Lots of people will want to buy non top less Jessie work it's not all about nudity with WAM and as Jessie has one of the best personalities on UMD a lot of her non nude stuff is better than some nude. I can understand there will be those who don't agree but I bet there will be a lot more who do and are glad Jessie is still going to post
Wouldnt mind love but will take anything I can get
This is a great deal on a great video. Schoolboy, there is nothing wrong with a decision to stop making nude videos. WAM is not as much porn as it is fetish.
schoolboy said: Who's going to want to buy non topless/nude session of Messy Jessie.?
Thankyou for being so thoughtless regarding my illness and the majority of my work. This is disrespectful both to the Rev's post and to me personally. As it goes around 80% of my sales over the years have been non topless/nude work and I haven't been topless for over 2 years. Jessie
Just a word of support regarding this scene. It's a great scene from a buyer's point of view. It's really great value. It's just that for my family and I it's better than one by one these scenes with me topless in are gradually removed and I am grateful to the Rev for agreeing to do so. I have been asked by some lovely customers if I want them to delete nude scenes of me from their hard drives. The answer is an instant 'No!' I want you all to still buy them,enjoy them etc for what they are. I'm very happy all the producers including me will have some scenes until October 20th 2018 but then they'll all be gone from public view. So please do buy this from Rev. Jessie
schoolboy said: Who's going to want to buy non topless/nude session of Messy Jessie.?
I will..and I am sure many many other people too.
Look at the number of great, successful non-nude sites. You may as well ask who would want to buy scenes from The Moomins, Dungeon Master 1, my Fully Clothed Wam store , Slapstick Stuff etc etc etc
If you are saying non-nude doesn't float your boat then fair play to you but loads of us love the non-nude slapstick WAM and imho Jessie is one of the greatest slapstick WAM actors ever.
schoolboy said: Who's going to want to buy non topless/nude session of Messy Jessie.?
Hmmm....firstly it's bad manners to try and ruin a producers promo (and we have no financial gain from this promo).
Secondly I know you know about Jessie's health because you commented on the thread about her health so how crazy is it to comment on the thing you know she struggles with.
ShinyLycra said: I thought nude stuff is being removed because her kid is growing up?
Again not particularly helpful but yet again I'll explain why Jessie is removing her nude scenes. She is a human being with a family not an object. For 27 years she has had an eating disorder that started with an helpful comment about her body when she was 7 years old. The net result was both bulimia nervosa and anorexia ,anxiety disorder,depression,self harm and a suicide attempt etc etc Not nice. In October 2015 she was dying at home because her body had given up and it happened to be me on the phone to her taht day. She was 20 mins away from organ failure and was in intensive care etc So we embarked on trying to deal with it,which was extremely complicated for lots of reasons. In early 2016 she was in a secure mental health unit and during a therapy session I was present it came out what a huge effect an ex boyfriend of hers having her do topless/nude work,using the reason that they needed the money for the kids etc,had on her. Once it started she couldn't stop it and after ending up single she was left with two kids and had to carry on doing the nude stuff to survive. It also came out that her son had been bullied it came out about the nude work. So she thought she was a terrible parent. So of course both myself,the therapist,her family etc assured she would never have to do this sort of work ever again. Then over the months more treatment has followed and bit by bit she has improved enough to do some films and take part in the forum etc Every producer has agreed to remove the nude scenes now after a period of time that means they can sell them. The date chosen is her little girl's 10th birthday as it's a nice day for Jessie to focus on.
Now please can the Rev be allowed to just sell his scene without it being hijacked by people discussing Jessie's decision.
schoolboy said: Who's going to want to buy non topless/nude session of Messy Jessie.?
I hope you don't buy any of the beautiful ladies scenes on umd... you don't deserve to share WAM fun, silliness, and sexiness with us! What a jackass comment.
Everyone else... this was a really fun scene that I think everyone will enjoy. I know Jessie and I had a good time with it!
