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"Getting Ready to Get Messy"
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My messy partner and I have a difference of opinion when it comes getting ready to get messy. I have always been turned on when a woman gets messy who has taken the time to do her hair and a full face of makeup, along with a nice outfit. For me, I think it has something to do with a sense of realism, where it seems like the mess is unexpected in a real world setting.
Our wam sessions are all planned, but my partner much prefers to get messy "as is." She doesn't want to take extra time getting ready when she knows it's all "going to waste" with a pie right square in the face. For me, I love when she is wiping the pie from her eyes and I can see the eye makeup still in tact and the mascara starting to break down.
I know we all have variations on what gets us going within the messy fetish, but I would appreciate hearing other people's perspective on the personal preparation before getting messy.
Our wam sessions are all planned, but my partner much prefers to get messy "as is." She doesn't want to take extra time getting ready when she knows it's all "going to waste" with a pie right square in the face. For me, I love when she is wiping the pie from her eyes and I can see the eye makeup still in tact and the mascara starting to break down.
I know we all have variations on what gets us going within the messy fetish, but I would appreciate hearing other people's perspective on the personal preparation before getting messy.
pieplanet said: My messy partner and I have a difference of opinion when it comes getting ready to get messy. I have always been turned on when a woman gets messy who has taken the time to do her hair and a full face of makeup, along with a nice outfit. For me, I think it has something to do with a sense of realism, where it seems like the mess is unexpected in a real world setting.
Our wam sessions are all planned, but my partner much prefers to get messy "as is." She doesn't want to take extra time getting ready when she knows it's all "going to waste" with a pie right square in the face. For me, I love when she is wiping the pie from her eyes and I can see the eye makeup still in tact and the mascara starting to break down.
I know we all have variations on what gets us going within the messy fetish, but I would appreciate hearing other people's perspective on the personal preparation before getting messy.
Our wam sessions are all planned, but my partner much prefers to get messy "as is." She doesn't want to take extra time getting ready when she knows it's all "going to waste" with a pie right square in the face. For me, I love when she is wiping the pie from her eyes and I can see the eye makeup still in tact and the mascara starting to break down.
I know we all have variations on what gets us going within the messy fetish, but I would appreciate hearing other people's perspective on the personal preparation before getting messy.
I always say hair and makeup if it's for a video, and it doesn't matter when it's just me and another person and it's not being recorded.
Maybe get your messy setup ready first then take her out for a nice date?
She'll get all made up and dress well. You two can have a nice dinner and drink, then go home for a nice pie in the face for dessert?
She'll get all made up and dress well. You two can have a nice dinner and drink, then go home for a nice pie in the face for dessert?
indianbind said: Maybe get your messy setup ready first then take her out for a nice date?
She'll get all made up and dress well. You two can have a nice dinner and drink, then go home for a nice pie in the face for dessert?
She'll get all made up and dress well. You two can have a nice dinner and drink, then go home for a nice pie in the face for dessert?
Best of both worlds.
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My apologies to your partner, I know it's a lot of effort and may seem like a waste, and I actually hate doing my make up and hair but for me it's very nearly the whole point.
The contrast from fully done up to fully messy adds 100x to the rebellion, the decadence, the silliness, the fun, the... everything.
Not a waste. The exact opposite
The contrast from fully done up to fully messy adds 100x to the rebellion, the decadence, the silliness, the fun, the... everything.
Not a waste. The exact opposite
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CandyCustard said: My apologies to your partner, I know it's a lot of effort and may seem like a waste, and I actually hate doing my make up and hair but for me it's very nearly the whole point.
The contrast from fully done up to fully messy adds 100x to the rebellion, the decadence, the silliness, the fun, the... everything.
Not a waste. The exact opposite
The contrast from fully done up to fully messy adds 100x to the rebellion, the decadence, the silliness, the fun, the... everything.
