XXXMESS said: Hello folks, I am sorry to hear this sad news, and yes I am sending positive thoughts & vibes & wishes to Mrs Bee and hope she will beat this horrible disease. And also, in case the doctors treating her neglected to advise her this detail, tell her to stay away from sugar, this is cancers favorite food, and consuming it makes it spread faster. Me & my family found this out 1 year ago AFTER my mum passed away from it. No, not 1 single doc treating her ever mentioned it. Hoping this advice helps slow the spread & gives her a better fighting chance. Wishing you both the best.
Most important, be assertive and prepared when dealing with doctors. Have questions written down and take notes with dates and names. For me it was a real steep learning curve interacting with that hospital system, and I wish I had been more of a pest early on getting answers. Don't want to waste any time if there's a quack in the mix.
Really heartbroken to hear this. Likewise sending vibes of love and good fortune your way.
Some bad news to impart and I know a) this is wank site and b) this might get moved to Off Topic but was hoping folks would see it.
Anyway, I wanted to let the community know that Mrs. Bee was diagnosed last month with stage 3-4 ovarian cancer. She's started chemo and should be having surgery in February, followed by more chemo and immunotherapy. If you can send her some good energy, I know she'll be very grateful. I asked her if she would be receptive to messages here on the umd and she said yes but asked me to remind folks that she's always been a lousy pen pal so might not respond right away. (Her words, not mine).
She still has her sense of humor and told me to apologize for the boner killing news. (Again her words, not mine).
Please keep her in your thoughts/prayers/whatever good vibes you practice.
XXXMESS said: Hello folks, I am sorry to hear this sad news, and yes I am sending positive thoughts & vibes & wishes to Mrs Bee and hope she will beat this horrible disease. And also, in case the doctors treating her neglected to advise her this detail, tell her to stay away from sugar, this is cancers favorite food, and consuming it makes it spread faster. Me & my family found this out 1 year ago AFTER my mum passed away from it. No, not 1 single doc treating her ever mentioned it. Hoping this advice helps slow the spread & gives her a better fighting chance. Wishing you both the best.
Not to backpack or deflect any attention from Mrs. Bee - best wishes, and my thoughts and prayers go out to you - but seconding this times a billion.
My girlfriend's mom was diagnosed with stage 4 mucosal melanoma last fall and that was one of the things the doctors really emphasized- NO. SUGAR.
She's stuck to that rigidly and the tumor has not grown whatsoever as far as I know.
I'm so sorry to hear this and will certainly keep you both in my thoughts. This is going to be a long journey, but I know this is something she can fight and win. If you need anything, please ask.
Sending love and best wishes from England I've admired your glamorous pictures across the years, and you remain a valued part of this community.
I was diagnosed with stage three cancer over ten years ago and I'm still here over ten years later. It was touch and go at one stage but I'm still wamming away so never give up
I'm so sorry she has to deal with this. Sending the strongest positive vibes I possibly can, gonna ask my ancestors to give those vibes a special boost of strength to that. I'm such shit when it comes to these things, but what I really want to say to her is that I have faith in her and believe in her own strength to be able to overcome anything she wants to overcome. Mrs. Bee you are loved and respected by so many people who genuinely want to support you and help you in whatever way you need. And on those days that you're feeling tired, frustrated and overwhelmed it's okay to feel bad, you don't have to put on a brave face all the time. On those days it's okay to let your loved ones help care for you so you can rest and take time to heal. If there's anything any of us can do for you, please don't hesitate to reach out here, myself and many others will help in any way we can. We love you, we believe in you, and we will support you through this. FUCK CANCER!!!
Ms Bee, you are one of the legends of both the UMD and the Wet and Messy fetish and you always looked immaculate both when you got messy as well as when you did non-messy photos and before session photos. You were among the first models that I saw when I first joined the community and I have faith that you will prevail in your fight with ovarian cancer and win the fight. I send good vibes and good thoughts to you and Mr Bee.
Absolutely gutted to see this, there isn't a kinder or more lovely couple out there and Mrs Bee you are one of not only the most stunning women I've ever seen but also one of the most mind bendingly impressive in a zillion other ways too. Love you both and sending giant love xxx
Bit late to this thread, apologies. Absolutely gutting news. I'm sending all my love, best wishes and positivity to Mrs Bee. Cancer is the evil that no one should ever have to encounter, but Mrs Bee is stronger than steel and will get through it.
Obviously Mrs Bee is the main focus, but it has an effect on all surrounding her, so love and strength sent to you also Mr Bee.
I've had a lot of inquiries about how things are going - I would have shared updates sooner but didn't really have any - so much of a "cancer journey" is simply waiting around. Waiting for lab results, CT scan results, waiting for the medical team to confer, etc. My chemo treatments are every 3 weeks, so I feel like I'm then waiting for the next one, and then rinse, repeat all of the above. But yesterday, I finally got a surgery date on the calendar - March 12. Lordy though, they've changed my treatment plan twice already so I'm almost reluctant to say the date out loud lest they change it again!
Anyway, here's where things currently stand: I have another round of chemo next Tuesday, then I get to take a 5 week break from it altogether so that my bone marrow can recover and be strong enough for me to go through the surgery. Chemo will start back up again when my doctors feel that I've recovered well enough from the surgery, probably 4-6 weeks, and they anticipate another 3 rounds before transitioning to immunotherapy. Crossing my fingers that chemo is all done by June.
Thank you all again for your kind messages and replies here, and for the love and support that you've shown Bigshipper. Really, I cannot thank you enough.
I've had a lot of inquiries about how things are going - I would have shared updates sooner but didn't really have any - so much of a "cancer journey" is simply waiting around. Waiting for lab results, CT scan results, waiting for the medical team to confer, etc. My chemo treatments are every 3 weeks, so I feel like I'm then waiting for the next one, and then rinse, repeat all of the above. But yesterday, I finally got a surgery date on the calendar - March 12. Lordy though, they've changed my treatment plan twice already so I'm almost reluctant to say the date out loud lest they change it again!
Anyway, here's where things currently stand: I have another round of chemo next Tuesday, then I get to take a 5 week break from it altogether so that my bone marrow can recover and be strong enough for me to go through the surgery. Chemo will start back up again when my doctors feel that I've recovered well enough from the surgery, probably 4-6 weeks, and they anticipate another 3 rounds before transitioning to immunotherapy. Crossing my fingers that chemo is all done by June.
Thank you all again for your kind messages and replies here, and for the love and support that you've shown Bigshipper. Really, I cannot thank you enough.
Love to all of you, Bee
When you're all recovered and everything is better, we can get ready to do that Lauren Boebert pie cosplay!
I've been away for too long, and I'm sad to hear this, but gladdened to hear about the updates and progress. You guys are a power couple I've always admired and wished to meet.
I wish you all the best, and if there is anything we can do to help, please don't hesitate to ask.
Mrs. Bee you are an incredible wife, mom, woman, and all around human being. Fight, you got this.
Hello, I know it's been a little bit of time since the last update and I hope all is going well. Please know that most of us are still here for you and are keeping you two in the back of our minds.