Random question but feel it's worth addressing. Am I the only one on here who is only interested in the fun and messy side of WAM and not the sexual side? I do understand there's a big sexual, fetishistic side of getting messy and that's the reason most people are here, but I am genuinely only interested in meeting other guys just to get messy and not for any sexual encounters. I just wondered if there is anyone else here that feels the same.
I'm lucky that everyone I have met from here or other messy communities understands my feeling and every session I've had with them has just been us getting messy and there's been no sex involved at all, but I still sometimes feel that there will be some out there who don't understand that.
So, is it just me or is there anyone else on here just interested in WAM just for the sake of getting messy ?
It is totally dependent upon the other person/people I'm meeting. I can take or leave the sexual side of it. I have met you, we have gotten trashed, but not once did we ever cross that line! It's all about trust with who you're meeting. Thankfully there has only ever been one incident a long time ago where a guy I met thought he'd try his luck where we hadn't discussed it. Let's say I think that those who I've met and had sexual gratification with it's been consensual and only based upon the mess we have made and situation.