So my girlfriend of 3 years left me today and me and her loved wamming together, she knows more about the fetish than any of my other exes ever will and it got me thinking, when I do start looking for a new gf should wam be a worry/factor for me?
Personally I don't think it's realistic to try to date someone based on having a mutual fetish, especially when it's something uncommon like wam. However if finding someone who is at least somewhat open to your fetish is important then don't wait several years before bringing it up. In most of my relationships I have mentioned I'm into kinky sex once the relationship gets sexual. In most cases it wasn't a problem, however when my husband and I were dating he was a bit put off by that. It took him a long time to get comfortable with my kinks but since we were both very compatible on other levels we were willing to make it work. So don't get discouraged if you don't find someone who is really into wam right away.
So... Now that you two are split, can I get her number LOL JUST KIDDING! Sorry to hear you are loosing such a special person in your life Just be glad for the times you had as some of us never get the opportunities that I am sure you have already had the pleasure of experiencing
Phoenix said: Just be glad for the times you had as some of us never get the opportunities that I am sure you have already had the pleasure of experiencing
I broke up with my last real girlfriend several months ago, and it was kinda similar... she really loved playing in the mud with me and got off on getting completely covered and having muddy sex outdoors. I haven't had "the talk" with the girl I'm dating now but I hope she'll be open to it. Just take it easy, don't go in swinging with things like slime cannons and tanks, just mention you think a pie in the face would be fun, or that you like playing with chocolate syrup and whipped cream. Just go slow, you'll be surprised how well it works.
Dude!! You must be in shock homey, if this if the thought that goes threw your head within hours of losing your lady.
You don't need to solve tommorow's problems today, and such things should be case by case anyway. There's no "fits all" answer to your question. But that's secondary.
go watch the notebook, eat a quart of rocky road, and have a good cry.
wambob said: I broke up with my last real girlfriend several months ago, and it was kinda similar... she really loved playing in the mud with me and got off on getting completely covered and having muddy sex outdoors. I haven't had "the talk" with the girl I'm dating now but I hope she'll be open to it. Just take it easy, don't go in swinging with things like slime cannons and tanks, just mention you think a pie in the face would be fun, or that you like playing with chocolate syrup and whipped cream. Just go slow, you'll be surprised how well it works.
I know a lot of people will say "easier said than done," but I think you should always just come right out with it if you intend on having a sexual relationship with that person. That's what I did with Adam and it's definitely been worth it. If you can't be open with someone then there's no point.
Glad you're even thinking about moving on though. That's awesome progress! Best of luck on your new venture when it happens x
Its really hard to say. My new girlfriend appears to be very interested in WAM, we may play a little tonight. I do imagine it would be a little different for a girl to talk to a girl about it rather than a guy bring it up to a girl.
I also tend to date non vanilla people too. So that may be a part of it.
Love you, too
LOL JUST KIDDING! Sorry to hear you are loosing such a special person in your life 
Just be glad for the times you had as some of us never get the opportunities that I am sure you have already had the pleasure of experiencing 
