OK. Here is the big one. I was going to start a separate post on it but I don't think it would get any traction. WAM has gotten too extreme. Porn and, this applies to WAM, is kinda like a ratchet. It only goes one way-- up. Once folks get inured to something, they crave something a little more over the top. So, back in the day, a pretty girl getting a nice pie in the face was great for us pie fans, but now? With HD cameras, forums like this one, and more models willing to take this work, that is not enough for a lot of us. We need the model nude now. The humiliation is not enough-- can you have the pie be something gross? What if we tied her up? I think she should be masturbating with a huge dildo while getting pied and covered with condiments. You see? The pie in the face (or the slime over the head, or the mud wrestling in bikinis, etc.) is no longer quite enough to get you there, so the ratchet goes up a notch.
That's kinda true for me. Like first Human Garbage Disposal scene was like an amazing novelty. but now Human Garbage Disposal is the baseline for me. pie in the face or basic sliming is like nothing.
I do not find this to be true for me. I like what I like and someone making content with dog food or fish guts to serve whatever disordered impulse they are afflicted with does not move me an inch toward enjoying such content.
Then again, I have never understood the "humiliation" angle that so many here seem to be so enthusiastic about. For me, WAM is tactile, visual and playful. I cannot grasp how something that someone willingly participates in is "humiliating".
Now, if I make my girl pay the pizza delivery guy with a load of my cum on her face, or "slut" written on her forehead in lipstick I understand that may be humiliating to her vis-vis the pizza guy, but if I push her face into a cake while doing her doggie-style that's an act of trust, passion and vulnerability.
I do not find this to be true for me. I like what I like and someone making content with dog food or fish guts to serve whatever disordered impulse they are afflicted with does not move me an inch toward enjoying such content.
I fully agree with this. I think the Dogfood slime go past a line of good taste and should not be considered WAM. It's totally heretical.
Except under very certain conditions I really don't like sexualness in WAM. I know this is probably odd to say but my favorite type is of regular woman usually wearing very formal clothes acting goofy and silly while swimming in their clothes or getting messy.
I do not find this to be true for me. I like what I like and someone making content with dog food or fish guts to serve whatever disordered impulse they are afflicted with does not move me an inch toward enjoying such content.
I fully agree with this. I think the Dogfood slime go past a line of good taste and should not be considered WAM. It's totally heretical.
I think this kind of comment is a bit too kink-shamy. Plenty of people might see "regular" WAMmers as wrong or disordered too.
I do agree though, in that I think really disgusting mess is a whole different category from other forms of WAM, and it massively turns me off.
screen_name said: Custard is the spawn of the devil.
Could you elaborate a bit? I'm curious as to how you've come to feel that strongly.
I'm just totally grossed out by the stuff- combine a very sickly sweet smell/taste with pungent artificial vanilla flavouring (I do not like vanilla to begin with) and it's just total nasty for me.
There was a few custard scenes I used to find very sexy, so I figured I'd try the stuff. Brought a small carton into my small windowless ensuite shower with me to test out.
Poured it in my bra/down my front and was immediately overpowered by the very intense smell/taste. It took less than 30 seconds between "turned on and gagging for it" to diving straight in the freezing cold shower (mid winter) while choking/dry heaving trying desperately to keep my lunch down. Used about a can of deodorant and left my window open all night (mid February!) to make the place breathable again. Now- I can't even enjoy those sexy custard scenes since I'm just reminded how nasty the smell is.
[I am not allergic- it is just the total gross out factor]