I have always wondered....with brutal honesty....how many of you gal producers have had a guy intro you into wam?
and guys? how many of you either introduced your gal to wam and now? shes a total wammer or went totally with it and now shares it with us? how many of you GUYS had YOUR GAL introduce you to wam? seems like the white whale around here! if you have? lets hear it! I have introduced stephon to it and he likes it now! as far as doing things as a couple. he liked taking pies an getting wet and sexy but he just, last summer, really got into mud! that was really cool to watch him totally get into it! hes my best of friend...and I hope he feels comfortable with other women to share that if he so chooses!

its just a question about how wam is mostly introduced. im finding more and more that women lately are finding it through their own personal porn searching! or, some gals I have worked with? are seeing it on twitter and then trying it! our very own alice now does a little bit of wamming on her own time! (on her onlyfans and whatnot) she doesnt do big productions but takes some pies here and there and enjoys herself! i have been too gun shy to ask if she has brought it into the bedroom. her boyfriend is very vanilla! her girlfriend is too!

i was introduced to the slapstick/girls just wanna have fun side of it by jilly (my real life sister so there was NO sexual stuff going on between US....) and by ariel...
i did not start my own store! no! jilly did! i had ZERO IDEA how the fuck to run it for probably 2 years to start. I mean, i learned within the first year how to upload a vid and stuff but jilly did all that stuff. She really pushed for me to own the store but we owned it together in theory. i could post and all that, which i did....but i did not know how to edit or put them in my bin! haha! now i realize, after knowing the community....lol....that she did it as to not cause a beef with ariel, since she worked with her....she wanted it to look like IT WAS ALL MY IDEA. sneaky little shit. haha

but ariel was not upset at all! All it did was create a real awesome duo that still stands today! anyhooo.....i remember that when i bring gals in. i loved it from first time. Even with absolutely no sexual feelings towards it whatsoever. I posed sexy...but i was having so much fun! I felt like I was doing something no one else was! Later on? I started to really get into it sexually and honestly ? I have custom customers who helped me with that. They requested things....and I tried them! what was the harm? If i didnt like it? I would just never do it again, right? well, i liked it. most of it! almost all of it. If i was uncomfortable with it? typically I would find things about it I did enjoy and let them know. now, that doesnt mean I dont do some shit i wouldnt normally do to make money! lol! I gotta keep my business running and I have bills to pay!

i do not think it makes a damn bit of difference who introduced you into it. I think it really makes a difference how you went with it and what it is to you today!

psa: if you are ever feeling forced to do this fetish by someone? male or female? seek help. Pressuring this on anyone is not cool. Not okay and if you feel you will be scrutinized or hurt by not doing it? not okay!

anyhoooo! id love to hear from you gals AND guys! i would love to hear if a chick got you into it! that would be a cool story because you dont hear it often!!

also: thank you to the couple of people who have donated to my area. I bought some gifts with your donations and have been wrapping some kick ass adidas and clothes for kids who's homes were completely torn apart so they can have some christmas to open thank you!!! still taking them and still finding so many displaced families! here and in my hometown. mud mad phil sent me a donation and i was able to get my mother, step father (hes my dad) and my nephew a hotel for a night so they could shower and have electricity. they will not have running water or power for another 3 and a half weeks. they estimate. thank you, phil. i know you dont do that often and it is appreciated beyond measure. they sent me pics showered and happy and the hotel gave out free pizzas! thank you 3 that have donated!

anyhooo....lets hear it!!! im wrapping gifts and would love to hear some feedback! Here are a few pics from the beginning...i just realized by looking back to the beginning im MISSING some vids! from the beginning so now im trying to figure THAT out...but anyhooo....these were my ideas....jilly helped bring them to life...The beginning of the wam adventures and my total switch and STILL finding new things everyday to fall in love with! love you all! keep the convo light and fun please!

if you or you know anyone who has felt forced into this fetish? please feel free to contact me if you just want to talk but if you need help? please reach out to messmaster! That is not okay and NOT in the spirit of the umd!

I cant wait to hear your stories!

I have told various partners about WAM, and by that I mean I have a word document explaining everything about it, an a personal bit about my likes and reasons behind them. This allows me to curl up somewhere and long for the sweet embrace of death so I don't have to see the outcome/their reaction.

