Thought let's look at the best things about WAM, since we've looked at the worst things about WAM.
For me in terms of the best things about WAM, it's the sensory effects of the wet or mess, going all over, for me I really enjoy that as rubbing it into my outfit or shoes, certainly brings a lot of excitement to a session.
From there it's the ability to explore and doing something a bit different from others. WAM may commonly be frowned upon by some, but for those who do it, we do it for our reasons.
It's why I enjoy being able to crossdress into a nice outfit and feel like I have a made an effort, to then meet my messy fate, because I'm crossdressing & doing WAM, it may be seen as a double frown upon, but for me it's making me feel happy and comfortable doing something I enjoy and I'm not hurting anyone apart from the bank balance.
The fact that I get incredibly turned on by a soaking wet/(*insert substance here* covered maxi dress, and I know other people share the same sentiments.
I think I've also come up with a reason as to why I get so turned on by it- it's like a full- length wet t shirt.
Also the fact that almost everything I post on here has to do with maxi dresses and not one person has asked me why I'm only into that particular item of clothing.
Watching someone, or several someones, willingly and happily going from clean and pristine to totally drenched in mess, especially when it's done gradually.
It's the combination of silliness, willing victims, and watching as their once-clean outfit slowly gets messier and messier as more and more stuff is poured inside, sat in, or tipped over them, and they happily and gleefully accept it, while knowing they'll get to do exactly the same to the other person(s) moments later.
A particular favoutite moment of mine from any wam event is when one person, still completely clean and dry and perfect, starts the very first pour of something gloopy into another's clothes, knowing full well that by doing that, she's condemned herself and her own outfit to an equally gloopy fate, even as she pours. That's real magic.
DungeonMasterOne said: Watching someone, or several someones, willingly and happily going from clean and pristine to totally drenched in mess, especially when it's done gradually.
It's the combination of silliness, willing victims, and watching as their once-clean outfit slowly gets messier and messier as more and more stuff is poured inside, sat in, or tipped over them, and they happily and gleefully accept it, while knowing they'll get to do exactly the same to the other person(s) moments later.
A particular favoutite moment of mine from any wam event is when one person, still completely clean and dry and perfect, starts the very first pour of something gloopy into another's clothes, knowing full well that by doing that, she's condemned herself and her own outfit to an equally gloopy fate, even as she pours. That's real magic.
I don't remember the site in the least and I apologize in advance because I know the opinion on this site of her is incredibly polarized.
But I remember a scene featuring Ariel getting messy with different stuff in a long green evening dress-she never even gets up but you can tell that it's a gown. And I remember, for some reason, like captioning the different stages of mess in my head, and the last picture where the dress is unrecognizable she's pouring something over her head and I called it "Armageddon".
And watching a long dress slowly get soaked is always satisfying.
Probably how gunge feels against the skin, the way it enhances every sensation and just honestly feels amazing. (getting messy for the first time with my other half resulted in some incredible gunked-up sex) It also looks fantastic on other people- the way it covers the body can really enhance the curves and physique.
MessyCDresser said: Thought let's look at the best things about WAM, since we've looked at the worst things about WAM.
For me in terms of the best things about WAM, it's the sensory effects of the wet or mess, going all over, for me I really enjoy that as rubbing it into my outfit or shoes, certainly brings a lot of excitement to a session.
From there it's the ability to explore and doing something a bit different from others. WAM may commonly be frowned upon by some, but for those who do it, we do it for our reasons.
It's why I enjoy being able to crossdress into a nice outfit and feel like I have a made an effort, to then meet my messy fate, because I'm crossdressing & doing WAM, it may be seen as a double frown upon, but for me it's making me feel happy and comfortable doing something I enjoy and I'm not hurting anyone apart from the bank balance.
What for you are the best things about WAM?
Totally agree with MessyCDresser i love to dress and mess in my pristine overalls and dresses knowing done my best to look clean and tidy but also knowing the thrill it gives my to ruin that look.
The bonds that can be created between people who share this kink can be really special. It's a bit of a niche fetish and not as commonly understood as others which have been normalized more, so to find someone who gets you and your desires can be profoundly gratifying. Although I imagine that isn't unique to WAM.
