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"When wammers find each other"
Love you, too
I think I have asked this question before, but I can't find the previous post and if I did it was several years ago, so I hope it's OK to revisit it.
I would love to hear of any instances where two wammers have found each other - especially if it was by chance but also if you deliberately sought out a like-minded partner by some means.
We have many posts on the forum agonising over how to tell a partner about WAM or convert them to enjoy it, so I think it's a beautiful thing when wammers partner up.
So, have you ever found a partner who was already a wammer, and what fun did you get up to together?
I would love to hear of any instances where two wammers have found each other - especially if it was by chance but also if you deliberately sought out a like-minded partner by some means.
We have many posts on the forum agonising over how to tell a partner about WAM or convert them to enjoy it, so I think it's a beautiful thing when wammers partner up.
So, have you ever found a partner who was already a wammer, and what fun did you get up to together?
Met someone who revealed to me something they "liked doing" but didn't realise it was a kink (they assumed everyone liked it).
We had some fun but we were very poorly matched sexually and personality-wise so ended badly after less than a month.
No big shocks here but was nice to actually do sploshing without worrying about my partners thoughts on the matter.
We had some fun but we were very poorly matched sexually and personality-wise so ended badly after less than a month.
No big shocks here but was nice to actually do sploshing without worrying about my partners thoughts on the matter.
Whats interesting to me is that I incorporate wam or elements of it in everything I've been a a part of relationship wise like water fights and food fights
Paint with play and surrender
As I've gotten older, I've grown pretty tired of pretending like I'm not a weirdo. There was a time when I would have been pretty embarrassed about telling people what I was into, but life is too short for shame. So these days I'm like "hey, check out these photos of me covered in cake batter."
I've made some pretty kinky friends the past few years, and pretty much everybody I've told about WAM has been like "ok, yeah that's hot," and "I didn't know this was a thing."
Anyhow, when you're more open about it, your odds of meeting a likeminded partner increase substantially.
I have a reference to WAM stuff in my Feeld profile. (Feeld is a dating app that more or less caters to people who are poly and/or kinky.) He had a reference to WAM stuff in his profile (several, actually). We matched.
It was definitely a "No way! You too!?!?" sort of encounter.
Here's a photo from our first date.
(PS: We are very excitedly planning to go looking for quarry mud together next spring. It's going to be *so* *much* *fun*)
I've made some pretty kinky friends the past few years, and pretty much everybody I've told about WAM has been like "ok, yeah that's hot," and "I didn't know this was a thing."
Anyhow, when you're more open about it, your odds of meeting a likeminded partner increase substantially.
I have a reference to WAM stuff in my Feeld profile. (Feeld is a dating app that more or less caters to people who are poly and/or kinky.) He had a reference to WAM stuff in his profile (several, actually). We matched.
It was definitely a "No way! You too!?!?" sort of encounter.
Here's a photo from our first date.
(PS: We are very excitedly planning to go looking for quarry mud together next spring. It's going to be *so* *much* *fun*)
I met my partner as a direct result of going to a splunch meet in London about 12 years ago
We we're friends for a few years then one day we went out for a drink and it just happened there and then
I can happily say both DazUK and myself are still very happy together as partners and producers and as of this year now having our own studio so still getting stronger as we go on
We we're friends for a few years then one day we went out for a drink and it just happened there and then
I can happily say both DazUK and myself are still very happy together as partners and producers and as of this year now having our own studio so still getting stronger as we go on
I wanna be messy
This girl I met years ago I know was into it, at least mud for sure. She never came out and actually said it and I was to nervous at that time to mention anything (stupid on my part) but she always was getting muddy and playing in the mud or talking about it and how much fun it was and how good it felt. I just know she was into it, even if she didn't know it was actually a thing.
No shoes allowed
Silver_sea said: Met someone who revealed to me something they "liked doing" but didn't realise it was a kink (they assumed everyone liked it).
We had some fun but we were very poorly matched sexually and personality-wise so ended badly after less than a month.
No big shocks here but was nice to actually do sploshing without worrying about my partners thoughts on the matter.
We had some fun but we were very poorly matched sexually and personality-wise so ended badly after less than a month.
