A regular question I'm sure that arises, since you started doing WAM, have you changed at all what you wear or use for sessions.
For me in terms of what I wear, I've not really changed much, I've always stuck to formal/office attire with heels, but I rarely wear skirts or dresses if I am getting messy, as don't feel as comfortable these days in them, prefer a pair of trousers, with a smart shirt/blazer.
In terms of mess, I mostly have experimented over the years to find what I enjoy getting messy with, whether be dessert items such as custard, sauces, ice cream to mud, gunge and paint, with what I use more regularly these days of shaving foam and other shower/bath items, find I can have a lot of fun with a bucket of foam which has been mixed up and feels all slimy but easy to clean up after I'm all messy in it.
I'm interested to see what changes if any you have done as it were.
With regards to mess, that's also pretty much the same, I do love buckets of slosh foam and pies, but custard really is my Achilles heel. Not really into savoury stuff, but I have tried.
I would say the only thing that has changed, is the amounts of mess have increased, WAM inflation you could say
Back when I was a mere gunge virgin, I only used golden syrup and tight boxers/briefs. Since then I've switched to gunge and I wear wrestling singlets. Also have dabbled in latex too.
I feel like just being on UMD you get influenced into trying new things. I would have never done latex or filled a swimsuit until everyone talked about how awesome they are. And they were right
I haven't changed what I wear when I get messy. It is usually my birthday suit and sometimes gym cloths or sweat pants. It is the same messy items every time too.
I want to try more things, but I want to save ideas to try with someone instead of doing it alone. I rarely get messy. I mostly watch wam.
I have definitely changed what I wear the more comfortable I get with my fetish. I think outfits just add to the fun, besides you can't fill a birthday suit! Sometimes I just want to feel the slime cling to my clothes, other times I want to be silly and humiliated. Sometimes if I am lucky my domme has a special request and those are always the best!
when I started wam? I had never worn "lingerie" also? I didnt use my first real deal "toy" until I was gifted one and I used it in a pool of chocolate and I WISH I could find that video! I was in my late 20s when I finally got one....I had been doing wam a few years!
so? yes! I love to wear lingerie. my favorite is vintage inspired garters, panties, cuban foot stockings, robes....and I have only gotten to wear these things a few times as they were gifted to me and ariel to trash. I was heart broken! oh man i love that stuff. browsing silky vintage lingerie is one of my favorite past times. I also have been looking at latex stuff. i am intrigued by wearing it. Ive worn some real latex once before, and i love wearing pvc catsuits....now? I want to have a shiny latex catsuit and a shiny latex little fitted dress so bad! or a pencil skirt! I love lingerie when wamming, though! I feel super sexy! I also have found that I love to wear my slouch socks and some cute little baggy button ups with jean shorts or even some cotton short shorts. I think its a sexy look and I feel sexy in it! My fetishes have changed so much being here....its so cool. I love being able to transform.
the only thing I have noticed though is that if I try to post some new things I want to try on twitter? I have actually been told "no, that isnt gonna work for you" haha! bc I really wanted to try being more of a domme. Ive always been sub. I am really interested in being a domme sometimes! To see if I really get a powerful feeling from it like these women do. and men. alas, I guess I have been to nice to try that out for the masses. hahhaa
but yeah. lingerie is my thing! the vintage inspired, the robes, the feathers, the heels, the jewelry....gosh, i love it. If anyone knows any sites with this kind of stuff that is not SO expensive as some I have been to? let me know! oh and substance? I have been dying to try paints again. lots of bottles of colorful paints.
Over the years, I've gone from just wearing old boxer shorts, to who cares what I'm wearing. I've been encouraged by my wife to bin all my regular underwear for satin, sissy knickers, she knows I love the look and feel, and when she knows I'm wearing them, it's goodbye to what I'm wearing.
So for me, the nicer, regular clothes, smart or casual, the better, trashing something old, stained, poorly fitted, does nothing for either of us.
In terms of mess, so long as it completely ruins the clothes, the better. Tomato Passata on anything light, and lots of fresh cream on anything dark, as we know the smell will never come out, so they gey ripped and binned.
My crossdressing has grown alongside WAM even tho I'll throw on a dress just to hang out in. One thing wam has made me love are bodysuits. The way the mess will just plaster to you when you stuff into a bodysuit is so amazing
I don't get messy myself, but the things I like my partner to wear when I slime her or that I like to see in a video have mostly remained the same - tank tops with panties, light t-shirts with skirts, dresses that will fall under the weight of slime.
As far as slime goes, I used to be strictly into slime made from some combination of cream of wheat, applesauce or small curd cottage cheese (i.e. a grainy, but not quite chunky, texture) but these days I actually prefer cellulose-based slime, not just for convenience of sex and cleanup, but I have started to prefer the way it looks and feels (assuming it's nice and thick). I guess I'm less ycdtotv and more ghostbusters these days.