WAM is also great because it can be so benign. It encourages exploration and fun and free-spiritedness in a way that not every kink does, among experienced wammers and newcomers alike, because it can be as harmless or non-threatening as a splash of water, a wallow in the mud, or plowing your face into a cake. As elaborate and expansive as it can be, so much can be accomplished with a quick trip to the baking supply aisle at your local grocery store.
For me, I love the idea of WAM so much (haven't had an actual experience myself, but I love watching it) because it's so oddly specific. And while it can be spontaneous, there's always a degree of planning involved. I usually don't have to worry about getting an accidental boner in public regarding WAM because it's the kind of thing that occurs behind closed doors, or in a secluded outdoor area.
I'm rambling here, but ultimately, it comes to the idea of adults intentionally covering themselves in messy substances like chocolate, mud, paint, "grease," etc., whether clothed or naked just being so naughty yet also goofy. The goofiness of it is there even if it's a full-on explicit scene involving masturbation or intercourse; in fact, I'd almost argue that this makes it goofier. Either way, it's a win.
Letmehavethepie said: I love the feeling of being pied. All the cream on your face. Also, I love when someone pies me and I get to hear them laugh. It is more fulfilling to me to hear them laugh and enjoy getting me messy.
This is an element I COMPLETELY understand, & hadn't thought of in this way before. Thanks for articulating this & sharing it.
I feel like I should add here that I personally adore the spectacle, & necessary trust & intimacy, behind witnessing someone suddenly being coated in slop.
that i can do it with out any clean up and still have fun ( wetlook) and even out doors peeps wont mind if your wet, in the summer ,and it makes me feel happy
Additionally, this is a wholesome, good thread. I want more people to respond to it. I don't care if it's even somehow, technically, or historically a well-trodden topic on this forum. I want to read more of what anyone has to say about this in the very immediate here, now, & future.
Best thing is the release. The forgetting of the rules. Doing what no sane person would wanna do and pushing that feeling of doing that shit. Everyone tastes the pull of the fetish but are only able or willing to give into it in varying degrees.
The pull and the transformation are the best part of WAM.
Having a woman to play with! (preferably an amenable intimate partner rather than a paid model)
One, I might add, who doesn't mind (or actually enjoys on any possible level) spending a lot of time dressing up to feminine and sartorial perfection for then to be completely debased to a sticky, greasy, gooey mess by my own hand (whilst being filmed) And then having to spend just as much time in the shower scrubbing it all off.
This is the biggest luxury - and one little else, once experienced, really matches.
Between learning and exploring in a way it takes everything about life and brings it to the surface for me.
Mess is the reverse of what's the norm it removes what's hidden and buried. For me it's a way to process a lot I've been through but also to connect and bond to the world around me without isolating within states of despair and joys of ecstasy
Trouso said: Having a woman to play with! (preferably an amenable intimate partner rather than a paid model)
One, I might add, who doesn't mind (or actually enjoys on any possible level) spending a lot of time dressing up to feminine and sartorial perfection for then to be completely debased to a sticky, greasy, gooey mess by my own hand (whilst being filmed) And then having to spend just as much time in the shower scrubbing it all off.
This is the biggest luxury - and one little else, once experienced, really matches.
One of the holy grails of WAM with what you just said in my view Trouso mate.
Everyone wants someone to get along and bounce off in a mutual, friendly, (and sometimes if possible) loving way when it comes to WAM (and even life).
Never easy to get that balance right.....but beautiful when it does happen
Trouso said: Having a woman to play with! (preferably an amenable intimate partner rather than a paid model)
One, I might add, who doesn't mind (or actually enjoys on any possible level) spending a lot of time dressing up to feminine and sartorial perfection for then to be completely debased to a sticky, greasy, gooey mess by my own hand (whilst being filmed) And then having to spend just as much time in the shower scrubbing it all off.
This is the biggest luxury - and one little else, once experienced, really matches.
I so agree with Trouso.
In my mind there is nothing better than a woman who starts out feminine and elegantly dressed and willingly allowed herself to be totally stripped of her dignity, ending in a filthy mess.
On my first wakeup early morning, sometimes snippets of my last wild dream are somehow carried over into my awoken consciousness.
