would you meet a person with out a profile photo? just asked someone to send a photo so i know who im meeting and they stopped chatting! would you entertain someone without a photo or am i being to picky ?

I think any genuine person serious about meeting would send a photo, you're going to see their face when you meet so seems pointless to try and hide it. I think you probably just uncovered another person who likes talking and planning and the fantasy but not actually meeting

Thank you Candy always admired and loved your work, think i should add a few lines to my profile now

Even though I only meet people for personal shoots I still insist on a photo and other details before anything takes place my rules are no photo no personal shoot
And if someone turned up not looking like the photo they sent me and that's unfortunate for them they would lose their money for trying to deceive me in the first place if you have something to hide them best not lie in the first place

Profile photo or a photo of someone certainly important when meeting up, shows someone to be more genuine about a meet

Agreed, like any internet meetup.
If someone wanted to meet me and asked for a photo I would oblige as my face is hidden on here. Creepy/suspicious not to and hardly builds trust.

i think from now on in no photo no chat, and certainly not meeting

I met Jayce and she knew I was a fake. But she saw my real picture and then ASKED for a better fake picture.

So I had that goin' for me.

Robby

www.wammalamapie.com

www.shepiestheguy.com

https://wammerific.umd.net/

I don't even accept friend requests without a profile pic of some kind, and if serious about meeting then swapping clean face pics is a requirement. I've had people not bothered about seeing my face beforehand which kinda makes me think they're not concerned enough for their own safety.

What Candy said is 100% truth there are so many who love the fantasy of chatting about a meet but when reality sets in they vanish. I have had it many times, someone will chat me up hot and heavy and I can generally tell that all they want is to indulge there fantasies. They give no thought to an actual meet . I posted a few threads about frenzy and negotiations would be worth a look might help you weed out the those folks who just want a fantasy from the others.
https://umd.net/groups/negotiations-consent
https://umd.net/groups/session-frenzy

if someone is genuine and wanted to meet i would send a better photo the profile ones are'nt great on mine

normal everyday me clean

Exactly this. Now, there ARE caveats. For instance in Vegas, we had people who don't show their faces on the site (maybe they are in a business where that would be a bad thing), lurkers and people that didn't give their real names. But this was a PUBLIC and group meeting. If someone wants to meet you personally, i.e. 1 on 1...yea it's a safety precaution.

But are you going to like wear a pair of those fake glasses with the nose and mustaches on them to a bar or something?

Potatoman, is that really you in your profile pic?

I'll chat to anyone on here. I went years without a profile pic. I know people value anonymity. But if somebody actually wanted to meet me, even if it was for a vanilla meet up to suss each other out? Yeah, I'd need a pic.

If you look at my pics under my profile, you'll see this is a rather accurate portrayal.