Does anyone know any good ways to meet people with a wam fetish? I don't even know where to begin to try but if anyone has any advice or help at all I'd really appreciate it.

if you mean women, it's virtually impossible, they are super rare unicorns, and somebody snatched them up already, and there were never many to start with. Think of how hard it is to just meet a girl on a dating app without this criteria. The holy grail will be an easier find.

Best bet is to find a sweet lady who is really into you and introduce her to it. Often times women will get into a kink because of how it effects her partner, at least in my experience. No guarantees, but a better plan than looking for someone who doesn't exist.

Good advice. My ex girlfriend, wasn't really into wam, but I gradually gently introduced it, started with baby oil and shaving foam, and she found out that she liked it

This is exactly what happened to me. However, I knew her for a very long time before we dated and the kink was brought up.

If a girl likes cum on her face she is probably also down to get messy. In all my past relationships every girl has been down if not excited once discussed. Just dont bring it up first time hanging out or w.e... they got shit they probably want to share with you to. Explore and grow together.

Great advice, that also goes the other way too. I've slimed almost every girl I've ever dated, and been slimed by most of the boys I've dated. None of them were into this kink beforehand. Many of them have been after.

My current boyfriend grew up watching Nickelodeon and even YCDTOTV, but he never felt anything sexual about it or slime. Now he practically gets boners when I say "I don't know" His perspective on the kink went from being; "it's something interesting that my partner is into", to being "it's something that turns me on because of how it turns my partner on".

That's the key in my opinion. Letting the other person understand why/how it turns you on, so that they can enjoy it with you, versus just for you.

Don't think about it like some embarrassing weird sexual deviance you need to share with your partner, so that hopefully maybe they'll indulge you in it. Think about it like a unique way of making cookies, that allows you to enjoy them more than most people enjoy cookies. And now you get to share this special unique thing with someone that you care about, so that they can enjoy and appreciate these unique cookies too. Or at least appreciate and enjoy how much YOU enjoy them (even if the cookies themselves aren't that special to them).

I was hoping you would weigh in on this. Everything you said there was on point.

Communication is key, and expressing to someone what you like and listening to what they are open too is a must. This is honestly the best place for this. Fet-life unfortunately has some very bad elitist A-holes who feel it is there job to make sure that only the kinks that they like are shared. I was on there pre pandemic and attended many local munches and events trying to meet people but was told I should "self Play". It is there way of saying Piss off. I don't bother posting on there any more. You are better off meeting someone and introing them to the Wet and messy, see what they like and dislike.

Wow I did not expect this much feedback/advice. Thank you all, it was all extremely helpful. And i'm still laughing at the "holy grail" post lol

Make a left at Fresno and follow the giant neon sign that says "SLIME." Then, take the San Bernadino freeway til you get to the Slawson cutoff....then get out of your car and cut off your Slawson.

Happy I could help.

Depending on what you get out of wam, there are a number of compatible kinks that are more common. If you like being humiliated with mess, find yourself a dom. If you like seeing other people humiliated with mess, or you just like the sensation, find yourself a sub and they will probably enjoy being teased with slime or whatever. Or find someone who is into age play and have a food fight or mock gameshow. Get creative and it will greatly expand your dating pool.

In addition to what others have said, this is a good start.

https://umd.net/groups/group/meetups

All of this, above, exactly!

I pied/got pied by nearly every woman I've dated since college (with a few exceptions), for the reasons mentioned above. In some cases, they'd mention their kinks that were important to them before I had a chance to mention mine. And I didn't look for a woman with a pie fetish; I looked for someone I wanted to (wait for it) - date and have a great relationship with. Everything else fell under that umbrella, including kink.

And, same. In some cases they didn't have a pie in the face kink before our relationship, and left with a pie in the face kink by the end of it.

Here's the other side of the coin: with the women who had their own kinks that intrinsically did nothing for me; in context with them I became very into it because of the way it made her feel; I got great joy and pleasure out of making her feel amazing! So imagine that, but with the roles reversed. A shared erotic experience, over time, should become mutually erotic for both of you. (If not, it may just not be one that works out for you, and that's OK too).

All that said, YES it was possible but very very rare to meet and connect with a fellow wammer. Might as will hope to win the lottery; not that women with a pie kink are unicorns (they're not) but that the odds of meeting anyone compatible, in a sea of people, is small. And, also, you may share a kink but be incompatible in every other way. Meeting a fellow (and female) wammer has happened to me, but crazy rare, and had it's own set of social mazes to negotiate.

(I also did meet pie-fetishists through my writing, via fetlife and other websites, which is an outlier of an experience. Your mileage may vary, and I wouldn't count on it.)

What everyone commented so far is an point one thing I can say is I Tend to do wam things a lot as a hobby like swimming in water just for the sake of it. Or bike riding in the mud just because it's fun. With my first girlfriend I had a food fight to see how she would handle it and it turned out pretty well.

i see lots of great advice already and i agree with all of it... except the "they don't exist and you won't meet them" post!

also, consider getting to know your local fetish/kink community! you can search the name of your town, province, or area on Fetlife and you may find a group, or several groups. events could include sexy play parties, or just a "munch" which is meeting up for drinks and appetizers at a restaurant. DON'T think of this as a means to an end of finding your messy partner though! It's not super likely there are tons of wammers in your local scene AND that you will click with them. And anyway it's not good to think about people you meet just as potential play partners. It's more like, a chance to have good positive conversations about kink and consent, in a space that's accepting and positive. Or just to make new friends! You'll meet people who have gotten used to sharing THEIR kinks with their partners, and you'll be exposed to interesting ways of thinking about this stuff. It can be really nice. You'll probably meet some people you don't click with at all, like any other event. You might meet people you share NON-sexy interests with. Think of it like joining a book club.

and if on the off chance you meet someone who acts like WAM is weird or dumb or doesn't "count" kink-wise, or that you have to be into some other kinks or know certain vocabulary to be cool.. they're lame!