I love that you wear overalls a lot. Is there a story behind them? Are they a fetish for you, either clean or messy? And do you feel a different sensation being messed in them?
You are familiar with the thought experiment 'The Ship of Theseus' in the field of identity metaphysics?
The Ship of Theseus is an artifact in the museum. Over time, its planks of wood rot and are replaced with new planks. When no original plank remains, is it still the ship of Theseus?
If those removed planks are restored and reassembled free of the rot, is that the Ship of Theseus?
caramba said: What should anyone do if they recognize you in an everyday context?
Let her go on about her business. It's probably best not to discuss messy fetish videos while she's getting her morning coffee.
I guessed that, I wasn't expecting e.g. if you're holding a pie then smoosh it in her face. I was thinking more whether you should keep schtum entirely or mention it in private so if Lilly finds out later she does not think you were stalking or whatever.