We finally have our own messy humiliation group.

Feel free to join in.

What is Messy Humiliation?
Why do you like it?
What do you use?
Is it sweet or savoury?
Do you like to humiliate someone, or receive it?
Humiliation tips
Clean up tips?
Do you use signs?

I think the key thing about messy humiliation is misunderstood. Its not just about being wammed, messed up sploshed however you want to put it. More about the role play. So that the messy element is used as a mechanism to humiliate the one being messed up. If done well it should include some good teasing roleplay.

So for example if your the one dolling it out and you are about to squirt salad cream on your willing play partner then you may get them to take a sniff first to re-enforce what's coming. So the role play has already started before any mess has been applied.

Its suits creativity and thought. The fun for the one on the receiving end is the anticipation of slowly being shown presented and item. Thus knowing what's coming before it happens.

In some circumstances a messy item could be used to tease and then say removed - like only kidding and then use another less humiliating splosh item. So humiliation using an item is done without actually using it.

Such play allows for long drawn out role play without having to use copious amounts of mess.

I don't consider messy humiliation to be simply having someone sit in a chair and dump mess on them. That works too in the general sploshing scene but I think that real messy humiliation is something else.

It will be interesting to see others angles on the subject matter.

Thanks Patsy for setting this group up so we can discuss the subject matter in a none judgement way

I certainly agree with your take here. I'll add my two cents which is that the humiliation is most fun/effective (at least in my opinion) when the giving party enjoys WAM as much as the receiving party.

My favorite way to play is on the receiving end and I've found that my most enjoyable experiences came from times where my messy assailant was in it for the love of the game just like me. The messy humiliation aspect of it all is enjoyable, although someone messing someone else up because the receiver asked for it to happen, or because they're getting paid, or for any other reason that isn't because they love wam, I find that the humiliation aspect isn't as enjoyable as it could be otherwise.

Totally agree. My partner in slime has to see a gap on my face that's not plastered already and squirts the sauce to cover it. I have to be unrecognisable x

Yes the dynamic works better when the giving party enjoys WAM as much as the receiving party.

Personally I switch but that might not always work if say my play partner doesn't want to swap roles.

I know of one person into sploshing who had an aversion to getting messy themselves but enjoyed messing others. So they still enjoy sploshing even if they don't like getting messy. If that makes any sense.

The whole idea of the role play is that its an enjoyable experience for all. If someone's going through the motions then the dynamic won't be there any how. If there is no dynamic then its not working and time to reconsider things.

I like to use sweet substances with gross connotations! They're fun(ny) to make and the reactions are also so amazing. Sometimes savoury does the trick too! Usually savoury is a way to add the stench to it so the "villainess" has a more authentic reaction

I love to humiliate, and get humiliated as well. Either way is a thrill for me.
I like pies with cool whip. They are creamy and cause great coverage, which is what you want. No clothes. Full nude head to toe humiliation coverage for your(or my) crimes

I love being humiliated and it gets me off. The feeling of losing my dignity in front of a camera capturing pics and vids of me getting off in a disgusting mess for people to jerk off to drives me wild. Love hearing people comment on my stuff, lewd comments, just degrade me.

A feeling of a tinge of regret and actual shame and embarrassment when I'm recording a session is the best. I like feeling my boundaries being pushed, forcing myself to resign and give up my dignity and inhibitions and just focus on making good content for people to get off to. Performing embarrassing sex acts, taking copious amounts of gross, savory, or disgusting messes, all while looking into the cameras as they record it all is so fucking hot.

I also heard a good one that I would love to have done to me, where a dom makes you do something else after you've cum and you're sitting there, sloppy, stinky, disgusting, awash in post nut clarity and suddenly feeling all the shame and exposure as the cameras continue to roll. Maybe it's licking the cum off the floor, sitting there for close ups of the cum dripping off my face while I answer questions about how it feels, or whatever else. I'd love to experience that some day.

Just really enjoy the release of inhibitions and for whatever reason the shame, disgust, and humiliation really gets me going and I love to share it with everyone online.