For a lot of us...it is not simply fun to get messy or to watch others get messy, but to fantasise and read about messy experiences...I think most of us start with fantasy surely...
But I wonder...has anyone's messy fantasy ever come to life?

Have you ever mixed Roleplay with real life? - For example, I've always fantasised about playing some messy Dungeons and Dragons variant...except instead of taking damage, perhaps you take a pie or face some other forfeit while playing...of course this would lead to a long session haha

Perhaps you have written a WAM story in the past...and low and behold, you brought that idea to life in a session?

I would love to hear the stories related to the above

I tell my receptive partners everything and we have done many of my fantasies. Now I have a working gunge tank I can hopefully do a few more.

Some turned out better than expected, others less so but I am happy I got to try things that were poking away at my mind, and lucky enough to have found people willing to share in my fantasies when they themselves were not sploshers.

None of the stories will ever be put up here though, I am not here to add to folks wank-bank.

Most of my fantasies were just about ways I wanted to get messy or sex acts I wanted to do while being or getting messy. Those were easy to cross off the list with my wife over the course of our 10+ years of marriage so far. But I did have one recurring fantasy that involved some role-playing on our part.

Every time I go to get my haircut, they sit you at that chair and lean you back with your head in the sink and they wash your hair and I usually keep my eyes closed so none of the splashing from the spray gets in my eyes. I always am thinking how nice it would be if the hairdresser were to unexpectedly pie me in that moment or pour a huge bucket of slime over my head and chest.

So I told my wife about it and we recreated it in the shower as best we could. She welcomed me to her hair salon and walked me over to a cheap chair we bought exactly for this which she had in the shower. She sprayed down my hair, shampooed, rinsed, and conditioned, rinsed again, and then started just trashing me with pies and slime. It was awesome. I still think about it often.

I'm very lucky - my wife has acted out most of my WAM fantasies.
My WAM fantasies involve total WAM devastation and unrecognisable destruction with a variety of disgusting substances.
My amazing wife has simply sat there and allowed me to dump tons of filth over her head time and time again even though she hates it .

Now that's true love for you! Lucky man

I had written about 100+ (no exaggeration) episodes of YCDTOTV slime-fiction before I ever started making videos, and have used scenes that I've written as scripts in both my personal life and now on shoots.

I also have a YCDTOTV/FunHouse spin-off story I co-wrote with a friend that may end up becoming a concept/contest at Slimed Models in the near future

It's weird for me because I think I only like WAM in porn. Don't think I would ever want to actually pour slop on someone IRL and then cleanup.

Almost all my YCDTOTV fanfics involve superheroes and certain online friends , so they don't really lend to playing out in real life. However, my wife could easily pull off a cosplay as April O'Neil and I've been trying to hook that up...

I guess my fantasies aren't really all that extraordinary. Basically my main fantasy has always been having a girl who would agree to getting messy in person in front of me...and then let me play with her hair...And an added bonus to this fantasy has always been the whole element of the model NOT looking up and taking a face full of slime, I've always preferred it when they make it a point to let their hair take the brunt of the mess while being able to make eye contact and have a wide variety of expressions not being obscured by a covered face.

It became real many moons ago when Maria AKA Mypierogative was making the rounds in a WAM tour and actually came around my neck of the woods.

Not likely something that'll ever happen again, but I never thought it would ever happen at all to begin with, so who knows. I've since grown my own hair out and have grown accustomed to messing it up and playing with it myself, so now the new fantasy is to find a girl that will let me get her hair messy, and her get mine messy.

Have I mixed roleplay with real life? Absolutely, I mean for me the question is why people some people don't do it at all? I don't know if this is because of my creative and engineering background but to me fantasies are just like any other idea that could be made into real life. Yes it may take effort or some money to do but then all great ideas require either or both of those anyway. Naturally the more outlandish it is the more effort and money it might take (hell the moonlandings all started from a bunch of people dreaming about humanity going to the moon) or need some other approximating/fakery.

I love making ideas a reality and the only difference between an idea and a fantasy is that someone's deriving sexual pleasure from the idea/fantasy. Which just makes it even better. Given that there is a word for people that enjoy inflicting suffering on others (sadism) I feel as if there should be a word for enjoying giving pleasure to others but I don't know it (best I could think of was mashing together hedonism with altruism but anyway I digress) that would be appropriate here.

Will it be a perfect replication of everything you fancy. No of course not, fantasies don't need to take practical or safety issues into consideration. If you go into anything trying to compare it to a set of mental expectations it will always come off poorly. A big part of the reason Buddhism posits that desire causes suffering is because expectations are the mother of disappointment. However if you allow yourself to fully experience it mindfully in the moment you can have an experience that far exceeds what you've imagined. Let me illustrate this with an example. You could have a dream about being able to fly like a superhero. Some of the closest approximations you could do would be to go paragliding, skydiving with a wing suit or go indoor skydiving (budget depending). All three of those experiences, if you focused on the sensations you had in the moment would give you an experience you've never had before and would beat whatever you had imagined it to be. However if instead of focusing on the sensations in the moment of those experiences you instead focused on how and why you aren't really properly flying like a superhero then yes instead it will be a disappointment. In a way it is an illustration of a principle of Stoicism philosophy in that how we feel and perceive things is determined by how we cognitively evaluate the sensations we experience.

So yeah whilst how you approach it mentally has a large impact on how much you enjoy the fantasy but so long as you're approaching it in the right frame of mind even if you have to approximate some things it can still deliver an experience better than anything else you've tried. You can approximate quite a lot with combination of costumes, props, some imagination and even a bit of hypnosis (essentially a directed form of meditation or mindfulness that you can use to help enhance someone imagining something such as a supernatural element or to avoid the real world consequences of the real thing such as imagining they are in front of an audience rather than having to get one).