Of those that I have asked/told:
Partner 1: Engaged a little but thought it was "perverted".
Ptnr 2: Said the idea made her physically sick...but she was an abuser in so many ways I was not surprised that she used it against me.
Ptnr 3: Enjoyed it, and has done a few things with me including a video for a producer here. No longer though.
Ptnr 4: Was lovely about it but nothing happened.
Ptnr 5: Kinda tried but not really.
Ptnr 6: Actual splosher! But awful relationship.
Ptnr 7: Very accepting and playful.

The folks I meet are generally kinky (BDSM) and poly and 'tend' to be open to new kinks/experiences anyway. Not met anyone from here or fetlife with 'pre-warned' knowledge of my tastes.

My girlfriend in college accidentally stumbled upon a SlapstickStuff DVD in my laptop. I thought for sure it was the end but she actually found it rather interesting. Once she realized how much I was into it, she was totally down to try it. She wound up letting me get her messy probably a half-dozen times or so. She didn't care about it at all on her own, but she had fun taking part because she knew how hot I found it.

I was up front with my current girlfriend, who didn't understand it at all at first. She's not a super adventurous person sexually, so we had to start out super slow compared to my first girlfriend, who was balls-to-the-wall with it immediately. But we've reached a good spot where she's down to get slimed for my enjoyment every couple of months or so. She's still real skittish about stuff getting in her eyes, so she won't do pies or look up when she gets slimed, but something is better than nothing, right?

You are such a positive presence in our community Jayce. I'm so glad we have you around.

I guess I technically have introduced a number of models/sex workers to wam and a few of them discovered they really loved the fetish. I can think of 4, all of whom were submissives. 2 had done a little bit of play with lube/body paint, etc, and had some fantasies, but weren't acquainted with wam as a cohesive fetish.

The other two were just submissives who like being humiliated and ended up loving slime even though it had never crossed their mind before.

Unfortunately my wife has not been as enthusiastic about getting slimed. Ironically, my wife enjoys getting pied, which does absolutely nothing for me.

I still remember the time I threw a cheese and peanut butter cracker at Jayce and she said...

"Hey we should try this with pies."

I want this to be true so bad, not even necessarily with Jayce, just for this to have happened, because this made me legit crack up

Love to hear stories from

1 Leon and Lisa
2 Ariel
3 messy girl

My last mrs I didn't tell but I did ask her if she wanted to do body chocolate in the bedroom, the stuff that comes in a 20g jar haha. She was keen at the time to try.
We got the body chocolate, was in bed about to have sex and try the chocolate, I got the smallest bit on my finger and was about to put it on her boob and then
She freaked out and was like ahhh yeah no that's gross I hate being sticky, instant turn off for me but I didn't force it on her.

Imagine what her reaction would be if I wanted to pour a big bucket of cake batter on her head or even the other stuff I'm into like beans, spaghetti, eggs etc haha she would have a heart attack.

She also hated feet so I wasn't allowed to touch them which was also a turn off because I have a foot fetish as well.

My fiancnow is very open to pretty much everything, we do a messy thing about 2 to 4 times a year. We have done porridge, spaghetti, beans, Mayo, honey, cake batter, and soon to do slime. She also accepts my foot fetish. Was more weirded out about my foot fetish at the start but not doesn't worry about it at all. There's a couple things I want to try with her like eggs but she said that's too far. I won't push it as I know I'm lucky to get what I've done.

Biggest advice I'd give to your mrs if she doesn't get know about it. Make sure you have been with her for at least a yr that way she knows you, explain to her what it is and why, make sure she doesn't get humiliated by it, if she try's it, make it fun, have some drinks to chill.
If she loves you she will want to do it for you not because she is going to be turned on by it.

I my years I have talked to a couple women who have said they through that sounded hot our would have loved to try it...then I'm sure went home and talked to their boyfriends about it.

Alas, I have not been so lucky.

I've ever introduced one partner to wam. She doesn't like it and has pretty much refused to get pied but she will pie or cake me occasionally

The first girlfriend I had was into wam from the start. I without knowing it was called wam got her into it.
This scene reminded me about how I enjoy it

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=a0SF7psaTmo

Always was around it and enjoyed what it taught me about myself. Another girl encouraged my painting with her. She and me keep working along with paint.

I do wam and wet things without thinking to much about them being wam or wet look ever since I was little I would bring all aspects of wam in the relationship I had with myself or someone else subconsciously. For example rain storms and food where something I would get involved with while I was with her.

my first two gfs liked pie/ whipped cream fights so they were good with moving the mess into the bedroom. next i thought was into wam but later she told me she just did it to be keep me happy but i did appreciate about her! my last gf did it but wasnt into it, and a few friends with benefits were interested in trying it but def didn't like it.
the wifei does it and has fun ideas for how to make it look better or fun ideas, but she probably does it to humor me, but she does smile until she get totally destroyed.

