Hello everyone. I hope you are all enjoying the holidays.
As 2024 comes to and end and 2025 is about to begin, I'm writing a "WAM" list of things. One is to step out of my comfort zone and have more in person sessions.
So, what are your 2025 plans?
Also producers, what content do you have planned for 2025.
My plans are packing up over the next couple months, moving about a thousand miles away, settling in to my new house, and getting to explore the area I'll be in.
I *know* there are rivers and water everywhere, and there's got to be mud, but... in my visits up there over the last couple decades or more, I didn't spend time exploring, so... I'm not sure where I'll find safe places to play in mud or streams.
I do know there happens to be my very own ocean nearby, and I'm gonna be spending some time there and there will be tidepool and surf pics, and maybe some salt marsh stuff, if I can figure out safe ways to approach that.
If I'm really lucky, I'll get some pics of great white sharks - they started moving in around when I left, so they could keep an eye on my ocean for me!
(And I'm not planning on getting them involved with the wamming, because that would probably end in tears for someone! Definitely over my threshold for safe conditions! )
Hopefully January will see a long planned session where my wife ties me up (possibly naked) and pies me repeatedly come to fruition. (It was supposed to happen in the autumn but as so often life got in the way!)
I was going to have a sequel to my Lottie maxi dress custom done, but money is going to be tight in the new year (girlfriend and I are moving into a house and rent is going up somewhat exponentially) so that might not be in the cards anymore (Rev, if you see this was going to email you tomorrow, apologies!).
My girlfriend got a new maxi dress for my birthday last year that ended up in the shower or the hotel room we were staying at after dinner, not sure if the hotel will be happening again but the new maxi dress most definitely will be.
In 2025 i hope to expand my messy (solo) experiences by exploring new substances, like syrup, oil, eggs and/or beans.
If i could find someone (female) to get wet and/or messy with that would be great, but i suppose that will remain a dream for entire 2025. Ah well, everybody needs dreams
ItsMessyJay said: Hello everyone. I hope you are all enjoying the holidays.
As 2024 comes to and end and 2025 is about to begin, I'm writing a "WAM" list of things. One is to step out of my comfort zone and have more in person sessions.
So, what are your 2025 plans?
Man... my WAM to do list is unfortunately based on my real life to do list...which is based on whether I keep this shitty salaried job or am able to find somewhere I can get paid OT.
WAM to do list Get my ass back to Kentucky Vegas 2025??? Hasn't been much talk on this, but May will be here sooner than later and I miss you guys!
Real life stuff in the way: Dad's living situation (possibly moving) Family and friends needing some help Possible surgery and recovery for myself
BUT... I'm going to try and stay positive and focus on what I CAN do rather than lament on all the things I want to do but can't.
1. Get the down payment for this surgery to get this cancerous tumor removed! That's first and foremost. 2. Continue to gain in my booty area and trim down my waist- 3. Brooklyn has been made my go to gal-as far as if you can't reach me or if you wanna do customs with her-so? I am very excited for that! 4. More pies! 5. More outfits! (And pg rated material or pg-13, ratedr) I have had a lot of people who think I don't do them anymore-and think I only do sexual stuff. Not true! I just so happened to start doing my own productions and they turned out sexual and Brooklyn and nikko both had a huge wam sexual awakening the last year or so- soit just came up that way! I love doing classic sliming-tit for tat pie fights- cute little outfits destroyed, etc. I would love to be able to do these kind of scenes as well this year 6. TAKE MORE CUSTOMS. I do looove doing customs. I have been really lucky to have some amazing custom people who have become great friends. While it is more work? The reward of creating something that is uniquely YOU but still their fantasy and they love it? Is a thrill I cannot describe! It is what started my store! Doing one custom and then? Doing my own scenes and customs and then creating a store! 7. Go back to tanners place early spring to play in black mud. 8. Bsmessybakery is coming this way this spring! 9. Once surgery is over and if the cancer has not spread? I will be checking into Cleveland clinic for 7 days for a total detox. Of all these meds and my body in general. It takes about 7 days fully. And I hope to get it done asap! WETLOOK WETLOOK WETLOOK! And male wetlook! I am going to try to find some males who would be interested in starting it back up! Putting some different clay in my homemade mud pit (Brooklyn also has suggested building a small deck around it- I will also be bringing in giant pools to have mud wrestling and other fun mud "games" outdoors! I am very excited about that! I could go on and on and on it makes my head spin! Bc this is just stuff pertaining to my work- even the health stuff. This isn't even my goals for my home, my spawn, and my life journey! Haha!
No real plans but I HOPE to see mud wrestling make a comeback this year. It was running on fumes for most of 2024 then it completely flatlined RIP around the summer and never came back. And when I say mud wrestling I mean mud WRESTLING! Two girls dunking each other's heads in a mud pit or splashing each other is not wrestling.
jaybee4769 said: And when I say mud wrestling I mean mud WRESTLING! Two girls dunking each other's heads in a mud pit or splashing each other is not wrestling.
Ohhhh ... Shots fired!
I spent a lot of money last year buying videos with deceitful/misleading (I'm trying to be nice calling them that) descriptions. There's a big difference between a gunge/sploshing video and a wrestling match
Honestly, I would love nothing more thank to finally make my dream come true of finally producing my own wetlook content. Real life keeps getting in the way as does my current living situation. I have loads of ideas that I would love to see brought to life. I'm hoping that this year will finally be the year. I also would like to maybe change my living situation but we'll see. Maybe more wetlook customs but I don't know it'll depend on money.