No big shocks here but was nice to actually do sploshing without worrying about my partners thoughts on the matter.
I'm so sorry to hear that it didn't work out. I know how hard it is to find someone who's into the same thing but who's not into you or your version of the kink. I'd love to give you a big sloppy pie to the face and a cream filled hug to follow
But all that means is now you learned from that situation how to find someone much better matched for you
StayMessyYall said: As I've gotten older, I've grown pretty tired of pretending like I'm not a weirdo. There was a time when I would have been pretty embarrassed about telling people what I was into, but life is too short for shame. So these days I'm like "hey, check out these photos of me covered in cake batter."
I've made some pretty kinky friends the past few years, and pretty much everybody I've told about WAM has been like "ok, yeah that's hot," and "I didn't know this was a thing."
Anyhow, when you're more open about it, your odds of meeting a likeminded partner increase substantially.
I have a reference to WAM stuff in my Feeld profile. (Feeld is a dating app that more or less caters to people who are poly and/or kinky.) He had a reference to WAM stuff in his profile (several, actually). We matched.
It was definitely a "No way! You too!?!?" sort of encounter.
Here's a photo from our first date.
(PS: We are very excitedly planning to go looking for quarry mud together next spring. It's going to be *so* *much* *fun*)
I've made some pretty kinky friends the past few years, and pretty much everybody I've told about WAM has been like "ok, yeah that's hot," and "I didn't know this was a thing."
Anyhow, when you're more open about it, your odds of meeting a likeminded partner increase substantially.
I have a reference to WAM stuff in my Feeld profile. (Feeld is a dating app that more or less caters to people who are poly and/or kinky.) He had a reference to WAM stuff in his profile (several, actually). We matched.
It was definitely a "No way! You too!?!?" sort of encounter.
Here's a photo from our first date.
(PS: We are very excitedly planning to go looking for quarry mud together next spring. It's going to be *so* *much* *fun*)
Awesome! So glad you found your messy mate! It's the most elating feeling to find someone who really gets you and you get them and you can fulfill those fantasies with each other
Hope you guys continue to enjoy getting messy together I have a coworker who gives off the vibe that she could be into wamming. Her instagram story a while back was some photoshoot from a few years ago that involved her getting in a lake in what looked like a ballgown. But, then again, I feel like a lot of warm weather photoshoots involve getting in the water fully clothed.
I briefly dated a girl who did some sort of photoshoot at the beach and literally went swimming in a white strapless maxi dress as part of it- like one of her Tinder pictures was of her wading out of the water with the dress soaked and clinging to her (no, that picture was not the only reason I swiped right lol) and she was very very vanilla.
I briefly dated a girl who did some sort of photoshoot at the beach and literally went swimming in a white strapless maxi dress as part of it- like one of her Tinder pictures was of her wading out of the water with the dress soaked and clinging to her (no, that picture was not the only reason I swiped right lol) and she was very very vanilla.
So, back in the days of USENET, there was a group titled "alt.sex.fetish.wet-and-messy". I remember a lady (a professional baker!) there talking about how much she loved the idea of getting messy but couldn't find a guy who would follow through and not be a time-waster. Oh, she was a Trek and Doctor Who fan also.
Despite my living 10 hours' drive from her, we made some EPIC messes together.
Even though we aren't in a physically intimate relationship any more, we're still super close and she still threatens to make me into a giant Swiss Roll someday for her amusement. (Yeah. I'd hate that.
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Despite my living 10 hours' drive from her, we made some EPIC messes together.
Even though we aren't in a physically intimate relationship any more, we're still super close and she still threatens to make me into a giant Swiss Roll someday for her amusement. (Yeah. I'd hate that.
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StayMessyYall said: As I've gotten older, I've grown pretty tired of pretending like I'm not a weirdo. There was a time when I would have been pretty embarrassed about telling people what I was into, but life is too short for shame. So these days I'm like "hey, check out these photos of me covered in cake batter."
I think that's a great attitude to have. I believe I've said on here before that I wish I'd been more open with Mrs Piechap about my likes and desires when we first got together.
Thanks everyone for the fantastic replies so far.
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