I guess I'm curious...
Does anyone here feel like they don't have a voice?
I'm hetero. But I'm asking gay, bi, trans, pan, A and anyone else.
Is this still your community?

I'm just here for the messy content. I'm not really here to get into any drama or anything. If I see something I like, great, if I see something I don't like...well, I just move on...I've said it before in another post and I'll say it again, the UMD is pretty much the main hub for messy stuff, you can try finding stuff elsewhere, but mostly all the good messy stuff ends up here. There's some stuff on other clip sites, but most of those sites have EVERYTHING fetish wise, so you gotta search around, it's nice just coming here where the main focus is WAM.

As for the community, there's some cool people on here, but I really don't interact much with anyone. I'm a nobody. Occasionally I'll get a message or a chat thing will pop up, and I typically respond, but for the most part I'm just a lurker who occasionally makes posts in forums when I see something I really like.

I am Demisexual, but that is not important here as it is a kink site for WAM. My sexuality doesn't come into it at all so I don't feel I have a voice, because that is not what I am using it for.

If there was a separate thread regarding sexuality, then I would hope everyone here would be able to speak up equally, would be interesting to see if there are any issues as politics and religion has popped up occasionally (Kink has no political affiliations) so there could be potential for some silencing?

Interesting question, thanks.

I think everyone has a voice, I think sometimes you just have to shout to get attention.
For me i am not into the community Aspects i.e. going to splunches etc.
But i have an interest and do occasionally comment, reply to threads, Message etc. if something is neat or looks cool
Otherwise i am a more private person and probably a lot of others like me on here also are

Thanks for asking
I'm not sure
I think I'm still developing mine

Love this reply SO much, and this thread in general. I sincerely hope everyone feels like they have a voice here.

While I understand and respect that "tomboy" isn't an orientation or gender identity, it's sorta how I've always seen myself. As a kid I envied the neighborhood guys who would get into mud fights and I later won over my future/former spouse by becoming his roadie. And on UMD everyone has been absolutely accepting of the way I am, with no negative comments or requests to change. I love this place!

I'll forever be in awe of the many ways this interest is expressed, and I've complimented many different UMDers on their photos and writing. Sometimes I feel a little awkward knowing that I'm not the target audience, per se, but again, nothing but nice comments in return.

Interesting question for a user that doesn't exist to ask!

Apparently it wasn't their community after all!

I still consider it mine, since whenever I first visited it, to my first account, through a time of no account, until I set up a new account last year, posted some content, and took time off for a move into health issues! (I'm working on returning to take a more active part once more, but it will still be a bit before I'm 100% back in action!)

This is just the kind of thread that shows what nice people are on here. One of the best things about this community is that I don't think there is a target audience.

There are as many variations of this fetish as there are people into it. That makes it a broad 'church', if you'll forgive the phrase, and that breeds openess and acceptance of others....

We are so lucky to be here....