Never would I see the day where in my 11 some years in the fetish community that I may have to delete my online fetish presence because of someone threatening to," destroy " me. Just wanted to,see yalls thoughts on this, and,also say not,cool not,cool at,all.

[Sorry Cher25, I'm removing these screencaps as they contain his image in them, etc -MM]

Full conversations dating years back to follow

Not acceptable,and totally against what UMD was built on.

what a creep I think this guy has either self esteem issues or hes got no life off the computeri would try and get his IP and call the authorities

i just messaged him and told him to stop being a creep hope he listens

I assume you reported this to the admins? Hopefully they'll ban his IP.

Okay, so I blocked her, said to leave me alone.... no use. But then when I say I will take action, I'm the one harassing people?

I am deleting Dudemann's profile, and I'm banning his email as well as IP's. You do not talk to my users that way. Cher25, I'm sorry this happened to you. I am emailing this person directly so that he understands it was my decision and that he is NEVER welcome back here, and that all his comments as well as personal information will be kept on-file. Thanks for everybody who contacted me about this, even on txt.

MM

Good job MM. I seem to recall Dudeman was always making clever comments. Not sure why he went nuclear on Cher but it's great you took swift action. The female variety are way too rare around here unless, of course, one counts Regis' avatar.

Thanks guys, and thanks MM, I appreciate the swift action I've been a member of this fetish community for 11 yrs now, and do lead as most of us do "normal" lives,so to have my personal life threatened to be outed as a fellow messy user, was,appaling to me and indeed scary. Thank you so much for the actions that have been taken. I feel alot better knowing my personal info is safe, from,this dude..as well as thank you to the many of you who took up for me.

I admit I wanted to message you once, but figured it may creep you out unintentionally,so I held off.

Although this doesn't seem to be an issue to Regis.

I admit I wasn't aware of Cher25 until this thread, but I'm going to bombard her with a fuckton of creepy DMs now.

Thanks everyone for making me aware of this oversight.

How's it going so far?

Sigh ... So much creeping, so little time!

I hadn't followed this, but good for MM for quickly doing the right thing and protecting Cher!!!

@Cher25, let's hope this doesn't sour you toward the mostly wonderful WAM community, especially those here on umd.