Well, I finally did it! After much encouragement and questioning from my new girlfriend about what fantasies/fetishes I may have, I let the cat out of the bag. I told her all about my love of mud and oil wrestling. To my surprise, she was not shocked or put off, but curious. Although she is a little unsure about mud wrestling with another woman, she said she is down to wrestle with me!

My question is this. I know producers like MessyGirl have used the liquid "slip clay" in the past. Such as in the Amy vs Amy and Amy vs Vika matches. While I absolutely love the coverage, I think I would like it a little thicker. I was wondering if anyone has mixed some Bentonite powder with the slip clay and how that turned out. I really want this to turn out great so that maybe I can talk her into wrestling with that sexy neighbor in the future.

Any info is appreciated. Keep it messy my friends

Way to go, mate, atta boy!

Now show us the girlfriend to share the great news with you.

You might consider chocolate cake mix, which is cheap and which can be made without fuss (just add water). It can be made thinner or creamy, and you can keep it warm until ready for use. (Mix what you're going to use with hot water and put it in plastic buckets - then but the buckets in a tub of hot water.) It should be warm until you're ready. Unlike clay, it tastes good. (My wife did a shoot with clay, kissed the other woman, and said - ugh, I wish this was chocolate.)

Congratulations! That's absolutely wonderful to read, it really is great when someone is happily willing to play. Good luck and hope you both have an awesome messy time together. Go her!

Exciting to hear! The forum history has good info about bentonite and clay mixing:

https://umd.net/forums/indoor-mudclay-play
https://umd.net/forums/i-love-hiking-for-mud-but
https://umd.net/forums/making-mud-from-potters-clay

Hopefully you make the perfect mixture, thickness, and temperature for your mud wrestling

You can also try cocoa and melt it into a paste. It has great coverage and is pleasant to the touch. Remember that it must be traditional cocoa, not instant.

Bentonite clay mixed with pottery clay is the best! This is what I've used when playing in it with a girl once and it was a great experience.

I used a 50lb bag of this https://www.bulkapothecary.com/raw-ingredients/clays/bentonite-clay/

And 2 5lb bags of this https://www.bulkapothecary.com/kaolin-clay-rose/

In a blow up pool and it was so amazing. It's a pain to clean up and can't go down a drain. I have woods behind my house that I use to get rid of it but it will last and it can keep being used if you have a good place to set it up but over time it will get really cold. I use hot water when I make it so it's more pleasant. Make sure to wear a mask when mixing

Thank y'all for all the suggestions and information. I think I'm gonna go with the Bentonite/Kaolin mixture.

The more the conversation comes up the more excited she gets, so hopefully this will happen soon. I'll try and get a couple pics so that I can share the experience.

Just wanted to give everyone an update. It finally went down! The opportunity presented itself and the girlfriend and I took advantage.

I couldn't seem to find the Kaolin clay locally, so I used a two parts Bentonite to one part Redart clay. The result was amazing. It was a lot of work to get it all mixed up, but definitely worth it. Girlfriend was in for the adventure and after a few minutes of warming up, we were having a full wrestling session. Still would love to have her wrestle another girl, but I don't think it's out of the question. Any suggestions for help with that is welcome l, lol! For now I'll settle for more sessions with me.

Stay messy my friends!!

Exciting update! Thanks for posting this. I like the thick mixture. It gives me ideas hehe.

Awesome that you were able to mud wrestle your love one. My big advice would be to not put so much of your energy on wanting to mud wrestle 2 girls. Enjoy the present and how much of a gift you have been granted. Take it outside the mud wrestling world.. would you insist for a 3 some to your new girlfriend to be happy? Chill a bit it may or may not happen in the future, but at this time having a girl that is willing to mud wrestle you should be the holy grail in itself

Well I hadn't originally planned on it being that thick. We mixed everything up and got it ready in the afternoon. After that we went out for dinner and a few drinks. It really was exciting thinking about what we had in store when we got home. However, the clay continued soaking up the water while we were away, making it thicker than what we originally mixed. Lesson learned I suppose, but still was an amazing night

100% I couldn't agree more. So very thankful for having someone so open minded as willing to try new adventures with me.

This is also one of my favorite thing.. to be going out for food and drinks knowing what is waiting for us home. Most time she would be wearing the clothes that will be trashed.. the adrenaline during those drinks is something

Consistency looks beautiful!