Thanks everyone for being supportive. Mike explains stuff better than me so thanks for understanding Shiny L! Yeah Maria is right that we did have fun! The part neither she nor Rev will have known is that I'm a better actress than most people realised and internally I had the usual anxiety about showing my body off because of the body dysmorphia plus I felt ashamed etc They couldn't possibly have known that at the time at filming. I also was anxious about learning the lines,ruining the film,being ugly,getting the wrong train (yes I've done that a few times-ha!ha!),worrying about the kids etc etc,worrying about food etc So that was the person I was more than anything to do with Rev etc I've actually lived a life of 'hiding the truth'. From age 7 when a weird adult said something to me I've hidden not eating and from 18 making myself throw up. Basically this is one of the miracles Mike has performed with me. He's gone through hell to get me to admit all this to him then he has gently carressed me into admitting it to myself,then my family and the doctors and then helped me change it. To have the weight of those lies lifted has been life changing and that's why I can just be truthful now. Over the past months I have been triggered back into the illness a few times by various events,people but as time is going on the triggers get less and less because I'm dealing with them better plus I've finally been able to fully love Mike. By coincidence I told him on Sunday he was perfect,sometime I've never done before! So you see I am in a much better place and that's what I'm trying to reflect in my post about my site moving to UMD etc and in supporting Rev on this post. I just want everyone to enjoy the scenes I participated in and then respect the fact that in the future they are going off sale and both me and the producers are happy with that. Me,Maria et al are all humans,with families and emotions despite stupid posts about that subject. I was 36 last Friday and have two kids. So what? I'm getting more custom requests than ever before,it's just a number and an attitude. I've been asked for I.D. in the last year and most people if asked think I'm late 20's. Mrs B looks amazing and is nearly 50. Lisa Moomin is about my age and still looks great. Mike's ex Jo Bache is 47 and still looks amazing. In fact many actresses etc seem to be staying better looking to much greater ages these days. Really some of you men on here really make yourself look like idiots with some of your comments and messages to models. Just think before you type and you might find you'll get a lovely response from the models and producers. Respect and courtesy is still appreciated. Be a gentleman. Then you can enjoy the fantastic world of WAM a bit more. Love Jessie x
To be honest the Worcestershire set up is pretty dreadful from the hospital,to mental health services through to the eating disorder service. Mike has had to battle from day one starting with the GP's and hospital. I have a great relationship with the G.P.'s now and one person within the ED service was great and got me DBT after Mike banged on and on and on about it. It was the DBT that worked best for me. The CPN wasn't much cop and was always in a hurry. We sort of worked out,as although I felt suicidal a lot but knew I wouldn't do it because of the kids we could concentrate on working through the reasons I was the way I was,plus get me eating and not throwing up,plus then helping me resolve the reasons I was ill. Mike bought and learnt all the professional books on DBT/body dysmorphia,eating disorders etc and he explains things really well to me. So we're now at a stage where I eat,I'm about 45% of my target weight increase and increasing very steadily which is how it should be done. I weigh myself once a week not 20 times a day! I have lots of daft phobia's and some of those have been sorted-still hate banana's,spiders and being touched by strangers though! So it's all positive. I actually had the best week of my life (except Saturday) this last week. Last year was the first time ever I've had a nice birthday and this year was the first year I let Mike organise it which turned into a 'birthday week' not just the day. It was incredible and started with a helicopter,then trips out,lovely food,stuff with the kids and family,safari parks,funfairs,lots of pies and gunge including a couple of brilliant surprise ones that were hilarious so I am really upbeat!
