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"My MG custom with Cadence Lux update"
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I've had many people ask me about this upcoming custom so I thought I'd answer here and save some time. lol
My customs take longer to come to fruition because I am very particular which models I want. (I am not paying lots of money for some uggos.)
Anyway, Cadence lives 3 or 4 hours away from MG and therefore is a little harder to schedule. And then the other girls have to be available too.
To solve this problem, I gave MG 3 scripts. One for a two girl script, one a 3 girl, and one a 4 girl. But Cadence is in the common link. No Cadence, no custom.
There have been maybe 3 or 4 attempts to get this to happen. Most recently, 2 weeks ago, Cadence told MG she was taking a break because had covid. Other times, the other girls cancelled on MG.
It is frustrating for sure, but I feel it will happen soon. MG says he is trying to set up another date for May. Fingers crossed.
(Megan, Zoey and Santana are the 3 MG girls, btw.)
My customs take longer to come to fruition because I am very particular which models I want. (I am not paying lots of money for some uggos.)
Anyway, Cadence lives 3 or 4 hours away from MG and therefore is a little harder to schedule. And then the other girls have to be available too. To solve this problem, I gave MG 3 scripts. One for a two girl script, one a 3 girl, and one a 4 girl. But Cadence is in the common link. No Cadence, no custom.
There have been maybe 3 or 4 attempts to get this to happen. Most recently, 2 weeks ago, Cadence told MG she was taking a break because had covid. Other times, the other girls cancelled on MG.
It is frustrating for sure, but I feel it will happen soon. MG says he is trying to set up another date for May. Fingers crossed.
(Megan, Zoey and Santana are the 3 MG girls, btw.)
Bozo1 said:
My customs take longer to come to fruition because I am very particular which models I want. (I am not paying lots of money for some uggos.) )
My customs take longer to come to fruition because I am very particular which models I want. (I am not paying lots of money for some uggos.)
) Hi Bozo
Not trying to rain on your parade. Your customs are always great and I know the scene will be amazing.
I just wanted to mention that, while I understand there was a laughing face after it, I just thought I should say that I felt uncomfortable with the word uggos here.
Using that term in any context to describe someone just doesn't pass the vibe check for me, as it's such a negative and judgemental word.
I have always felt that everyone is beautiful. Of course we all have different physical tastes, but that doesn't mean anyone is ugly (at least not physically).
I accept it was probably just a casual throwaway joke, but it just made me feel uncomfortable. We know there are a number of people here who don't have huge amounts of self-belief, despite being amazing, and I worry that some may think this is how you really think.
I am not trying to make you feel bad. You have always seemed a nice fella, and I know sometimes we all type in haste. But I just felt it didn't represent what we should be all about.
and now back to looking forward to your next amazing scene....
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RevSlymsford said:
Hi Bozo
Not trying to rain on your parade. Your customs are always great and I know the scene will be amazing.
I just wanted to mention that, while I understand there was a laughing face after it, I just thought I should say that I felt uncomfortable with the word uggos here.
Using that term in any context to describe someone just doesn't pass the vibe check for me, as it's such a negative and judgemental word.
I have always felt that everyone is beautiful. Of course we all have different physical tastes, but that doesn't mean anyone is ugly (at least not physically).
I accept it was probably just a casual throwaway joke, but it just made me feel uncomfortable. We know there are a number of people here who don't have huge amounts of self-belief, despite being amazing, and I worry that some may think this is how you really think.
I am not trying to make you feel bad. You have always seemed a nice fella, and I know sometimes we all type in haste. But I just felt it didn't represent what we should be all about.
and now back to looking forward to your next amazing scene....
Bozo1 said:
My customs take longer to come to fruition because I am very particular which models I want. (I am not paying lots of money for some uggos.) )
My customs take longer to come to fruition because I am very particular which models I want. (I am not paying lots of money for some uggos.)
) Hi Bozo
Not trying to rain on your parade. Your customs are always great and I know the scene will be amazing.
I just wanted to mention that, while I understand there was a laughing face after it, I just thought I should say that I felt uncomfortable with the word uggos here.
Using that term in any context to describe someone just doesn't pass the vibe check for me, as it's such a negative and judgemental word.
I have always felt that everyone is beautiful. Of course we all have different physical tastes, but that doesn't mean anyone is ugly (at least not physically).
I accept it was probably just a casual throwaway joke, but it just made me feel uncomfortable. We know there are a number of people here who don't have huge amounts of self-belief, despite being amazing, and I worry that some may think this is how you really think.
I am not trying to make you feel bad. You have always seemed a nice fella, and I know sometimes we all type in haste. But I just felt it didn't represent what we should be all about.
and now back to looking forward to your next amazing scene....
I hear what you are saying, Rev. Its just the way I talk. If you knew me IRL, you'd understand this better I suppose. These are some examples of conversations I've had.
Friend: Can I borrow a couple bucks?
Me: Sure. What do you need? $20?
F: I was thinking more like $50 because I.....
M: $50 ?!?!? I don't like you THAT much.
And then we chuckle and I give em the $50.
I knew a lady named Anne for several years at work. She was a legend. Then we got a new girl whose name was Anne also. A coworker said to me something about Anne. I asked, "Which Anne do you mean? The REAL Anne or the other one?"
A different coworker was out for a few weeks for surgery. The office sent around a Get Well card for everyone to sign. Everybody wrote variations on "Feel better." I wrote, "Get off your lazy ass and get back to work." When she did return to work, she told me that the lady who handed her the card was apologetic and embarrassed about what I wrote. But she knew I said it to make her laugh and it was far and beyond her favorite comment on the card.