But anyway if you're thinking of pursuing a fantasy it is always worth thinking about how to go about it. If you really wanted to pursue Messy Dungeon and Dragons then you'll probably need to find people already familiar with a lot of Dungeon and Dragon's rules. (From my own experience of kinky games length of rules is inversely proportional to how easily you can recruit people to play my most successful kinky adaptation is a version of Snakes and Ladders modified with a trivia quiz element with rewards and forfeits). Otherwise perhaps it might be an idea to develop a simplified WAM RPG game Dunk Tanks and Damsels might be easier for WAM fans with no D'n'D knowledge to sign up for (indeed making the game itself might similarly be fun reminds me of a sploshing trading card game I devised years ago for one experience. The cards themselves didn't survive the experience but was worth it) or if you want to cast a wider net and see if other kinksters want to play your RPG you could have Dungeons and Dominatrixes (yeah I'm having too much fun coming up with kinky knockoffs now) and have a different class for different kinks and make your character a Splosher class.

Whilst I have got a few stories of fantasies fulfilled (either mine or other people's) I have a general rule not to discuss them without the permission of everyone involved in them. That way anyone wishing to pursue other fantasies with me can be confident that I won't divulge anything about them to anyone else later. I currently have two WAM erotic stories I'm working on one is based on something I hope to shoot on film at a later date and the other is a fictionalisation of one of my favourite roleplay scenarios that combines BDSM, WAM and games that is loosely based on some things I've done that I can divulge (not going to post spoilers before it is complete though) and some things I'd like to do. However the fictionalisation has been written in a way to titillate as much of my likely audience as possible if in the very unlikely event it really resonates with someone that they want to experience it they know who they can contact.

This is gonna sound pretty depressing, but what the hell:

Most of mine are physically possible in theory. The problem is not only finding the partner(s) to do it with but even just the process of buying and making everything. I'm sure taking things one step at a time by finding someone first would make this easier, and I'm sure there are guides on here for setup and cleanup. Its' just for guys on here like me most of these basic ones seem what might as well be impossible.

I don't post this to be a stick in the mud (ha! Sounds like another fantasy to someone!); I just found this interesting what some people's fantasies seem doable.

Something I like doing is real-life wam (mud is my go-to!) And then, I subsequently love to write it up in a story. And you can really go for it in the story, maybe more than you could in reality. Stories "based on true events" are a favourite thing of mine. (Along with getting muddy!) Interesting thread.

Well I have two ways I am turning dreams to reality right now

1). Regarding my D&D game...actually I have started running one, we have 4 players currently but that number should be growing soon, it's not strictly messy...its actually covering any and all kinks to keep members happy, as well as provide some variety...as well, it's not always practical to run messy games on a regular basis, but for sure there have been some messy forfeits handed out already
But members are engaged and it's fun to have such a creative outlet...or course I need to DM, so no forfeits are thrown my way...but I may engineer some encounter with the players to change that

2). I have organised a game...well let's say booked, something that I have tried before, but sadly my partner at the time wasn't really into it so it perhaps wasn't as fun as it should be...but this time I am playing with a WAM veteran who sounds like she is perfect for this, when the game happens I will be writing a good summary of how it goes, there will also be a video of this for my personal use hehe...so stay tuned for some fun

I have read some of your stories...wow I wished I lived in your area, you would find no activities like that around here!
It is a fun game of working out the reality from the fantasy :p

> For example, I've always fantasised about playing some messy Dungeons and Dragons variant...except instead of taking damage, perhaps you take a pie or face some other forfeit while playing...of course this would lead to a long session haha

I wrote a story about this https://umd.net/stories/dungeonsampdragons-for-real ^^

So get a sowing machine and material and learn how to make them instead. If a sowing machine is out of budget then needle and thread it.

If you want to sit there and box your thinking in with a whole bunch of limiting beliefs about what you can't do society will let you do it as ultimately indifferent to whether you get what you want or not.

The last three times people told me something I wanted to do was impossible I managed to do in the end (the second one even won a national award) proving they weren't impossible at all. Now there isn't anything inherently special about me that meant I can do what most people can't (indeed I actually have dyspraxia so struggle with a whole bunch of things people take for granted). But if you break a bigger task down into smaller chunks each chunk is easier to find solutions for and manageable to complete such that over time (even if it takes years) you inch towards your goal. Furthermore as others see you forging your path to achieve a goal you may find some of them willing to help or follow you on that path. Whilst I started out alone on my three impossible things I didn't finish out that way on two of them (and the third by its nature had to be a solo effort).

So yes it could be hardwork, time-consuming or difficult to figure out but if you put your mind to it and spread out the effort into manageable chunks you could surprise yourself...

Just commented about this on a separate post but I wanted to mention it on this post too. Last night saw another fantasy come true. I have always loved giving massages. It's kind of therapeutic even for me on the giving end. The only other times I've tried to give my wife messy massages, it hasn't been comfortable because the chocolate or pudding gets cold on her and she just wants it over with.

But last night, she agreed to a messy foot massage and we own a massage table so I put it half in/half out of the tub and I sat in the tub and started massaging her feet with a big bowl of chocolate cake batter. Since the bathroom was still warm from her shower before, she wasn't getting cold so I offered to make it a full body massage once I was done with her feet. So I ended up having her covered from the neck down and she said she was comfortable throughout.

Then I had her scoot to the end of the table and went down on her getting my face covered. Then we had probably the best messy sex of my life while she was lying in all the chocolate on the massage table. Not sure if that's a WAM story becoming real, but it's certainly a fantasy of mine that finally happened.