I introduced my girlfriend at the time to WAM on our 3rd date and we continued wamming over the years until recently and we decided she should get messy more. The result was us opening our store here and getting messy every week.

*teaser pic is from an upcoming scene. shhhhh

The first girlfriend I introduced to wam was not at all into it from what I gathered at the time. We would talk about doing it and then didnt a bunch of times until I spent a week with her. She got some supplies but didn't want to participate and just sat and watched me.

The second girlfriend I introduced to wam was mainly just whip cream and it was only once. It was towards the end of things and we figured what the hell let's give it a shot. It was one of the last things we did where we just enjoyed being with each other and it reminded us why we got together in the first place.

The third person I introduced was not a girlfriend. She was a pro that listed fetish friendly on her add back when backpage was a thing. I had talked with a few before her and she was the only one that said sure let's give it a shot. She was really down for anything and we had a lot of fun with it. I saw her a few times for sessions and her travels did not get her back to my area for a while and then she stopped because she got pregnant and wanted to start a family.

I can't really take credit for introducing of my current girlfriend. She had done some jello wrestling in a hotel suite before. She did not know it was WAM until we started talking about kinks and then it hit her what it was. We have had some fun with it. For her she says it is kind of like when your a kid and not allowed to play with your food. It has become one of her kinks that she really enjoys. The only problem now is that physically neither of us can really do it anymore. Both of us have issues with our legs and shit that did not use to hurt now does. My fucking hell I got old fast. She has brought up doing a session over New Years and my first thought was this is going to hurt and am I sure it will be worth it considering the pain it will cause.

did you know you were the "custtomer friend" who sttarted the whole "jayce pretty much puts anthing in her mouth" deal? SUBSTANCES!!! GET YOUR HEAD OUT OF THE GUTTER!!!

BUT REALLY! AND SHUCKS MAN. IM JUST A FUCKING WEIRDO!

SERIOUSLY. it probably did and i forgot bc i had already taken my "sleepy time, crazy people" pills. i turn into a werewolf that eats copious amounts of taco bell after 6 pm. robby knows...

this is smart! i would be more weirded out by a word document than wam! fuuuuuuck word! ugh. so annoying. notepad all day so i can keep my shittily written paragraphs hahha

bring it on! me an ariel do the set up and drag all that shit outta there!! i swear i am thinking about getting each session to have llike a giant pad we buy for the floors. so that we all can be comfy as fuck! we getting old too! hahaha!

I've had the privilege of visiting numerous sex workers and introducing them to wam! The first was nice enough to offer to get her clothes wet when I revealed my fetish. The second girl I asked, and the poor thing looked like a deer in the headlights. This was only her third shift on the job! She trusted me though, and she ended up enjoying it. Her A$200 black lacey evening dress also survived being worn in the spa tub and shower, which probably helped. My first time getting a girl messy came with a later partner, one that I still talk to and have plans to see again. (Though we are currently stuck on different continents due to the pandemic.) She had enjoyed getting wet and so eventually allowed me to cover her in custard. Though at the time, I wasn't aware of the existence of shelf-stable custard, and so she was an incredible trooper to tolerate the freezing cold refrigerated custard.
The most enthusiastic wam partner I've had was an Irish girl I spent a couple nights with. Usually I try to introduce my partners to wam by having them get wet fully clothed and seeing how they react before I bring up the idea of getting messy; but this girl agreed to the mess before she'd even got wet. (She did get wet that night though.) And so the next night she was very pleased to come over to my hotel room and see a large stack of custard cartons and whipped cream cans waiting for her. Put it this way, I've never seen anyone have so much fun getting messy fully clothed! It was a shame that I was due to fly back to the U.S. the following day, because she seemed genuinely excited to play in the mud fully clothed, which is propably my ultimate fantasy. I don't know where that girl is now, but I hope she still remembers that experience.
On my most recent trip to London I learned several things: First, pretty much all the grocery stores in central London are smaller affairs that don't sell large cartons of custard. Second, golden syrup makes for a fun wam substance, especially when used along with whipped cream, and thirdly, golden syrup can sting if it gets in a girl's eyes, so have a wet towel ready. But I met two lovely girls on that trip, and they both enjoyed getting wet and getting messy.
Of course, there have been a few partners that definitely seemed to tolerate it more than enjoy it, but I still appreciate them keeping an open mind.
Overall, the majority have enjoyed wam activities, and I look forward to introducing it to many more girls!