In other words, I deliberately say seemingly harsh things but never actually mean it. And my audiences know it. I suppose it doesn't come across the same way in writing on an online forum.
Sorry you were offended, I didn't mean it. Never do.
Bozo1 said:
I hear what you are saying, Rev. Its just the way I talk. If you knew me IRL, you'd understand this better I suppose. These are some examples of conversations I've had.
Friend: Can I borrow a couple bucks?
Me: Sure. What do you need? $20?
F: I was thinking more like $50 because I.....
M: $50 ?!?!? I don't like you THAT much.
And then we chuckle and I give em the $50.
I knew a lady named Anne for several years at work. She was a legend. Then we got a new girl whose name was Anne also. A coworker said to me something about Anne. I asked, "Which Anne do you mean? The REAL Anne or the other one?"
A different coworker was out for a few weeks for surgery. The office sent around a Get Well card for everyone to sign. Everybody wrote variations on "Feel better." I wrote, "Get off your lazy ass and get back to work." When she did return to work, she told me that the lady who handed her the card was apologetic and embarrassed about what I wrote. But she knew I said it to make her laugh and it was far and beyond her favorite comment on the card.
In other words, I deliberately say seemingly harsh things but never actually mean it. And my audiences know it. I suppose it doesn't come across the same way in writing on an online forum.
Sorry you were offended, I didn't mean it. Never do.
RevSlymsford said:
Hi Bozo
Not trying to rain on your parade. Your customs are always great and I know the scene will be amazing.
I just wanted to mention that, while I understand there was a laughing face after it, I just thought I should say that I felt uncomfortable with the word uggos here.
Using that term in any context to describe someone just doesn't pass the vibe check for me, as it's such a negative and judgemental word.
I have always felt that everyone is beautiful. Of course we all have different physical tastes, but that doesn't mean anyone is ugly (at least not physically).
I accept it was probably just a casual throwaway joke, but it just made me feel uncomfortable. We know there are a number of people here who don't have huge amounts of self-belief, despite being amazing, and I worry that some may think this is how you really think.
I am not trying to make you feel bad. You have always seemed a nice fella, and I know sometimes we all type in haste. But I just felt it didn't represent what we should be all about.
and now back to looking forward to your next amazing scene....
Bozo1 said:
My customs take longer to come to fruition because I am very particular which models I want. (I am not paying lots of money for some uggos.) )
My customs take longer to come to fruition because I am very particular which models I want. (I am not paying lots of money for some uggos.)
) Hi Bozo
Not trying to rain on your parade. Your customs are always great and I know the scene will be amazing.
I just wanted to mention that, while I understand there was a laughing face after it, I just thought I should say that I felt uncomfortable with the word uggos here.
Using that term in any context to describe someone just doesn't pass the vibe check for me, as it's such a negative and judgemental word.
I have always felt that everyone is beautiful. Of course we all have different physical tastes, but that doesn't mean anyone is ugly (at least not physically).
I accept it was probably just a casual throwaway joke, but it just made me feel uncomfortable. We know there are a number of people here who don't have huge amounts of self-belief, despite being amazing, and I worry that some may think this is how you really think.
I am not trying to make you feel bad. You have always seemed a nice fella, and I know sometimes we all type in haste. But I just felt it didn't represent what we should be all about.
and now back to looking forward to your next amazing scene....
I hear what you are saying, Rev. Its just the way I talk. If you knew me IRL, you'd understand this better I suppose. These are some examples of conversations I've had.
Friend: Can I borrow a couple bucks?
Me: Sure. What do you need? $20?
F: I was thinking more like $50 because I.....
M: $50 ?!?!? I don't like you THAT much.
And then we chuckle and I give em the $50.
I knew a lady named Anne for several years at work. She was a legend. Then we got a new girl whose name was Anne also. A coworker said to me something about Anne. I asked, "Which Anne do you mean? The REAL Anne or the other one?"
A different coworker was out for a few weeks for surgery. The office sent around a Get Well card for everyone to sign. Everybody wrote variations on "Feel better." I wrote, "Get off your lazy ass and get back to work." When she did return to work, she told me that the lady who handed her the card was apologetic and embarrassed about what I wrote. But she knew I said it to make her laugh and it was far and beyond her favorite comment on the card.
In other words, I deliberately say seemingly harsh things but never actually mean it. And my audiences know it. I suppose it doesn't come across the same way in writing on an online forum.
Sorry you were offended, I didn't mean it. Never do.
Thanks for responding and hearing what I was saying without hackles up.
I understand and appreciate all you wrote...I think many of this can appreciate that among friends or colleagues or people who know us in some way, we can say things (like those you cite above) with minimal fear of being misconstrued or misunderstood, that we wouldn't necessarily say to those who don't know us.
I just feel that when we are here, among many people who don't know us, and don't have context or nuance or knowledge of overall intent, things can and will be taken at face value. Combining that with the fact that many of those who are here, have confidence or self esteem issues , then I just felt that it was perhaps an ill judged phrase, that may have caused inadvertent pain or anxiety, or fed into a view of how men think about women, which I know wasn't your intent. Knowing that this wouldn't be your intention (as you have, indeed, clarified), I just wanted to put that on your radar.
I'd also just want to clarify that I wasn't offended. I don't think that's the right word. I am rarely offended by anything. But it did just make me feel a bit uncomfortable.
Thanks for having listened with an open mind.
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