To concur with Guess7:

"Your can put in more physical effort and endure more stress time after time if it's for a project you love. "

If what was once a thrill (and even a life-long obsession) becomes a chore, and the sense of dread (form doing another shoot) out-weighs the sense of pleasure one gets from viewing the results...Then, it is time to stop, re-assess, figure out what you really want....and move on (even if you made some decent money -- making money is never a good reason to continue doing what you no longer enjoy)...

Oh, and models will say nearly anything to get a paying gig (if its within their "range")...spotting in advance who will turn out to be a Diva on set is extremely difficult....If you are hiring from an advert or website, always test your models (i.e., find a way to get them to be candid and honest about their feelings for a particular shoot).

Dont use tomato soup, at least the cheap stuff, it dyed my skin for days and cake batter fucks the eyes for a while its like having having hay fever with lashes stickiing together and red eys

WAM has taught me that there is just an insane variety of sexual interests. Even among us, think about the huge variety of WAMmers! People like pies, slime, mud, food, wetlook, etc...some like to get messy themselves, while others like to see someone else messed. Some folks on here like to chat about it, others want to meet up, and others want to just privately observe. Some like wearing costumes, others like being naked, and others (like me) enjoy getting messy in a good sexy pair of undies. It makes me wonder about all the people you casually know in life...what are their sexual interests? How many people in your life are into WAM, and you don't know it?

Let's see..what else. Oh yeah, try and keep your mud pits close to lakes or rivers, so you don't end up walking naked covered in mud for miles to the nearest place to get clean.

I can't speak for all, but in the case of my wife and I, less is really more. Moderation keeps her a happy wammer. Usually that means 4 large cups of pudding or two good pies and she's done.

1 (Purely Pragmatic): This fetish has made me fantastic at taking quality showers.

The only way to know what spots you're missing when you shower is to be completely messy and to then proceed to miss those spots and be sticky later on.

You only need to learn this lesson once.

2: Having a unique fetish has made me a lot more open to non-traditional sexual ideas as well as some of the more unique ways that people express themselves.

3: The large majority of people here are thoughtful and levelheaded. Over the past year, I've had the privilege to participate in a number of fascinating discussions about the ethical and practical concerns of the fetish. I've also had the opportunity to get a little insight about the trials and tribulations of running a small business in a niche market.

It's nice to know that having a strange sexual fetish doesn't make you a strange person.

4: There is a small minority of people who are actually nuts.

oh also unplug blenders/ or cake mixers if you are not using them, and put the lid on before moving as ive moved both pluged in and have had explosions of cream all over the place.

Don't hold back on your desire, if it sounds good do it, it may not always hit the desired spot but when it does.....

I know I've learned that no matter how many times I tell myself, "This is so much work and this is all so expensive, this is DEFINITELY the last time..."

I've learned a lot of lessons of trust and discretion with wamming. Thankfully almost all of the messy guys I've met have been very trustworthy and respectful of discretion, but I've heard them tell a few horror stories of people blabbing, using substances they didn't want or taking things further than they wanted (e.g. coming on to them when they just wanted to be gunged/pied)

Other things learned include remember to check bathroom plugholes before sessions, being careful how you slam a pie in someone's face so you don't hurt their nose, and that shaving foam doesn't taste nice

I have learned that with Shave cream that warming the cans in hot water makes them spray stronger and faster, having a good setup makes cleanup easier. Stay away from the dollar store brands, Barbasol is the best for Shave foam WAM, it has the strongest foam and lasts the longest.