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"I think someone is trying to seek a punishment from Bratty"
Love you, too
As most of you know, this is my fun, I post the videos and try to break even with expensive messy substances. It is not news that the price has gone up on everything! I have plenty of complimentary pictures as I have boundaries that prevent me from filming explicit scenes. Shocker: I have a vanilla life! I have entrusted this site with my secrets, so when I get a message like this-it's like is this fun? Does this person want me to send a punishment to them? Or is this part of the experience I haven't seen yet? Bc 0/10 stars on this interaction-what do you all think?
I'm a hot mess ;)
10/11/23, 1:21pm: Sorry, I had to delete the screenshot of your inbox conversation, as part of it was text typed by the other user. You can re-upload a cropped version that contains only your text. Also, any sensitive information and texts you've uploaded to UMD remain confidential and out of reach of any other member, regardless of who they are or how they've acted.
Just noting that I've spoken with Brattyshortcakes and am still looking into the situation. 
Everybody please feel free to flag anything that makes you remotely uncomfortable because we can get to it more quickly, plus make sure they're not bothering anybody else
Everybody please feel free to flag anything that makes you remotely uncomfortable because we can get to it more quickly, plus make sure they're not bothering anybody else
Stay messy, my friends
Brattyshortcakes said: As most of you know, this is my fun, I post the videos and try to break even with expensive messy substances. It is not news that the price has gone up on everything! I have plenty of complimentary pictures as I have boundaries that prevent me from filming explicit scenes. Shocker: I have a vanilla life! I have entrusted this site with my secrets, so when I get a message like this-it's like is this fun? Does this person want me to send a punishment to them? Or is this part of the experience I haven't seen yet? Bc 0/10 stars on this interaction-what do you all think?
If the screen wasn't deleted, I could give a better answer but if it is similar to other interactions I have seen that have crossed the line in what I would consider "proper interactions with a model" (which this definitely sounds like) then, I would honestly say they aren't welcome here. Full stop. Nonnegotiable. Zero fucks given.
Making smut is easy. Making art takes more!
Nostalgic Erotica Prod said:
If the screen wasn't deleted, I could give a better answer but if it is similar to other interactions I have seen that have crossed the line in what I would consider "proper interactions with a model" (which this definitely sounds like) then, I would honestly say they aren't welcome here. Full stop. Nonnegotiable. Zero fucks given.
Brattyshortcakes said: As most of you know, this is my fun, I post the videos and try to break even with expensive messy substances. It is not news that the price has gone up on everything! I have plenty of complimentary pictures as I have boundaries that prevent me from filming explicit scenes. Shocker: I have a vanilla life! I have entrusted this site with my secrets, so when I get a message like this-it's like is this fun? Does this person want me to send a punishment to them? Or is this part of the experience I haven't seen yet? Bc 0/10 stars on this interaction-what do you all think?
If the screen wasn't deleted, I could give a better answer but if it is similar to other interactions I have seen that have crossed the line in what I would consider "proper interactions with a model" (which this definitely sounds like) then, I would honestly say they aren't welcome here. Full stop. Nonnegotiable. Zero fucks given.
I review all these situations, and I can promise you that if someone is actually harassing someone here, they'd be gone. Some others just get a little too personal and need to be told to back off (which they normally do), in which case I might not ban them, but you can always block them. Notes are always kept for posterity so we can also see long-term if somebody is just not the vibe
Stay messy, my friends
Messmaster said:
I review all these situations, and I can promise you that if someone is actually harassing someone here, they'd be gone. Some others just get a little too personal and need to be told to back off (which they normally do), in which case I might not ban them, but you can always block them. Notes are always kept for posterity so we can also see long-term if somebody is just not the vibe
I review all these situations, and I can promise you that if someone is actually harassing someone here, they'd be gone. Some others just get a little too personal and need to be told to back off (which they normally do), in which case I might not ban them, but you can always block them. Notes are always kept for posterity so we can also see long-term if somebody is just not the vibe
How do you determine whether or not someone is "actually" harassing someone? Harassment by definition is any behavior toward someone which can make them feel uncomfortable, which seems to have been the case here. If that's not enough to qualify as harassment, I'm not sure what is.
WAMOptimist93 said:
How do you determine whether or not someone is "actually" harassing someone?
How do you determine whether or not someone is "actually" harassing someone?
I personally check into each of these situations. I look into inbox messages and chat conversations and the history of logs and notes, talk with the parties involved, and make a determination of what to do. I try very hard not to be dismissive of anyone or their viewpoint. In this case the charge was not actually harassment in the first place.
Stay messy, my friends
I really like the way you are handling this Bratty! Turning the person's comments back on them publicly!!
Messmaster and I have been in talks and he is the first one to come to my defense always!!! I really appreciate all the work he does in making this site fun for us, and I cannot imagine having to deal with this nonsense all the fucking time. Thank you MM! 
