Try "SEXUAL VARIATIONS: FETISHISM, TRANSVESTISM & SADO-MASOCHISM" by Gosselin & Wilson (1981).

I chatted with Chris Gosselin, and asked about the gender imbalance of kinksters.
He said that, to briefly pris years of research, he found "98% of men are kinky, the other 2% are liars. 2% of women are kinky, the other 98% are liars".
I believe those percentages may be changing with different social expectations of women, and the advent of the internet, but there's a long way to go.

1981 ?!? That was 40 years ago! Before the internet! So much have changed in regards to sexuality and open-mindedness to sex-related topics since then.
Also, I suspect all studies conducted back then were relying on a direct contact with the questioned, dealing with potential reluctance of people to (even when being anonymous) speak about certain "taboo" topics.

Now, people are not at all afraid to search the internet for all their sexual fetishes and fantasies. By monitoring the web traffic, we can thus get much more precise picture.

Some girls think filthy, and have dirty secrets and thoughts all of their own.
Some girls do filthy, pervy things for a living or money.
Some girls participate in pervy, filthy things for the love of their husband or partner.
Some girls do some or all of the above. Everyone is different.

Girls don't tend to be into porn as much as guys, but some do like it .
My favourite way to chill out in bed at night is my fingers having a wander as I watch Sex and Submission trailers on Eroprofile.

My number one love is bondage and submission. I met Steve, and on our very first date, we decided to come clean (no pun intended) about our pervy likes.

I told him that I liked the thought of being abducted from work, tied up and taken somewhere secluded and .... well, non consensually interfered with
He told me all about his love of all things messy.

So, we mixed the two. I love seeing him excited as I am tied up waiting to be gunged. I am excited as I am helpless and have to take whatever is given to me.

Sometimes he will spend an afternoon tying me up in all directions and making me cum over and over. No gunge at all.
Other times, I may spontaneously kneel on the kitchen floor and suck him off as he pours custard over my head. No sexual gain in that for me, I just like doing it.

The only difference I think between us is that I can perform sexual acts for him without particularly worrying whether I get off. Steve however always cums whatever we are doing.

Give
and
Take

Far too many people over-thinking it all.

Tara xx

Just doing a quick count off the top of my head, I have 8 other female friends on here that jerk off to slime stuff, 14 female friends on insta that love to see other girls getting slopped, 17 on fetlife, and 9 on reddit. And that doesn't even count the ones in real life that I've introduced this kink to that embraced it.

And that's just slime stuff. If we opened that up to kinks/fetishes in general, the number is in the 100's.

Most of us are pervs just like dudes are. We just choose to be a little more private about it because for some idiots, they think the mere mention of anything sexual is an invitation for a message. It isn't. Just like when you post about something you like on here, it isn't an invitation for a message.

My fetish is the kind of nice, outwardly respectable, girl you could take home to meet mum and dad, you know, works in something like a bank or insurance office, and is a bit quiet, but very attractive.

Underneath the outward veneer of being a bit prim, she is filthy and pervy!

One of my two wam partners, Anne, was this to a tee. Nice and quiet when we were in the office together (we met at work) at her flat afterwards, she was up for pretty much anything, memories of her in a tiny maids uniform, tied up, and being pelted with pie after pie, and loving it

After being around for a long time in this world and living through VHS mail order and Splosh magazines plus all this before the internet opened up the world!. Then like many on here I have seen a lot of changes. Having several long term relationships before i got married in my experience women are very sexual but it was historically discouraged. Especially in the UK... Some of the old stigma's have taken decades to change(prim&proper/clean&tidy etc). Before I got married I had lot's of wam experiences with women all except one found it fun, some sexy especially chocolate/sweet etc. None I know of ever converted or ever said it was there kink. In my opinion it was almost as if they would never of imagined or dared try anything like that. It was just how was. My wife/partner of 20 yrs enjoys some aspects especially sweet and tolerates others mainly mud.(life is give and take) The internet has changed the world beyond recognition and made things far more equal in the kink world in my opinion, as its also a lot more private. Unfortunately this has also created a virtual world where real life and kink/fantasy is blurred and creates some first class d*icks online. I think that puts Female's off this environment or means they are more likely to lurk. I wish one and all happy and healthy mess! Stroll on mud season!! Enjoy!

I can only imagine some of the messages you get.

I agree with Messy Charlotte. A pervy conversation works best if you gradually get into it, and start by talking about something everyday, like the weather or whatever.

Also, I think sex and sexual relationship s are more erotic and exciting when there are feelings involved for the partner, genuine affection combined with raw naked lust is as good as it gets

My point is that counting them, essentially, one by one doesn't tell you how much of them are there in general. Whether the m/f ratio is 50/50 or whether it is 99/1 and you just live around that 1%.
Studies I've read suggest that the numbers of males and females with fetishes are roughly similar (males being in slight numerical advantage. The difference was small though, and might be caused by factors other than just pure interest). That was, however, estimated for all fetishes in general, and since some fetishes are well known to be predominantly male/female, so it's unclear how this number projects to WaM.





True. In that case, however, you would hide your interests from other people, but not from yourself, i.e. it shouldn't influence your browsing habits as long as you stay anonymous.

I can 100% tell you we've had threads about that here too. I'm just too lazy to go looking for them.

YOU DIRTY GIRL
OH That's what we like about you!

According to Google, we are 45% female. https://umd.net/about_us#site_stats I really don't know how they'd infer that but it's the best metric we have.

MM

I've been with a number of females into wam and swimming throughout life since high school and we've had a blissful time, so nearly 20 years now. It was a high school partner of mischief who was on here and introduced me to UMD in the early 2000's and I just lurked around. And another I met at Ozzfest.

Had a few who were instantly turned on when hinted (but certainly not all), swimming clothed is the most common type (Tank tops or Tee's n shorts her, Tee's n shorts for me), but some are into sploshing and more including gunging, mud, tub slime messes, ect. I could literally write a book about this now.

A good number of ladies are into it but most just don't throw it out there, I became baffled how common this can be, many just hold it secrete or haven't figured it out yet.

And for the record, all I've met were in real life, none online.

I'm just... gonna put this here again since it looks like people largely missed it. TLDR: YouTube stats support the idea that WAM is 50/50 or slightly more female than male.