I have been really in the mood for stuff where the act of sex is the secondary part. Know of anything out there along those lines?

Do you mean mainstream porn or wam porn? If you're interested in the mainstream stuff http://sssh.com has videos like that. It's a site marketed to women so they include more foreplay and actual story lines.

I was wondering mainstream or WAM too. I know the videos with Adam & me have a lot of foreplay

http://WAMFuckers.umd.net

I was thinking non-WAM but WAM would be doable as well. I figured WAM was a given, but I'm also looking for non-WAM.

Not sure if this is exactly what you are looking for, but I run a pair of sites dedicated to fingering, groping, and breast play.

messy: http://wamfinger.com

non-messy: http://fingerme.tv

There are a LOT of adult movies on YouTube of the less than hardcore variety. Since my weakness is for Asian ladies I search on the Japanese terms for "erotic" and "fuck" and filter the results by Duration = Long (>20 minutes). That search looks like this: https://www.youtube.com/results?filters=long&search_query=%E3%82%A8%E3%83%AD%E3%83%95%E3%82%A1%E3%83%83%E3%82%AF Click to one that's feature length (say an hour and twenty minutes) and there will be plenty more in the "Recommended" column to the right of the player. Of course YouTube is always taking these down but not fast enough to stem the tide Just as an example (which will surely disappear soon) that search brought up this amusing 1975 hippie love film called "Pickup" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mlBFQqme40w (IMDB listing here). Not quite what I was looking for, lol, but the Recommended column is an endless rabbit hole of not-too-graphic smut. When I want to try different search terms, Google Translate is my friend, both English to Japanese and Japanese to English.

Hope that does it for you!