What I like to wear to get messy in has pretty much stayed the same, boilersuits, overalls, or tracksuits, all with wellies. But the range what I like to watch other people getting messy in has broadened massively over the years, and I can now appreciate things I once strongly disliked. I still have limits, low rise jeans are abomination and I prefer skirts to be knee length or longer, but can appreciate someone getting messy in a much wider range of outfits than previously.
when I started wam? I had never worn "lingerie" also? I didnt use my first real deal "toy" until I was gifted one and I used it in a pool of chocolate and I WISH I could find that video! I was in my late 20s when I finally got one....I had been doing wam a few years!
so? yes! I love to wear lingerie. my favorite is vintage inspired garters, panties, cuban foot stockings, robes....and I have only gotten to wear these things a few times as they were gifted to me and ariel to trash. I was heart broken! oh man i love that stuff. browsing silky vintage lingerie is one of my favorite past times. I also have been looking at latex stuff. i am intrigued by wearing it. Ive worn some real latex once before, and i love wearing pvc catsuits....now? I want to have a shiny latex catsuit and a shiny latex little fitted dress so bad! or a pencil skirt! I love lingerie when wamming, though! I feel super sexy! I also have found that I love to wear my slouch socks and some cute little baggy button ups with jean shorts or even some cotton short shorts. I think its a sexy look and I feel sexy in it! My fetishes have changed so much being here....its so cool. I love being able to transform.
the only thing I have noticed though is that if I try to post some new things I want to try on twitter? I have actually been told "no, that isnt gonna work for you" haha! bc I really wanted to try being more of a domme. Ive always been sub. I am really interested in being a domme sometimes! To see if I really get a powerful feeling from it like these women do. and men. alas, I guess I have been to nice to try that out for the masses. hahhaa
but yeah. lingerie is my thing! the vintage inspired, the robes, the feathers, the heels, the jewelry....gosh, i love it. If anyone knows any sites with this kind of stuff that is not SO expensive as some I have been to? let me know! oh and substance? I have been dying to try paints again. lots of bottles of colorful paints.
Love love love vintage underwear and lots garter belt outfits. If you ever want to try out domme I'm more than willing to be your happy sub.lol. I tried to look at your wish list but nothing comes up.
For me I too have changed what I wear. I go thru phases but it always seems to come down to what someone has ordered me to wear or what I have on.
I used to wear Hanes panties when I got messy because that's what I could afford to spare and sacrifice--also it was my everyday panties for a long stretch of time. Lots of plain white cotton panties were my drawer and what I got messy in.
Now I've got big girl money and got back into Victoria's Secret panties (thanks to my sister). So now I wear those because that's a large part of my drawer now. Some other things too, but I love getting messy in my VS panties.
Clothes are about the same, although again, I'm no longer using thrift items that I can afford to lose. I'm also much better at laundry than I was in the past.
when I started wam? I had never worn "lingerie" also? I didnt use my first real deal "toy" until I was gifted one and I used it in a pool of chocolate and I WISH I could find that video! I was in my late 20s when I finally got one....I had been doing wam a few years!
so? yes! I love to wear lingerie. my favorite is vintage inspired garters, panties, cuban foot stockings, robes....and I have only gotten to wear these things a few times as they were gifted to me and ariel to trash. I was heart broken! oh man i love that stuff. browsing silky vintage lingerie is one of my favorite past times. I also have been looking at latex stuff. i am intrigued by wearing it. Ive worn some real latex once before, and i love wearing pvc catsuits....now? I want to have a shiny latex catsuit and a shiny latex little fitted dress so bad! or a pencil skirt! I love lingerie when wamming, though! I feel super sexy! I also have found that I love to wear my slouch socks and some cute little baggy button ups with jean shorts or even some cotton short shorts. I think its a sexy look and I feel sexy in it! My fetishes have changed so much being here....its so cool. I love being able to transform.
the only thing I have noticed though is that if I try to post some new things I want to try on twitter? I have actually been told "no, that isnt gonna work for you" haha! bc I really wanted to try being more of a domme. Ive always been sub. I am really interested in being a domme sometimes! To see if I really get a powerful feeling from it like these women do. and men. alas, I guess I have been to nice to try that out for the masses. hahhaa
but yeah. lingerie is my thing! the vintage inspired, the robes, the feathers, the heels, the jewelry....gosh, i love it. If anyone knows any sites with this kind of stuff that is not SO expensive as some I have been to? let me know! oh and substance? I have been dying to try paints again. lots of bottles of colorful paints.
As for the clothes I wear, my outfit is always skinny jeans and a shirt, as for the food I wear , despite having tried many, I always return to my favorites, eggs, pies, chocolate and custard.
First years I did my sessions fully naked, later I did it in underwear. Nowadays I wear leather(look) pants or leggings, and sometimes with a tie and shirt.