Most is undoable to re-do, but some is...
That is where I am "welling" my ideas from. Do you say that? I guess not? It is like lifting up buckets of inspiration from this scary deep dark well of your unconsciousness.
That is what I like best about WAM!
I can bring some off my dreams to live and I love the outcome, the absurdity and brutality of the images, plus the joy of the models to perform those unreal visions an become part of a process when art is shaping; often in a painful, dirty an very hard-to-wash way.
To me, the best thing about wam is the intimacy of it, I haven't found an experience more intimate than having messy fun with your partner, in my case, my girlfriend watches me in my very own essence, covered in mud, playing and even getting aroused, and sharing that with her is something even more special, she sees a mud puddle and looks at me in a coquette way, as if she were inviting me to get muddy, also I love the fact that almost nobody (that I know) does it, or even think about mess as something that they would do intentionally, when I get muddy and I walk back home covered in mud, most people sees me and think that I am crazy, but that's good to me, it feels special, it feels good to know something that most people ignore: Mud is the best thing in the world
I love the consent a woman gives to taaking the time to dress up (even with every day wear), do their hair and put on make up then allow themselves to be pied or gunged. Getting pushed in the pool. I love the humilation but only if they are in on the "joke". I need to see that they are ok with it. I don't want to see anyone hurt or upset.
This is why I love the more candid stuff like the Colts mascot "Blue" pieing women in the organization or celebrities who allow themselves to be pied. It's very exciting to me.
Like MessyCDresser and CustardCorrine I too like dress in smart outfit, complete with makeup, wig and jewelry and then slowly experienced getting trashed.
I think the sense of fulfillment comes from the double transgression of cross-dressing and then ruining a perfectly good outfit. It is a mixture of doing things that most people would frown at, and sensual feel of getting soaked or covered with mess.
Gregbert said: I love the consent a woman gives to taaking the time to dress up (even with every day wear), do their hair and put on make up then allow themselves to be pied or gunged. Getting pushed in the pool. I love the humilation but only if they are in on the "joke". I need to see that they are ok with it. I don't want to see anyone hurt or upset.
This is why I love the more candid stuff like the Colts mascot "Blue" pieing women in the organization or celebrities who allow themselves to be pied. It's very exciting to me.
Like Gregbert, I love that a women would allow someone to destroy her dignity in a consensual way. The muckier she gets, the better. To me, it is important that she is smartly dressed and looking great to start. ( When we both know that she is going to end up totally filthy.)
The anticipation of being with a clean and smartly dressed woman is part of my pleasure. I would love to take her out to lunch, smartly dressed, when we both know that, as soon as we get home I have a messy fate waiting her.
Like Greg said, her humiliation is part of the fun (provided she is agreeable to play along). I would also want to ensure she stayed in her filthy state of a couple of hours, while she behaves as if nothing had happened. Perhaps spending time watching TV or having an evening meal sitting at the table in her messy clothes.. (THAT IS provided I could keep my hands off her for that long !)
It's two things for me: I always loved seeing people in wet and messed clothes. On top of that, it's a matter of heightened senses connected to sexual experiences. It started off with loving the feeling of my own semen on myself and of course you can't get enough of that so I'd add water and oils so I could spread it all over for total bliss. I first thought it may have been a substitute for intimacy with others, but found that sharing a double load of semen (not to mention a good supply of custard) with another guy took it to the next level. I also get off by cross dressing, and when both is happening, I just love the abandon and letting it all flow.
1) The feels! The feels! They're just something else. It also make me most conscious of my whole body in a way that nothing else does. I love the way if feels covering my body.
2) The escapism. I have a hard time switching my brain off most of the time but WAM is one of the few things that makes me forget all the things that are going on outside of that room and just enjoy having fun with no judgement or stress and worries. Other than when the trigger is released on the gunge tank.
Love the models, getting gunged, would love to find someone who is a female non model to regularly play with.
Like Cheeky Luna also said for me WAM is escapism from the real world and a stressful job, love getting messy also and feeling the textures all over the body
I love wearing swim briefs or competitive swimwear when i get wet or messy (check my album). It's the feel of the water or mud on them and on my skin that is the one of the best things to me. The other is how erotic it makes me!