Yeah this sort of illness never disappears and after 27 years of being a certain way it's not easy to just change overnight. The key us learning coping mechanisms to deal with all the probs. However what Mike has achieved in 18 months is amazing and I can still can't believe how much better I am now than before. Still a fair way to go but remember I was due to go into a secure ED unit for NINE MONTHS and he has got me to a stage further than what that was meant to achieve without me going in! That's like getting out of a prison sentence to me! He had set a target of 36 months to sort all the different aspects of my life and last week he got the last one stabilised. Now it's a case of completely removing all the problems and I'm not worried because I know he'll manage it. I'm becoming pretty positive these days so it's all exciting to me and my family are just stunned by my change in character. I'm more like the fun loving Jessie now you see on film!
ShinyLycra said: No one should be telling you that you're going to be sent to a secure unit for nine months.
You can be detained on a section three for six months, then it's renewed for another six months and each renewal after that lasts for twelve months. There isn't a nine month option.
It's worse than a jail sentence because for all intents and purposes you're detained until the doctors decide to take you off section. Almost everybody gets moved from the secure unit to an open ward before being taken off section.
Prisons have a lot more going on for people to do in the days than HDU or PICU units do.
Always make use of your right to appeal to the Tribunal because your consultant then has to have a plan of what's going to they're going to do whilst detaining you so that means you've got a 'road map' of the way forward. I hope that you were advised to do that when you were in hospital before.
The relationship with your CPN is so so so important, if you don't get on with them then talk to your GP and or your consultant about being changed to a different CPN.
You're sound really positive so everything is onwards and upwards. You're winning and you're the one doing that, you've got Mike and lots people supporting you but you're the one who is doing the really hard work, you are the one winning. Never forget how strong you've been to get this far.
Oh and hating spiders isn't a daft phobia lol.
Just to clarify the 9 month inpatient thing was actually a special Eating Disorder centre in Warwickshre and we were fighting at one point to get her in there and it was supposed to be a 6 month stay. When she got assessed she was so bad they said she'd have to go in for 9 months but they couldn't take her for 4 months so that's when the CPN came on the scene. We all decided she'd be better with me looking after her,the Dad's having the kids for a while,plus therapy,plus an outpatient ED course,plus meds etc etc Then the DBT started. She progressed much quicker then and was able to avoid the Eating Disorder Centre. So as Jessie says it's good news!
wambob said: Yeah, so, that post had absolutely nothing to do with your condition and everything to do with the fact that this trainwreck of a post is still going on. I think the good rev should just shoot it in the face (i.e., delete it) and start over from scratch.
I'm not sure I'm reading the meaning of your post correctly so please confirm. Why would the Rev delete this thread when Jessie has given her support to his sale of the his scene and politely explained why her scenes are being removed in order to remove any misunderstanding. Secondly if by trainwreck you are referring to a someone explaining something clearly so there is no misunderstanding and in fact has clearly explained repeatedly that the current situation is pretty positive from Jessie's point of view and also the Rev's. If you have actually read what she's said you'd know it was good news. If you haven't and assumed it was all bad then to describe her situation as a trainwreck would be a pretty insensitive thing to do. If I've misunderstood what you were trying to say then I apologise.
ShinyLycra said: What type of unit it is doesn't matter, to be detained in a secure unit you're either on section two or section three. Secure units only take people who're on section. A CPN would have been assigned and involved from when she was admitted in early 2016, they'll have been at every CPA meeting in hospital.
On admission they've no idea how long you'll be there for, 6 months is simply how long the first S3 lasts for.
If you were her nearest relative when she was in hospital last year then the paperwork you got will have outlined in brief the laws and her rights.
She deffo wasn't sectioned. She went into the secure unit as a voluntary admission. She had someone shadow her within the unit re. eating/being sick and then there were meetings with about 4 professionals each time. Her Mum was the nearest relative. I'm not related to her remember. The CPN that visited the house afterwards wasn't from the unit. She came from the MH Crisis team I think. This part is quite old news though now and she doesn't need a CPN now.
It's Mike again not Jess. Ah that's all good to know. I can see the difference and why one is called an open ward but they are 'kept in' and the other is a secure unit. Thanks for being concerned and for the clarification and glad the mystery is over!