YEA...
So, 'Hi i'm blah, female.... blah blah, would love to chat messy blah'

Didn't really engage at all, as I knew that as sure as poo is brown, that it was another time waster fake.
I was just sitting here waiting for them to either get highlighted in the forum as a fake, or simply disappear.

Well, it was the second one by the looks.

Who are these retarded folk with nothing better to do than sit at home (probably cock in hand) pretending to be women.

I would never waste my time in here every actually putting time into chatting with anyone who approaches me like that..... they are NEVER real

ah, welcome to the internet....

Just don't get it.

If it is the one I am thinking of and chatted to a little bit, they have already gone from fetlife as well.

They did say they their inbox was basically inundated so could be a case of too much unwanted attention? No proof they were a faker or a time waster, could just have noped out.

Different one I think.... they have a new account with some old spam about the old one disappeared for no apparent reason.

Fetlife Now that place is full of timewasters....

When they simply disappear, that's likely us kicking them off thanks to flags from the community. Any website open to the general public is going to get all kinds of people signing up, but you actually have power and a voice here. Please flag anyone you feel is suspicious and we'll take care of it. And please don't call people retarded here.

Ah different person then. This was a new lady (splatgirl) who blazed onto the scene, responded to everything and has vanished in less than a month (or maybe she blocked me for having poor music taste).

Fetlife has more folks on it so may seem like more wasters, but probably the same amount. I have met loads of nice folks on there and way more IRL than from here.

That's the second time she's done that, and I can actually believe it's for inundation / feeling intimidated feelings - I interacted with her briefly on twitter during her first time on last year, and I think she did genuinely go down and shoot a scene with Messyworld during that time (which isn't out yet, but they have always shot things extremely far in advance of release)

Without knowing the person involved, I can believe that - it's the reason my better half has taken a bit of a step back here I don't get quite the same level of attention

Very sorry to hear that, although I have to admit I sort of guessed that was the reason. A real shame, a loss to us all I'd say.

OK.. I have to tread carefully here....

But what do these women expect? Clearly a low level presence of females in here, so if you come in all guns blazing saying you want to meet up and have sticky, messy fun.... you are going to get inundated with messages.

If men actively hunt these women down in the members list and start bothering them, then no... not on.
But this person contacted me.

Anyway, I knew is was too good to be true, so as I said... I didn't really engage and I am glad I didn't waste too much time on it.