, I've chatted with dozens of friends here over the years and daydream of meeting someone. Taking that step requires a leap of faith and I guess that it's easier just to look. Thanks, Peter

No, But what is more annoying that despite a Profile, so many can't even put an Area or COUNTRY of where they live..!!!
It Bugs me when they don't even put that down. Least then your know if there in the same country as you.

Those that do, usually you find there Miles away from you. Or would find it difficult and Expensive to travel..

Yes, I have made two very good (and hopefully lifelong) friends on here.

Thanks UMD and that's heartfelt..

Yes, made a great friendship that will continue for a long time.......

I have made 3 private sessions from here with the ex Ariel and the ever beautiful Jayce.
But personal hook ups, I say no. I live on 3 very private acres on the side of a ridge, surrounded by hundreds of trees outside of Lynchburg Tn. I have my own private mud hole in my back yard, hot and cold water lines to clean up outside, a large 2 person shower for indoor clean up, plenty of private yard to get messy of any kind in, a large private home with plenty of room for an inflatable pool for anything goes...but I keep getting stood up, they say yes, but then they don't show upand this is after spending considerable amounts of money for supplies and plenty of time.

Yes, Ive gotten messy with several people from here.

Yes. Had 4 meets off here. Some messy, some wet. All have been great fun. As a straight guy I worried about it at first but that rapport and setting the expectations before getting messy was great.

Yes! Expecting success for a meet-up in the next day or two is not going to give much chance of finding someone, as it would need the participant to just drop everything they've already got sorted out for other things and then dash over.


YES!! Put the location in the subject line!! (That saves having to open a thread only to find that the person is on a different continent!)

It's amazing that many people still seem to forget that this is the WORLDWIDE web, not the "within 20 mins drive of me" web!

Yes I have however 99% of people come on too strong straight away and just want a messy sex session which I don't want

The answer is simple whether it be some sort of fetish forum, bar, or any other place you might meet people. Goes like this, you don't get to know the exact percentages as they apply to the combination of you and the people you are propositioning but it doesn't matter if your overall odds of a successful encounter are 1 in 2 or 1 in 10,000, the rule is the same. And that rule is you just have to understand that you have to keep trying and if you keep trying long enough, you will eventually connect. Of course, connecting can be for better or worse, that's a different set of odds!...

I you're odds are long, you can't change the other people side of the equation but you may be able to change your side of the equation by becoming more of the type of person others would wish to meet. Remember that unless you are trying to contract for commercial services, people generally do not like to be seen as and/or treated as fetish objects even though doing a fetish activity is why you're meeting. Seek new friends into your fetish and your new friend will eventually find you...

Technically I didn't meet my partner through this site, but it was as a result of one of the London meets everyone got together from time to time.
We hit it off almost instantly, despite the fact we were both with different partners at the time that we all became friends, and eventually things were, both relationships went sour And about a year later, a chance meeting ended up with us getting together and we have never been together for almost 6 1/2 years. Here's the reason I'm back on this site producing more content than ever before. That's not only is it my partner for? Also my video guy, my producer and my best friend

I've had some luck here. I've been able to meet up with people 4 times through the site, (other than the vegas event) I find sometimes it's luck. Even though I've had 4 meetings, 4/5 times it never gets past the messaging stage.

Have met amazing guys (for hot sessions :loveeyes on here: my work means I travel internationally all the time but am lucky enough to be able to make WAM side-trips. This site is just faaabulous!

I have been lucky. 2 times from messaging people here we have met up to get messy. Ive had my share of only messages and then getting ghosted, but thats par for the course in my opinion.

I came close to having a session with someone but nothing planned out. I am still looking to find someone to have a session with.

I've talked to a few people. Only got lucky once.we met casually first a few days prior, then got together later for messy fun. Then she disappeared.

And here's why, on 25/2/23 jamesal 1, put an ad on here for people willing to join him in a pool party, some 10 people, me included, said we were willing to meet and share cost, since that time he has ghosted the site, helpful????

I'll vouch for Megapies. An amazing man and an amazing wammer I have also met several people from here for mess and muddy meets. You have to spend time chatting. Believe me, you know the ones that are up for it. Be honest, it pays off.

I get opportunities for indoor mess very rarely now, and I don't currently know a good daytime mud place. Plenty of places for nighttime fun, but I recognise that's perhaps only for the nutters like me! My experience with UMD has been really disappointing. Lots of people making very eager noises, but less eager when it comes to actually acting on it.
If I'm honest I can say maybe I was a bit like that to begin with; owning myself as bisexual took a while. It feels crap when hopes are dashed, I've had a lot of that myself.
I find it strange that this forum seems so resistant to meetups. I've had much more success with fabguys.com so that's where I put my energy nowadays.