How does everyone feel about getting into WAM with family?

Does your family know?

How do you bring up the topic?


I ask because I recently shot two siblings Codie and Caleb and have wondered just how far one can push this sort of relationship in a kinky WAM setting.

Is thiss too much.

My parents are since passed and my two brothers do not know anything about me having a wam fetish. Nor would I ever tell them! I think my dad knew I had an interest in it when he was alivet. He knew I rented (that's back in the day) and watched videos that showed girls getting wet and messy at Spring Break, mud wrestling videos and the Playboy Playmate Playoffs but he never confronted me about it.

I think for many people the purpose of seeing the downloads is to masturbate to what you're seeing, so for me if I am aware of the fact that people I'm seeing are siblings or playing siblings, that makes it a non sexual situation and not something to jerk off to, so I wouldn't be a buyer.

I also haven't told my parents about my customs.

I have tried to figure out a way to bring up the idea of being a model to some cute friends but haven't found an organic way to bring it up.

I'd be distraught talking to my parents about it, like anything sexual I guess!

I've never told any of my family about it - closest I came was during a game of truth or dare with my sister where fetishes came up but I somehow dodged it.

I think for most people, wam is a very personal preference, usually a sexual preference. Would most people talk with family members about sexual fetishes? Probably not. What if I had a sister who loved to play in mud? Would I tell her I like that? No, it would be too weird. I've seen videos advertised with sisters or a mother-daughter team getting messy, but I still think it's too weird. The only exception might be if it were a non-fetish event, such as a muddy tug or war or obstacle course. But that would be innocent fun, not the kink we call WAM. Great question, btw.

My family don know shit!

My dad is aware I'm a WAM producer. He was confused at first but accepting. Then he saw me on TV for it a couple of times... He was like "as long as you're having fun."

Yeah ima have to draw the line riiiight there. It's a fetish not a dinner table discussion lmao

I think some of my family knows what I am into. Though what really sucks is when the family come into town and your fetish model neighbor has her fetish model friend in town for the weekend.

when I have die at the reading of my will at a lawyers office, and there will be a super serious lawyer guy and they will be like "Scroggle instructed me to play this recording upon his death" and all the grandkids will be all eager. And then it will just be me dressed as a clown doing human garbage disposal on their grandma followed by a message that my estate will go into an endowment to make more customs for my shade to watch from the afterlife.

Zero!

I never said for them I like pie in the face, imagine talking about WAM.

WAM is sexual to me. I could never do a sexual shoot with my sister, like the siblings above. Even typing that out felt wrong to me lol.

What? NO... WAMming with family is the like having sex with them.... ew...

But, a WAM model and her sister... sure yeah go for it!!!

It's actually a conspiracy theory with my family. They all know that I am a crossdresser and that I have dabbled in BDSM, but they all guess about what else I like.

My cousin was super close but in the end got it wrong.

She guessed I like wet look but when I asked her to elaborate she said the fabric not the 'W' in WAM.

I do wonder if there is a betting pool?

Would I engage in WAM with my siblings? No. Friends maybe but not family. Family unit isn't that open.

Wam with my family? No, no interest what so ever.

But siblings shooting wam together, entirely up to them. We've had a couple of sisters appear on here now and again. I suspect you might find some double standards with people enjoying 2 sisters, but not a sister and a brother.

I'd certainly like to see the sister getting some savoury mess.

All I know is you should definitely ask Codie to shoot with you. She is wonderful!

Keep in mind that disclosure can be a 2-way street...unless y'all want to know whether mom likes to hit it from the back or not.

Personally, my biz is my biz. It wouldnt surprise me at all if it's a genetically inherited kink, but it's not something I need/want to know.

I'm so glad your family is supportive.

My family doesn't know and I don't mind keeping it that way, as for the video I guess it depends on the context , in the picture it looks almost like shes teasing him not in a sexual way more like she's trying to gross him out being that they are brother sister.

There are some members of this forum whose other halves know that they're into the fetish - MG & Mr MG, Lisa & Leon...

you werent around for jayce and jilly. i started here with my sister. we didnt do anything sexual TOGETHER. but my store was "jayce and jillys house of mess" you can still catch some of our stuff in my store.

we grew up insanely poor. me, her and my mom so being nude around eachother has never been a THING. now....i was never around when she shot more erotic stuff nor did i watch it. it went up in the store herself. i put my own stuff up. we did more fun, sisters trashing eachother, slapstick silly stuff. just having fun.

