In a dilemma, as i approach my 41st birthday is it time to call it a day ? I guess i will never be able to compete with the models, but do people prefer to see models getting messy opposed to seeing girls who have had the wam fetish from as young as they can remember.....whats your opinion ? Is it more of a turn on to see girls who don't like getting messy to girls who do like getting messy ?
Please don't bow out!!! You look beautiful and graceful and i would love to keep seeing you. Maybe reconsider in like 50 more years but then just consider.
No way! If you enjoy it carry on and as long as other people want to see it then keep making it available. I know you're probably worried that people will be saying "oh just look at her" but 41 is young firstly and secondly you are very hit with a lovely body!
I'm 36 in a few months, not far behind you! I started this stuff when I wad 24, had a 6 year gap and just came back. I hope I'll still be going in a few years and don't want to let someone else's perceptions of what's sexy influence my decisions. You go girl!
WAMprincess said: No way! If you enjoy it carry on and as long as other people want to see it then keep making it available. I know you're probably worried that people will be saying "oh just look at her" but 41 is young firstly and secondly you are very hit with a lovely body!
I'm 36 in a few months, not far behind you! I started this stuff when I wad 24, had a 6 year gap and just came back. I hope I'll still be going in a few years and don't want to let someone else's perceptions of what's sexy influence my decisions. You go girl!
Xoxo
I do Worry i don't want people to look at me and think that. Feeling old.......Xxx
Cinqgirlracer said: In a dilemma, as i approach my 41st birthday is it time to call it a day ? I guess i will never be able to compete with the models, but do people prefer to see models getting messy opposed to seeing girls who have had the wam fetish from as young as they can remember.....whats your opinion ? Is it more of a turn on to see girls who don't like getting messy to girls who do like getting messy ?
I hit 40 this year and, well...it's bracing. And I live in LA, where if you don't like something about your appearance, wait a few seconds because there's bound to be a bus ad, model/actor/waiter, a Kimye clone making you feel "less than" any time of the day.
That said, I feel like our community is built on and around folks like you.
I have an image of you being pied nude and in i think a waitress outfit/maid outfit, and it's burned in my memory.
Yours was among the first true "amateur" WAM I stumbled onto here, and I was like "Oooh! French!" (can't remember if you're French or Quebecois or otherwise?).
I love the quality of your skin, of the way you look in mess; your hair too, always curly, even despite the saturation of mess -- you actually would make custard and savory sets interesting, when that isn't really "my bag". And you look amazing naked, always. Your body is fantastic, I feel like those that like you/your stuff have and will continue to do so.
I also remember yours being among the most SENSUAL (a key rarity) WAM I'd ever encountered. You were always naked to some degree, but maybe your top would be on and your pussy or your butt would be pied; your face and maybe someplace else, but it was always an interesting visual. There was something really sensuous and erotic about your stuff, but yet playful and fun, too; not every producer has/does this. Much like with Jilly and Adam, I feel like the sensuality you and "Mr. CingGuy" display is genuine; your stuff is sexy because you really get into it (and I realize i'm pulling someone younger and newer to the scene into this post, but I do so to make a point -- we all age, we all grow, that some of us are still here is astounding but also speaks volumes about how deeply this is a part of us; what i think leads someone to stick around is personality and obviously a genuine love of WAM) Let's face it: different strokes, different folks (and ages and types).
Look at the below pics -- you still look as sexy as you did in the custard/pie set i have burned in my memory. Whole-body but playful nudity, always a "Cinqgirl" trademark.
If you decide to depart (or stop producing), I can understand, and that's totally your choice.
But if you decide to stop, I hope it's for YOUR reasons, not the feeling that you aren't still desirable.
Age is only a number. Some people are more hung up on it than others, of course, but who cares? If you enjoy it then keep doing it!
I'll be 48 this year, so I hear you about feeling like you are competing with the twenty-somethings. Sure, I don't have the same fan base as someone younger but I have a nice little niche of loyal fans and it's been wonderful. I'm semi-retired and moving to full retirement, from a production standpoint (not at all that I've quit wamming). It isn't because of my age, but because I'm at a stage in life where I literally don't have the time to edit video anymore.
I've always admired your WAM as it is genuine and done with complete abandon. You two are such a great couple! Retire on your own terms, not because of what others may or may not think.
By the way, I never would have guessed your age had you not told us. You look fantastic. I'm envious.
You definitely should listen to Mrs. Bee. Not only is she one of the hottest models ever, she's also right. You have a rocking body and a great face. Don't quit!
I agree with everyone and what is said. If I had the chance I would ring at your door, go down on my knees and beg you, DON'T QUIT. Your work means a lot to me and many Wammers. It's super erotic, horny and messy, that I enjoy very much.
There's no way you can retire. You look amazing and your videos are superb don't let all your fans down 40 is the 20 new twenty. Anyway we need you here, so no more talk of retiring there now you have to stay. xxx
Key questions - Do you love sploshing, do you love getting messy and do you find it fun, and perhaps (and i don't like asking this but in this one case i will make an exception), find it erotic when you get covered in all kinds of goo???
From me - Don't quit. Age is nothing. I am also nearly 40, i used to film WAM for a long time, it was a passion. Why am i saying this? Because i regret retiring from this kind of work. I never made a profit from it, just about broke even, but the atmosphere of fun i used to have with the women i worked with was something i have just never been able to ever recreate in my boring office job. Those photos you have posted are really good. WAM fans (including myself) appreciate the fact that people do this, yes, some like top name models, but while they are probably great photo sets and will sell - and this is where many will probably disagree with me - they lack something, energy and passion, a love for sploshing and getting messy, to some models, it's just a job, all put on for the camera (i know this because there are two or three models who told me this when i was filming), for a normal fun woman like yourself who does this for fun and enjoyment, it's much better. Don't be age concious, don't stop doing something you love because of that. Keep at it. Don't quit. I agree with pretty much every single comment in this thread. Keep at it, your great, and did i mention the photos are really really good? Well, they are. Keep at it
Yes! Can't wait to see that! You've definitely still got it! And it's so nice to hear from people for whom this is their genuine fetish (like me and you). That's who this forum is for! You're younger than my wife and I'm still attracted to her, so don't feel low about a number when you're still hot stuff!
Hey I'm quite a lot older and have never been as busy in the wam scene if you still enjoy doing it and I can vouch there definitely being a very vibrant market still out there then your only as old as you feel and age is just a number,xx mrs cc
You're 40?...no way! You ARE one of the models and the fact that you are a genuine splosher makes it all the better. We need more wam fans like you and Mrs CC here to keep it real. Age is irrelevant. Enjoy
I'm having a hard time believing you're 41! But you know what? 40 is the new 30 and there'll always be a cam model here, a cam model there, but when you've stuck around and you still look great? That's something you've earned, so embrace it and keep getting messy as long as you want to. Clearly you have admirers, but in the end even that's not important You do you!