I'm a hot mess ;)
Nostalgic Erotica Prod said:
If the screen wasn't deleted, I could give a better answer but if it is similar to other interactions I have seen that have crossed the line in what I would consider "proper interactions with a model" (which this definitely sounds like) then, I would honestly say they aren't welcome here. Full stop. Nonnegotiable. Zero fucks given.
Brattyshortcakes said: As most of you know, this is my fun, I post the videos and try to break even with expensive messy substances. It is not news that the price has gone up on everything! I have plenty of complimentary pictures as I have boundaries that prevent me from filming explicit scenes. Shocker: I have a vanilla life! I have entrusted this site with my secrets, so when I get a message like this-it's like is this fun? Does this person want me to send a punishment to them? Or is this part of the experience I haven't seen yet? Bc 0/10 stars on this interaction-what do you all think?
If the screen wasn't deleted, I could give a better answer but if it is similar to other interactions I have seen that have crossed the line in what I would consider "proper interactions with a model" (which this definitely sounds like) then, I would honestly say they aren't welcome here. Full stop. Nonnegotiable. Zero fucks given.
Claywalker hasn't broken any rules per se to be removed, so I understand why, but man, what a vibe killer!
I'm a hot mess ;)
My response: but I forgot to screenshot the end where I invite him to never comment on anything of mine again!
I'm a hot mess ;)
Captain Custard said: It feels like Claywalker has too much time on their hands; time which would be better spent learning how to interact like an adult rather than trying to analyse people in a way which could only ever offend.
That said, if you're dishing out punishments ...
That said, if you're dishing out punishments ...
Hmm oh I like this-always up for some messy fun!!!
I'm a hot mess ;)
RealJED108 said: Hey Bratty, I wouldn't wanna be whoever that was, but I Respect you and proud you are my friend. There are many more good Women and Men on here ! 
You're right and thank you so much for saying this, it's easy to get down with pricks, but gotta remember the good people on here!
I'm a hot mess ;)
dalamar666 said: I really like the way you are handling this Bratty! Turning the person's comments back on them publicly!!
This is the first time someone has just been weirdly mean, I will not stand for this, we all know he would never send this load of shit to a man!
I'm a hot mess ;)
Randyrex said: I never saw the convo, but Bratty is one of the most chill producer/enthusiasts here so now my curiosity is super-peaked at what weird-ass shit someone wrote her. In general UMD is remarkably supportive for a fetish forum. Also, in the wild west days of the early 2000s there were some real characters that Messmaster has long since given the ole boot.
Thank you for this! You know I very much appreciate everything!!! I agree, this is my first experience with someone like this and I just have a zero tolerance for this kind of behavior. I don't mind a little head to head spicy talk, but this is beyond! Messmaster has done an amazing job of creating a safe space for me!
I'm a hot mess ;)
Brattyshortcakes said: My response: but I forgot to screenshot the end where I invite him to never comment on anything of mine again!
Your message ends with a kiss hehe. I like how you even try turn a negative interaction into a fun one.
I think you are right in the title. Someone is seeking this punishment and message. The better punishment is not to give it to them and block them.
If I was role playing and trying to seek a punishment, I would try to think of messages that warrant a punishment without using personal insults.
Brattyshortcakes said: As most of you know, this is my fun, I post the videos and try to break even with expensive messy substances. It is not news that the price has gone up on everything! I have plenty of complimentary pictures as I have boundaries that prevent me from filming explicit scenes. Shocker: I have a vanilla life! I have entrusted this site with my secrets, so when I get a message like this-it's like is this fun? Does this person want me to send a punishment to them? Or is this part of the experience I haven't seen yet? Bc 0/10 stars on this interaction-what do you all think?
Sorry you've had a d-bag interaction. It's amazing how one crappy experience can ruin the fun and almost nullify the countless positive interactions I'm sure you've had prior to this. Keep up the great work!
I now know what the exchange was, and it most definitely was not a good look on claywalker's part. Pretty much uncomfortable in every way.
juliesboy said: 'I don't know why, but in your videos, you just seem lonely and all alone emotionally. Detached from something you had but couldn't keep.'
If he reads this much into a wet and messy fetish video, I'd love to hear his thoughts on a Bergman film.
If he reads this much into a wet and messy fetish video, I'd love to hear his thoughts on a Bergman film.
haha great reference.
RyuuWammer said:
haha great reference.
juliesboy said: 'I don't know why, but in your videos, you just seem lonely and all alone emotionally. Detached from something you had but couldn't keep.'
If he reads this much into a wet and messy fetish video, I'd love to hear his thoughts on a Bergman film.
If he reads this much into a wet and messy fetish video, I'd love to hear his thoughts on a Bergman film.
haha great reference.
I'll be honest, I was hoping for more likes, but I suppose this is a fetish site, not the AV Club.
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