we were very close. i even have a pic somewhere of me helping her put on her ring gag for her own fun. dressed. i have some classic stuff that helps me remember my sister how she WAS i thinks its just about not getting TOOOOOO out there. if they wanna go further let them film themselves or a sig other film them. bc believe me.....we got called teh "finger bang twins" jesus christ.....we literally never did anything to eachother. i smacked her tits with pies. and we did titty twisters adn shit fighting....but lets get real....we did that OFF CAMERA.

i dont find this strange at all bc its boobs.


i understand that some people ONLY see wam as sexual and thats okay. with my sister wam was FUN. it was like a switch flipped. it was not sexual it was crazy fun. did it feel good? yep. did i wanna dildo myself?? nope. shes there. if she would have left? yeah sure maybe i would have went there in my brain but nope.

this was a video based on my sister deciding to be a nudist and grossing us out...(we all were real life friends) so after lots of bending over, displays as such below, her just breezing past us with her bush and boobs in our face.....we taped her naked as down and covered her in mess. probably one of my fave vids we have done as far as the banter and the idea. the outfits and the mess. fave ones done as a sibling pair. one of the last ones i have. pray for jilly please!

I guess there are two separate questions here:

1. Is it OK for siblings to take part in a commercial WAM video shoot where it's known the intended audience will wank to it.

2. Do forum members let any part of their families know about their WAM fetish?

Taking q2 first, in my case everyone close to me knows about WAM including my mum when she was still alive. Nowadays all my friends know, as do my work colleagues. Not necessarily in great detail but all know that I am both into, and make money from, videos of women covered in slop, and that I like women in overalls. Of course no problem with my partner knowing all about it as she was my first ever model, she also has no problem with me watching videos of other girls, she'll even help me pick out clothes to buy for the other models to get gunged in.

As to q1, I think as long as the siblings aren't doing sexual stuff to each other then there's no problem in it. I'd probably suggest that while topless is OK bottomless probably isn't in that scenario, but no reason they can't throw stuff over each other, smack each other with pies, fill each other's clothes, etc - basically anything slapstic or comedic, where there is no suggestion of anything sexual between the participants.

There are very strong cultural taboos against incest and for very good biological reasons, but an audience member getting off on watching two people who happen to be siblings throwing slosh over each other is different from either sibling visibly getting off on doing it to the other.

My brother pretty much knows cos he goes out with me and my friends and all my friend know and we have a laugh with it. Knowing my fucking mother she probably knows (mams know everything I'm sure) but to actually discuss it sounds like a circle of hell. It would just be awkward like, and I can't even bare to think about what the fuck my dad would say. Bless him but the lads got the emotional intelligence of a brick wall

my family and every friend i have knows about what i do. my neighbors do too....lol. that arent my friends. haha. as you can see in a lot of my recent vids. There is no shame around here. life is too fucking short to spend it concerned with the opinions of sheep. my family thinks that me doing this and displaying myself is not helpful for the body disorder i have....but actually it IS helpful bc you all have accepted me here, warts and all. BUT, my family IS supportive of the fact i run a business and have continued to. They just say they want me happy. hell, my MOM shot one of my videos in my store!!! its an older one where i am changing the oil in a truck. that was my step dads truck! i needed the help and she was very cool about filming, hosing me down and all of that! my step dad stayed inside. we arent THAT gross here in kentucky. hahaha. but yeah, my fam is cool. They worry sometimes, of course. just bc i fight body dysmorphia in daily life....but when im wamming?? all that kinda melts away bc the community here is so awesome. make a girl feel amazing.

anyway, YES. i dont keep it from anyone bc it honestly makes life harder for me.
and i see no issues having FUN with your siblings! hell, i did it for 3 years! we made some classic scenes we had a BLAST doing!!!

That's rad as hell.

I'm working on my current set off roommates to warm up to the idea of making vids, but my last set were all game.

It's a world of difference when you can be forward and open about this stuff.

In my personal living, My family does not know that I love mess, I guess they suspect, once my sister found in my laptop a folder with photos of Mostwam, I don't know if she saw the muddy part, also in a family trip we walked in forest and I was specially happy with the fact of a muddy path, I was really trying to convince them to go in that direction with the bike, My plan was to "fall from bicicle into the mud", I guess my father suspected something since I was driving really bad the bike in the mud... anyway, I haven't told almost to anyone about this, and I am pretty sure that I will never do it, at least with my family, only a friend of mine knows it (and took a clothed bath with me), but I am sure that this will be my dirty secret forever, I don't know how my family would take it, and how I would confess to them, in my country there's not even a word to wam, not a single way to describe it even.

No. Friends from the kink community know, but "vanilla" friends and family, no.

But Alana, "Stepsibling" is one of the more popular and well-served categories search term in regular pron. So you are going for an overlap of two unrelated fetishes. Some will squick and skip, and for a few it'll be exactly what they've been waiting for.