I need to clear some space at my house to film some slapstick stuff! That is a formidable challenge and organization is far from my strong suit.
Workforce-wise, I need to step up my side hustles until my youngest starts kindy full-time in the fall, then pitch myself headlong into full-time work. Still got 4 of 5 educations to swing, one way or another.
I already knocked one item off the list today; the Pgh Polar Plunge! Sorry the hair isn't wet, I had the best of intentions but it was 35 degrees and the water was 38 and I helped retrieve a fellow plunger's flip-flop before it got swept down the Mon River. Then it was time to run shrieking out of the river and reevaluate all my life choices.
writingismylife said: I need to clear some space at my house to film some slapstick stuff! That is a formidable challenge and organization is far from my strong suit.
Workforce-wise, I need to step up my side hustles until my youngest starts kindy full-time in the fall, then pitch myself headlong into full-time work. Still got 4 of 5 educations to swing, one way or another.
I already knocked one item off the list today; the Pgh Polar Plunge! Sorry the hair isn't wet, I had the best of intentions but it was 35 degrees and the water was 38 and I helped retrieve a fellow plunger's flip-flop before it got swept down the Mon River. Then it was time to run shrieking out of the river and reevaluate all my life choices.
Thanks, but actually *she* was the far more impressive party. I'm guessing she was in her early 60s. I legit felt bad when I pointed out that she'd lost a sandal and then she fell trying to catch it; I helped catch her up and then had a perfectly good excuse to half-drown myself retrieving it!
Other plans:
- I'd love to be a movie extra; there's a lot of filmmaking taking place in my area.
I hope this year that i can get properly trashed with tons of mess. Have seen so many videos and looks amazing compaired to the small solo messes iv had.
Sadly, it seems we had what I will call 'The Great Consolidation Event' locally. Several years ago we had some pretty severe drought and it exposed a LOT of EPIC lake bottom mud. Super smooth, creamy, warm and nearly bottomless! What an amazing year!
But...the lake bottoms sat exposed through the winter and really dried out. Then the rains came and filled everything back up. In all the dry spells we've had since, the only mud exposed is that previously dried/sun baked mud which has sort of solidified / consolidated into a 'mud stone'... mud only a few inches deep and a fairly solid clay layer under that.
So definitely resolving to get out and try mud in different regions and get back in some of that bottomless clay!
Last year I produced three scripted slime scenes on my YouTube channel, up from two in '23 and one in '22, so my goal this year is to produce at least four! Gotta keep that upwards trend alive.
Also, this year I'd love to find a way to experiment with motion capture for at least one of my videos, but how I'm going to pull that off remains to be seen.
I'd love to have the guts to open a store and try to sell the stuff I've shot. But it's very amateurish and I don't think it'd even sell. I can barely get likes on free stuff
I'm still hoping for a session with someone in the future, but not really holding out much hope for that.
More slime sessions for me and my hair while I have it, might try some different recipes, haven't added oatmeal to cake mix yet...maybe another hair dunk with slime a little less thick...I'd love to do a bucket of Chocolate syrup, but that'd be pricey as hell...
Hopefully keeping my hair. I dunno if I'm losing a normal amount of hair or more than usual, but there's always a tiny clump after I wash, another clump after I blow dry...and it seems like I get single strands every time I run my fingers through my hair...
Would like to get a second tripod/lighting. Figure all that out how to best light while filming. Probably would help if I had better cameras too. I'm using a cheap weird foreign brand camcorder that's supposedly 4k from Amazon, sometimes it shoots good, sometimes it shoots bad. I also have a tiny Kodak digital camera that seems like it takes better footage...I've yet to try filming with my smart phone, it's a google pixel 7 (my first smart phone). It takes good pictures, so I imagine it films well, but I gotta turn that cloud storage stuff off for WAM
Non WAM wise, I gotta make it through what is no doubt going to be a shitty year at work.
Looking forward to summer for comic con season. I did 3 days at a con last year, and was able to get a lot of art in my sketch books, I plan on doing that again this year, even if I have to call out of work for it because they put it on the same weekend as a week that my boss takes off every year for work...also looking forward to fall for the annual trip to Universal for Halloween Horror Nights, and this year we'll have a whole new park to go to with Epic Universe opening up.
My messy plans include my new gunge tank, I am super super excited for that to be finished very soon. And also I am absolutely buzzing for my USA trips to get messy in Las Vegas at the end of Jan and the also I am taking a trip back to America in March and getting messy with the gorgeous Brattyshortcakes and the messy Queen herself Jayce, I am beyond excited ahhhhhhhh! I can't wait to enjoy getting messy with more people this year too
I wish you all an incredible 2025 and a happy and messy year for us all x
I have a few Plans for 2025 mess wise lie getting to more messy event and maybe make some messy content to start with and some of plans if money permits
bsmessybakery said: My messy plans include my new gunge tank, I am super super excited for that to be finished very soon. And also I am absolutely buzzing for my USA trips to get messy in Las Vegas at the end of Jan and the also I am taking a trip back to America in March and getting messy with the gorgeous Brattyshortcakes and the messy Queen herself Jayce, I am beyond excited ahhhhhhhh! I can't wait to enjoy getting messy with more people this year too
I wish you all an incredible 2025 and a happy and messy year for us all x