Not a waste. The exact opposite
I couldn't agree more
it is pretty much the whole point for me as well! Don't get me wrong, I'll never turn down an opportunity to get messy, but when you go through the whole process of buying supplies, prepping the mess, and the annoying clean up, I feel like anything less than getting fully done up is kind of a let down. We both get messy and I make sure to put in the appearance effort on my end, but really it only takes me a fraction of the time. I end up doing the majority of the prep with the pies and other messy items, so I think it's a fair trade
indianbind said: Maybe get your messy setup ready first then take her out for a nice date?
She'll get all made up and dress well. You two can have a nice dinner and drink, then go home for a nice pie in the face for dessert?
She'll get all made up and dress well. You two can have a nice dinner and drink, then go home for a nice pie in the face for dessert?
That's a really great idea! Definitely have tried that before and it sometimes works out perfectly. The challenge is making sure you don't have too much food and drink that when you get home all you want to do is just sit on the couch and watch tv
The prep is a bit I like as well as the mess. I remember once my girlfriend at the time, Anne, a sexy busty brunette taking about half an hour getting ready. When she emerged she looked amazing, she had gone a bit ott on the make up, blusher, mascara, foundation, eye liner, false eyelashes, her long dark hair brushed, her all over tan perfect, she had put false square tip acrylic nails on and she had dressed up in a tiny satin French maids uniform, with nothing else on underneath apart from a black suspender belt, which stretched down to the black stockings several inches below the hem of the tiny uniform, the outfit completed with black patent 6 inch stiletto heels.
She looked fantastic and the fact that this total sex bomb was going to be utterly destroyed, ruining the preparation, made it doubly exciting.
If she was just in trackie bottoms it wouldn't have been the same at all!
She looked fantastic and the fact that this total sex bomb was going to be utterly destroyed, ruining the preparation, made it doubly exciting.
If she was just in trackie bottoms it wouldn't have been the same at all!
CandyCustard said: My apologies to your partner, I know it's a lot of effort and may seem like a waste, and I actually hate doing my make up and hair but for me it's very nearly the whole point.
The contrast from fully done up to fully messy adds 100x to the rebellion, the decadence, the silliness, the fun, the... everything.
Not a waste. The exact opposite
The contrast from fully done up to fully messy adds 100x to the rebellion, the decadence, the silliness, the fun, the... everything.
Not a waste. The exact opposite
I'll second this, but mine tends to be done anyway. I have the daily routine down to about 20 minutes from doing it so often so it's not a big deal for me.
The only thing I do differently if I'm about to be wearing all sorts of mess or head for the shower in something nice is use less mascara. Twice now I've had a bit come off and get in my eye and it hurts! One time it left an irritating scratch that took 2-3 days to heal up, so I do this to prevent all the fun from being ruined.
hope said:
I'll second this, but mine tends to be done anyway. I have the daily routine down to about 20 minutes from doing it so often so it's not a big deal for me.
The only thing I do differently if I'm about to be wearing all sorts of mess or head for the shower in something nice is use less mascara. Twice now I've had a bit come off and get in my eye and it hurts! One time it left an irritating scratch that took 2-3 days to heal up, so I do this to prevent all the fun from being ruined.
CandyCustard said: My apologies to your partner, I know it's a lot of effort and may seem like a waste, and I actually hate doing my make up and hair but for me it's very nearly the whole point.
The contrast from fully done up to fully messy adds 100x to the rebellion, the decadence, the silliness, the fun, the... everything.
Not a waste. The exact opposite
The contrast from fully done up to fully messy adds 100x to the rebellion, the decadence, the silliness, the fun, the... everything.
Not a waste. The exact opposite
I'll second this, but mine tends to be done anyway. I have the daily routine down to about 20 minutes from doing it so often so it's not a big deal for me.
The only thing I do differently if I'm about to be wearing all sorts of mess or head for the shower in something nice is use less mascara. Twice now I've had a bit come off and get in my eye and it hurts! One time it left an irritating scratch that took 2-3 days to heal up, so I do this to prevent all the fun from being ruined.
That's a very interesting point about the mascara, my partner hasn't ever complained of it hurting when it breaks down. I'll have to talk to her because I don't ever want her eyes to get scratched, that sounds like it was an awful experience that you went through.
