Unhappy wammer. I hate the feel and humiliation of getting aroused by goopy mess. But that's why it works for me.
I think I am more of a masochist with sensory issues - so mess is just an effective form of sensory torture.

Used to do very regular sessions with an ex, and post on forums by my accounts seemed to have expired.

I started doing vidchat sessions with some people I met here not long after joining. I have had a hard time finding more local people with the right sadistic dom vibe for me, so the compatible playstyle people I kept finding were UK people. Which I then decided to go to UK for a week just to have a delightfully terrible time.

Came back, more cam messing scenes, and now I want to go back to the UK again - and I've just booked flights for my next trip. Don't get me wrong I enjoy playing virtually with people who can get inside my head - but in person is so much better.

I'm 42 when writing this, I'm married but poly.

You are welcome to inbox me, i don't bite - unless asked very nicely.

Please do keep my particular angle of mess experience in mind when messaging or chatting with me. I am happy to chat with anyone - but I really don't like people copy-pasting their fantasy onto me with no regard for how I play.