Why should I have to put my picture up to prove to you chumps who I am? At no point have I shouted look at me, look at my picture.
I altered my profile pic (not like an album of 100 pics or anything) for exactly the reason that I DON'T want my picture in here

It's not the Lucy show. Its the sad, 'think they are right', anti women thread (as this place CLEARLY is) crap.
You have ZERO proof of who I am. I entirely get the sentiment about fake profiles and being strung along.

But who made you sheriff.
So, all I can do is shut up and stay in the background. Delete my account... 'Oh, that proves it was a bloke', say anything in my defence 'Oh, he/she's constantly defending him/herself'. Fucked if I do, fucked if I don't.

Simple.... make EVERY person who opens an account on here have to upload a passport or driving licence and that image becomes the avatar.
Problem solved.

I think the back and forth arguing between people saying Lucy doesn't need to post because no one cares and Lucy saying why should I have to post a picture here. It seems like the two parties agree. Lucy, you can continue to share no pictures and the rest of the guys will not care.

That's funny. I thought your profile pic was AI that was 90% based on you. Like you were advised to do via some DMs. So we should already know what you look like, right?

And I remember the full photo and the personals thread, which was about as 'look at me' as you can imagine. The teasing "I'm worried the black bar does little to hide my identity" that implied the photo is your true likeness. So which is it, do you look like your profile picture or don't you?

There's nothing wrong with having a fake photo. There's plenty wrong with pretending that photo is what you actually look like while you're trying to meet someone via the personals forum.

Can you see why someone would think this looks suss?

Several people have had money taken by other scammers and you've just insulted them by calling them "anti woman". Is the woman who started this thread anti woman? Are the other women who've posted here anti woman?

We're not anti woman, we're anti scammer. And I don't care who you are as long as you're not scamming people. Don't care if you delete your profile, or continue to lurk, or just come clean and start posting like a normal person. For someone who doesn't care, you seem to care quite a lot.