I'm curious about how hard different substances are to get out of long hair. I'm having lots of issues with my partners having hang ups about getting mess in their hair. I've never had an issue in the past, but lately every girl I'm trying to get messy with is worried about her hair. I primarily use frosting and Nutella, is there any issue washing either is those substances out of long hair? Any insight from you ladies is appreciated

I know that my wife absolutely refuses to allow anything other than whipped cream or occasionally, pudding into her hair. We had read here somewhere years ago now and it's been so far in the past that I can't recall the model(s) who mentioned it, but there were a few it seemed had mentioned that with longer hair, the excessive weight of mess from certain substances was actually pulling their hair out and leaving them with large bald spots. That scared my wife, whose hair is already thin, from ever messing up her hair again, but we still manage to have fun.

make sure you have a 1liter carton of custard on hand, its great for making almost any substance go slick in hair,
stuff that just gets sticky like syrup and honey does wash out easy but during play it can be annoying when long hair gets wraped up around arms etc, eith use loads of honey or syrup so it just stays slick, warm it up a bit helps as when it gets cold its going to get alot thicker and stop running, custard will then be used to slick it up so you can keep playing

stuff thats bitty like rice pudding can be an arse if you have curly or untidy hair, again custard will help it slide through the hair, if you don't have a good shower then you might need to comb it out, usually though its ok,

not tried dough in hair, but i bet custard will help out there

i've been sploshing with many stuffs in my hair for decades, never had any hair pull out, certainly not with the weight of splosh stuff, even mud, if people are trying to comb dried stuff out then that would be a problem, as i mentioned, custard slicks up alot of stuff

if also washes out alot better than whipped cream, whipped cream can leave an oily residue where as custard dilutes very well

she should be safe with honey too, see above comment from me about using custard to slick up honey if it gets too sticky

when i mush stuff around in my wifes hair like cake batter gunge or actual cake it gets pretty bad. she looses hand fulls of hair. if u make cake batter stuff add lots of cooking oil we use avacado oil now and make sure there are no balls of flour cause those won't come out of hair.

dish soap can help gut greese out and i would think would help both the things you use but not sure how great it is on skin and hair in large amounts since made for dishes.

lots of conditioner and i usually have her take a bath when its a huge session to help get stuff out of tub and break down stuff out of her hair

You need to be a bit wary of flour based substances in hair. However, we've not found anything else to be a significant problem, including many sweet and savory substances (including frosting), glue (pva and wallpaper paste), slime, paint and mud. And my wife has long curly hair. I'm not sure I buy the "heavy substances pulling hair out and leading to baldness" argument - I suspect the cause and effect are the other way round. And even flour can be used with caution - gluten free is fine (but a bit gritty), normal flour just needs lots of oil / grease with it.

Having said that, though, I think many women are a bit protective of their hair, and may need time, sympathy and reassurance before they'll be happy to have their hair covered in weird and wonderful substances. Take it easy at first would be my advice. My wife and I have got to where we are after 20 years of sploshing together, and there were certainly things that she'd have been very hesitant about 20 years ago that we do all the time now.

As far as substances my wife and I have used, this is what she told me.

House Paint - Took a bit, but it came out, but she had to condition very thoroughly afterwards.
Nutella, Frosting/Icing - Very oily and can leave your hair feeling as such. Just shampoo and condition, try leaving conditioner on there like a mask for a bit, then wash out.
Poster Paint, Chocolate Sauce, Whip Cream - Less Abrasive, was able to come out very easy, with just rinse a brief scrub and shampoo.
Shaving Cream - Dries out your hair if you leave it in too long. She just uses revitalizing shampoo and was fine.

Hope that helps.

Don't start with shampoo; use a large amount of conditioner first. Cheap stuff is fine. Then wash as she normally would. Flour based stuff can be a pain to get out, though.

iirc correctly, that was the one and only Jayce, although it was during my lurking days so I don't have a link. You might reach out to her and see if she found a solution or had substances that were particularly hard to get out.

Frosting and nutella are not only hard on the hair? They are also harsh on the skin.

The process of getting it out of hair and the oils off of skin? Leaves me itchy and feeling very oily for a few days.

Since its so hard to get off? you end up using a LOT of dawn. Which is drying....making the face and skin dry and then the face is also pourous. (spelling, sorry)
So? The face expels that oil in days after....no matter how much you use dawn BECAUSE! even if you get it out of your pores somehow? Your skin is so dry it over works and makes more oil causing breakouts.

Hair: Two of the hardest substances to get from the hair. It takes a lot of hot water....a lot of dawn, brushing and a lot of conditioner.
I have had the same stylist since 2018 and when I come in? She knows when Ive used these types of oily substances.
My hair is broken off, (from using so much dawn on my hair) and when getting messy? the pulling of the hair and then when washing it out....
so many washes, and trying to brush it out and conditioning over and over to smooth it off the hair? it is harsh on the hair. Really harsh!

may I suggest something? Maybe do something like natrasol gunge ? Just for a bit and then? if they wanna do pb or frosting? Get some whipped frosting and melt down your peanut butter .....and I would do the pb at the end of the session while its still in a "melty" state....

maybe that will help a bit?

and stretch sessions out a bit on the more oily substances like that. They are extremely harsh on our hair and skin.

but if you do them?
buy a fine toothed one hand grip shower brush....super easy to find on amazon. cheap.
use tons of conditioner. and loofahs. on the skin and the hair.
AFTER scrubbing to death with dawn. It coats the pores and helps mess slide off easier with a comb and lots of conditioner.
prepare whomever it is that they will have oily feeling skin and face for a couple days and to do what they need to do to remedy this.

sorry this is so long but I have SUPER long hair and lemme tell you! It is thick as well. I have to do my hair a COAT at a time!
its very harsh on it and on my skin.
They are two of my favorite substances though so......
Ive literally got them both on my amazon wish list and offering a custom if someone buys me the supplies in bulk hahah! (the nutella and pb) so? i get why you love it!

be careful with doing baths not to stay in too long. Soaking in all that sugar is not good for the "girly parts"
My vagina is now used to pretty much anything shoved up there....like I was leaking mehron for a good 5 days or more....so i just wore a pad. TMI? maybe! lol!

but yeah, if she takes a bath to break it down? Just make sure she isnt in there too long! Just some womanly advice

Thanks for all your replies guys, that really clears things up. As I said I've used Nutella and frosting a lot in the past and never had any issues, nor did my partners have any concern. But I'd like to be able to reassure any partners who see it as a potential issue. Thanks again!