Jayce said: the only thing I have noticed though is that if I try to post some new things I want to try on twitter? I have actually been told "no, that isnt gonna work for you" haha! bc I really wanted to try being more of a domme. Ive always been sub. I am really interested in being a domme sometimes! To see if I really get a powerful feeling from it like these women do. and men. alas, I guess I have been to nice to try that out for the masses. hahhaa
Never let other people tell you what you can and can't wear, unless they're paying for a custom. Experiment and enjoy, you may well find that just because something doesn't work for current audience, doesn't mean it won't work for a new audience, and you could pick up new fans. It's not as if doing something different means your existing stuff stops existing.
I've sometimes noticed this with music. Actuial fans of a musician will always be interested to see what new stuff they come up with, even in completely different directions. But then you get the people who are really more fans of a specific album that musician produced, and only want them to produce lots more versions of the same basic thing.
On clothing, latex is awesome but expensive, and complicated to put on, and to look after. Does look utterly gorgeous though. PVC is rather easier for WAM.
OscillatorSlop said: I don't get messy myself, but the things I like my partner to wear when I slime her or that I like to see in a video have mostly remained the same - tank tops with panties, light t-shirts with skirts, dresses that will fall under the weight of slime.
As far as slime goes, I used to be strictly into slime made from some combination of cream of wheat, applesauce or small curd cottage cheese (i.e. a grainy, but not quite chunky, texture) but these days I actually prefer cellulose-based slime, not just for convenience of sex and cleanup, but I have started to prefer the way it looks and feels (assuming it's nice and thick). I guess I'm less ycdtotv and more ghostbusters these days.
Same here.
As most people on this site who've seen me comment by now, I'm very much into models getting messy wearing maxi dresses. That's pretty much been a constant.
I haven't really tested it, but I think my love of evening gowns getting messy is still there.
As for new developments- I found myself getting off recently to a model getting slimed in a short strapless dress- I think the X factors there were her pulling the dress back up and the full coverage being quicker- and a sweater and jeans. I definitely wouldn't be surprised whatsoever if I found myself getting turned on my a model getting slimed in a t shirt dress with a jean jacket and some sneakers.
Until today I'd have said 'No' - my particular interest has always been getting muddy in casual gear. But today I went to the effort of putting an outfit together that looked like my old school uniform, and getting muddy in that. https://umd.net/profile/id/37647/section/photos/album/muddy-walk-in-fake-school-unifor Fun, but I'm not sure I'd go to the effort of doing it again.
Clothing has been pretty constant for me. Started with exploring the local estuary mid in my nylon school footy shorts (commando) and cycling kit, and those are still my favourite things. I now also love wrestling singlets and swimsuits, but it is mostly always spandex still.
For mess I've added in gunge and oil but deep smooth tidal mud is still my favourite. Food has never appealed to me. For me it's all about the slippery slick sensations, rather than the role play/humiliation aspect. I guess that's just me!
What an excellent topic to cover here, thankyou to whoever decided to start this UMD thread here. Also wish to point out Dougeon master's brilliant comment, much truth in that mate. Anyhow, as for me, I must admit, there has been a bit of a recent change with what I really like to WAM in these days. Really, really used to love WAM in those polyester Surfie branded board shorts for example, now really love WAM sessions dressed in a pair of nice thick sweat track pants with a nice, preferably matching hoodie with tee and satin boxers underneath. Never would have imagined I'd really love these sweat pants, but after my first, by chance trial, now love 'em.
Must admit, I also totally agree with aspects of Dominicxxx's last post here. I too am not really that big on using foodstuffs in/for WAM. Like Dominicxxx, I much prefer the simple feeling of the messy clothes than the humiliation side of it. Dispite this, I can still appreciate those who make quality content who are big on the food mess regarding humiliation, etc.
My tastes in WAM have changed a lot. I used to only be into wetlook, both for doing and for viewing. I still only actually do wetlook, but I've grown to really enjoy watching slimings, pies, foodfights, mudwrestling, etc.
I still don't care much for nudity in WAM, but I've branched out quite a bit from my original obsession with beautiful dresses, long gloves, and high heels. That's all definitely still there and is what really gets me going, but I've come to appreciate tight jeans/pants, businesswear, and shorter, more casual dresses. Due to the physical and stressful aspects of my jobs over the last decade, the wetlook I do engage in most often is usually a shower in whatever I wore to work. I still do the occasional planned outing with my roommate where I'll dress up for her photoshoots and am sometimes motivated to take the time and put in the effort to get all dressed up to get wet at home when I'm home alone. But most of the time, it's just a polo shirt or t-shirt and jeans in the shower.
Sometimes if I want to feel sexier, I'll ditch the shirt and wear the tank top or halter top I wear underneath and grab a pair of heels from my closet. But that's quite a bit different than the regular beach days and pool jumps I used to do in my fancy dresses and other dressier clothes back in college and my first few years as a grownup in the real world before my clothing budget dropped and my car repair and grocery and emergency fund budgets increased.
Been meaning to come back to this thread to say thanks to everyone who's got involved in this, certainly been a great read and understanding everyone's observations as it were.