I have tried but with no luck. I haven't been in many relationships (only 1). I have have a few ladies that I have dated for some time ( anywhere from a month to 2 years)


The relationship lady wanted nothing and I mean nothing to do with it. She was an abuser and I stayed around way too long (8 years) and during that time I lost who I was.

The few that I dated (3) the first one wanted nothing to do with it. One I never told it was shorted lived dated of only a month and the last one was very interested and asked a ton of questions and stuff but in the end she ended up back with her ex and they married only to be divorced less than a year later. We still talk but we are so far apart that I know nothing will happen

That's your "wam origin story" now, it's cannon, you were just sitting there minding your business and Robby threw a peanut butter cracker at you, and immediately you had a light bulb over the head moment and said- crackers? No...pies! And the rest is history

And I'm pretty sure you're joking but if you were prescribed pills that induce lycanthropy I'm pretty sure you can get a big settlement for that, I see those late night commercials all the time, they always run right after the mesothelioma ones

Probably won't mention the Excel spreadsheets and Powerpoint presentation then..?
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Pie charts even?

Dalamar, you guys just need to get creative. Do it on an air mattress, or get some latex sheets, and have fun on your own bed! OR go for broke and rent a bounce house!

Glad to be of service

And let's be honest, most wammers are pretty weird. It's just a question of good weird or bad weird. You use your weirdness to make other people happy and that's pretty awesome.

NOW YALL. everyones stories have fascinated me. this one really does! guess cause its a chick....sorry dudes (still so weirded out by those graphs and WORD? JESUS!! lolololhahahaa) but this is interesting.
so many ppl dont want to admitt but i have had one admit, i was dressing like their mother to humiliate. when i think of childhoods i think of parents, siblings, etc.

you maybe had a girl that was rude to you or something, saw someone humiliated on a show? maybe subconciously put her tthere instead of getting even in real life. which honestly? i find to be a really good way to deal with shit!

i am very interested to say the least! i know when i started this in late 20s ? i loved pieing and fucking up my sister! tit for tat and bossing her ass around! hilarious to me! one time? i pied her in tthe crotch out of nowhere, even ariel was shocked. not in a sexy way...she doubled over laughing and "ouch" lol! fuck her! QUIT STEALING MY CLOTHES!

Jayce and Potato thanks for the responses!!! I will definitely think about that bounce house suggestion. Has there ever been a scene done in a bounce house???? As I lay in bed thinking about it I am thinking of all kinds of contraptions that could be set up. I would think it would not be too hard to rig up a bucket with a draw string and a double dare style set up on the slide. But alas reality sets in, it makes a nice dream though!!!!!

The covering over the bed is a great idea!! Then you just roll it all up and toss it in my favorite garbage bags. After having one to many garbage bags rip and tear on me I have switched to using industrial construction garbage bags for everything. I have yet to tear one and they can hold a TON. I HIGHLY recommend them. They are pretty inexpensive on Amazon.

Jayce, your WAM as a service I am going to call it is a brilliant idea!!!! Flat rates for supplies, space rental and clean up.

I HAVE A BOUNCE HOUSE! now, did i give it tto some ppl for christtmas bc it was still in awesome shape? yes.
can i always borrow it back anytime? yes.
i always asked ariel if she wanted to do one in it but our big problem was neighhhhbooooorrrssssss.

Just doing my part for the community here.

You HAD a bounce house!? as in not one that was rented, and you gave it away!!!? WHY!!!!!

My ex had rented one for my 30th birthday, one of the best days ever

I'm currently with four women (I'm polyamorous). Of them, one hates the idea, one tolerates it, one enjoys it, and one... well, the last one is the story worth telling.

We met through the kink community. Indeed, our first date was at a kink convention. So, going into this relationship I knew she might be okay with this. I presented the idea quite literally on our first date, and though she'd never heard of WAM, once I explained it to her she thought it might be fun to indulge my kink, so she said yes. What neither of us expected was for her to quite literally orgasm the moment I started pouring chocolate syrup on her! Remember, she'd never even *heard* of this as a kink before.

I am a very, very lucky person....

Sounds amazing but 4 girls would be a night mare

Haha at least you have options lol. My mrs doesn't hate it but kind of enjoys it, like most women just does it to make there partner happy.

I'd love to have sex while do it or see her orgasm but I don't think I'd get that lucky. Maybe I can see if she can take her vibrator in next time.