Thanks so much x

Been online since 1996 and developed a sure fire way to tell if any new member of a fetish community is a guy posing as a girl; they can't stop mentioning that they're a girl.

If you want people to think you're genuine, don't post an AI picture and make out that it's really you.

You hit every other red flag already mentioned as well.

Did Arron P ever get back to you? And how's the couple from the hospital with the broken arm?

Yes, please be careful, guys. Unfortunately a lot of men on here are vulnerable to falling for this sort of thing. I see so many males posting in Personals, asking for ladies to come and gunge them. Not going to happen! If you get any replies, they'll be from a fella.

Arron never appeared. Whatever.
AI images? My original profile pic you mean. Like all the avatars in here are of the owners of the accounts
Whatever... who cares? I'll leave you guys to stick degrading comments under images on the wall of women you could not ever dream of meeting.
Happy w#&king

So you weren't found to have posted an AI picture of yourself? I think the many people who have been scammed before by fake profiles care.

Your second profile pic. Your first profile pic was a close cropped image of someone with their head completely covered in gunk.

No problem with AI profile pics, big problem with people pretending that the AI profile pic is them. With the fake looking lime shower gel and yogurt that was "really cold!", and the black bar over the eyes that "did little to hide your identity". Even bigger problem when that person is trying to a solicit a meet up via the personals forum. At least you didn't get away with actually scamming anyone, hopefully. Apart from maybe whoever Arron P is.

Genuine people don't tend to make a big post announcing themselves to the forum. Genuine people tend to have been into this since childhood. Genuine people don't tend to see someone who's just broken an arm from slipping in mess and think "wow, that looks like fun!". People don't tend to tell a healthcare professional who's treating their girlfriend's broken arm about a fetish website. Genuine people don't tend to mention their "flatmate Sammy", who's also a nurse, in their introduction post. Genuine people don't tend to tell everyone their place of work in their first post. Genuine people don't immediately try to meet a stranger to get them messy, they'll speak to someone they already know after months or even years of deliberation. Genuine people don't write teasing posts about how many DMs they've got from horny guys. Genuine people don't try to mislead others with AI photos. Genuine people don't delete their posts for no reason. Genuine people don't act how you've been acting.

You can say wanking, it's fine. This is an adult site and you don't need to censor rude words.

It's indeed sad to see. These guys are flat out lied to by others in the community who falsely state that "a lot" of girls also have this fetish and are totally down to meet up. As you stated, when someone replies he's gonna be led to believe she's hot and 22. Of course, she's fallen on hard time and would love to meet up and only needs him to send her $225 to fix her car.

ABSOLUTELY!!! I think of this often too. Especially on the heels of the Kelsey Roses situation, where the person used had passed away. It was all very disturbing. I couldn't imagine how mortified I'd be if I found someone using photos of me on a fetish site claiming that the photos were the user.

It also bothers me when I see posts like this where people get scammed for money:
https://umd.net/forums/jody-manchester

Jodie was an unusual case where the photos were a bit unusual but believable. I saw a bunch of her posts get removed because they violated the rules about offering customs or sessions (if I can remember correctly). Not all scammers are fake profiles. This is why the approval process for customs and rule against offering sessions exist.

I think it is also important to not ask new members for customs just because they seemed interested in make videos. If they are serious about making customs, wait until they are approved.

It's very important to note that a lot of scammers are very real. In my community it's a lot of boyfriend/girlfriend scams where it's the boyfriend running the profile, reaching out to try to get deposits, custom money but anytime someone demands proof, his girlfriend will send a video or even hop on video chat to discuss all the details. Once the money is sent, boom, they're blocked. Rinse and repeat until their profile gets burned.

We try our best to get the word out to never send a dime to any of these Twitter/IG, etc..accounts and only pay professional established fetish models or studios. They don't listen.

So I try to stay quiet on these discussions bcI am knew ish but I am REAL just check my page

Lucy got up on the wrong side of the muddy pool eh?

This is appalling! Men get scammed so much and some are too vulnerable and fall for these d$&m scams!

Insta is the WORST. Yes I hollered because it's a slime bed of fake people out there to take money from unsuspecting fellas!!!

Fake pics grabbed from other girls and the fall for it. Over and over.

I know Messmaster does due diligence vetting folks, some slide through and end up pulling baloney scams on guys. .

Also i accidentally liked one of Lucy's comments. Can't get it to erase. Why is she (it) here if has that nasty attitude?

If Lucy is here just to be rude and snappy to the guys, then she (?) may want to go elsewhere maybe X or IG but hopefully not to scam others.

I dot get it why come here to be mean and say these guys post bashing women comments and "couldn't have any of these women IRL" Rude much!

What's with her and bashing men? I'm here to have fun w y'all and enjoy the mess!

Everyone has been SO nice to me and I totally appreciate it.

Feet planted in reality and please guys check for AI bs and even real ppl bs because it happens to the tune of millions of $ and it awful to think a humans can do this to a guy.

I'm for y'all the fun and the mess let the rude people fly the coop!

Trixxi

Fetish models are safe. What most guys really goon over is a regular vanilla girl on IG talking about how slime turns her on and how she masturbates just thinking about having a slime partner. That's the trap that's set and the guys fall for it over and over again.